Pegging

Hi All

What’s everyone take on pegging? We are a couple with open minds. We like trying most things. Wife sends me wild when she strokes my ass with her finger and I also enjoy an odd toy. But thinking about pegging but is this a bit to fare how do open the conversation?

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It’s amazing.

It’s a major part of our relationship now.

The role reversal and power dynamic is great and the actual sensations of being pegged are indescribably wonderful.

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Do you by any chance watch porn together? Maybe that would be a good way to introduce it into a conversation.

I have been looking into it too and found this thread quite helpful: The Lovehoney Forum's Guide to Pegging! (Wiki)

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Totally in same position @Dave0284 so starting conversations in right time !!!

We do watch porn mainly mmmf not cuckold yet but do you see much mm play when it’s mmf etc

@Dave0284
Me and my husband have been pegging a few years now and our sex and live life has never been better

There are a number of things to remember

  • train your bottom - start with small thin dildos and loads of lube and get yourself ready but it takes time to be able to take a good 6 inch dildo (that’s the same for us woman as well)

  • forget the stigma… it’s not gay it’s fun and most men can get fantastic pleasure out if anal

  • talk to her and buy a pegging set together- choose a small dildo to start

  • as a woman she needs to be comfortable in pegging you and communicating is key - too fast and it will hurt you a lot - so talk a lot while your starting

  • possibly consider role reversal- as a man you dress up in lingerie or a skirt / dress - this is a must for us and he has some great outfits- and these have skirts where when he bends over I can peg him easily

Read the forum here - there are lots of men being pegged - enjoy :lovehoney_heart:

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Great tips and training info thank you

Start small and work up! Maybe ask her when she nexts play around with your bum if she’d wanna try pegging it sometime

Cool the training I didn’t really think about butt lol now makes sense

Love being pegged. I worked up to it though during solo play so went up through different sizes of toys. There is a really good beginners sets on LH that allows you to change the size. Let me see if I can find and add the link.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-on-kits/p/lovehoney-beginners-unisex-strap-on-harness-kit-with-5-inch-pegging-dildo/a28425g45838.html

Also we talk about it a lot and that works. Tell her what you like and want to try differently perhaps.

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Did you try anal toys solo initially before any duo play??

Yeah I did. It then helped me understand what size to start with and what else I liked before diving into pegging. I also tried out a few positions during solo to find the ones I enjoyed and now do those during pegging.

Perfect thank you just knowing how to start and where to go

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We have a double ended dildo that we have used together before and she has used butt lugs and vibrators one me before. I have also used a glass dildo on solo play so my ass can take it I think. I do worry a little about the stigma and will she think something else but we have been married 13 years so think she knows me by now.

We had a disaster of a pegging first experience and its ruined the whole vibe.

Rather uninformed we bought a strapless double ender vibrator thing, and a pair of sexy boxers for her to wear. She looked amazing and we were both game on after a very drunk new years eve. None the less the average penis sized weapon did not fit up my virginal hole and eventually I tapped out.

I did some reseach on my own and it appears not alot is going to fit witbout significant training which we dont have time or privacy for. Shes never going to try again and I still fancy the idea but think it needs to remain a fantasy.

When shopping I wanted something that pleased us both, but she didnt get anything out of the pony ebd of the toy and in most scenarios the double enders seem to scale the receivers end as “a bloody good size” for someone like me. Eveynow and then i google micro penis versions :joy::joy: