Hi,
Im really anxious about my penis size, some that have come across my posts so far may be fed up,,,so dont reply if you are,
i measured my snake last night and it was 6 inches long and 4.8 girth
i was wondering whether there are any opinions or advice towards helping me reach my girth goal of 5inches+ ?
btw im 19 and a virgin, i heard the bathmate will do the trick but are there any other herbs/enlagment creams/pills etc that will aid my cock to get meatier ? thanks
You're still young, you don't actually stop growing until you're 21 so you still have time yet. But do you mind me asking why it bothers you so much? There's nothing wrong with your measurements at all.
To put it simply, no. There's nothing you can do to permanently increase your girth. A bathmate does help, but it's not permanent. If there was a pill/cream or something else you could take, you would know about it, because it would probably be very well known and every man would be walking around with a third leg.
Having a bigger penis doesn't mean that a woman would get more pleasure from you. Sometimes a bigger penis can be a bad thing, and can be uncomfortable for a woman. If it's pleasuring a woman that you're worried about, then spend all of your time researching ways to please a woman rather than increasing your penis size. No matter how big your penis is, if you don't know how to use it you might as well just not have one.
Wearing multiple condoms isn't safe, this can make them rip/tear and can open you up to sexually transmitted diseases or unplanned pregnancies.
If all else fails,you could save up for a BMW! (That`s what people unhappy with their size usually do!) 
You sound completely normal to me and has already been mentioned you're still young.
I've not heard of anything that will permanently increase your penis size and to be honest herbs/ creams etc will probably turn out to be a waste of money, a bit like the various products that claim to increase breast size.
Try not to get too hung up on having a big thick penis, as a woman I can tell you that it isn't all women are interested in. Speaking personally I would rather be with a man of average proportions who knows how to please me rather than someone who is massive and thinks that's all that's needed.
As for the bathmate, I think you need to use it everyday to get any benefit and if you stop using it for a while things go back to normal but I'm sure someone else will be able to give you better advice on that or you could read some of the reviews.
Hope this helps
MrsMcX wrote:
Wearing multiple condoms isn't safe, this can make them rip/tear and can open you up to sexually transmitted diseases or unplanned pregnancies.
Mrs is correct! Multiple layers of latex will cause friction that will wear down the material and increase the likeliness of the condom splitting.
You can try penis extenders,they also give you extra girth.
Totally agree with this. You need to take the focus off your penis size; you cannot change it so it is not what you need to be focusing on. To be frank, you're not likely to find a woman who will care that much if you had a huge dong. It doesn't make you a better lover.MrsMcX wrote:
You're still young, you don't actually stop growing until you're 21 so you still have time yet. But do you mind me asking why it bothers you so much? There's nothing wrong with your measurements at all.
To put it simply, no. There's nothing you can do to permanently increase your girth. A bathmate does help, but it's not permanent. If there was a pill/cream or something else you could take, you would know about it, because it would probably be very well known and every man would be walking around with a third leg.
Having a bigger penis doesn't mean that a woman would get more pleasure from you. Sometimes a bigger penis can be a bad thing, and can be uncomfortable for a woman. If it's pleasuring a woman that you're worried about, then spend all of your time researching ways to please a woman rather than increasing your penis size. No matter how big your penis is, if you don't know how to use it you might as well just not have one.
You are still young to be honest women want a man who knows what he's doing in the bedroom, huge is not always a good thing it's how you use you hands kiss, stroke ect these make big difference believe me a man who can excite women with hands even a seductive voice is more wished for than a man who who is huge Sorry if rambled too much.
I can totally get penis insecurities, it's really common in men and i've had my fair share of them, but from someone who's been on both ends of the game as it were, it really isn't that important.
You can't change your size, but if you're wanting to make improvements, you can learn how to be a good lover. A much more valuable and realistic skillset than increasing girth by 0.2 inches.
endowed94 wrote:
i measured my snake last night and it was 6 inches long and 4.8 girth
If I can put this into perspective for you, I own a dildo called the Tantus Hank, which has been on the market for a good few years, and it measures 5 1/2" in usable length, and 4 1/2" in girth around the middle of the shaft.
It's a dildo which I enjoy using, and clearly many others do too or the manufacturer wouldn't keep making it and selling it.
It's natural to have concerns about size, but don't let them get the better of you, because it's really not all that matters.
The Bathmate is good at giving a temporary increase in girth, but I can't attest to the long term results, and ultimately you have to decide if you're willing to spend over £100 on something which might not deliver. Do bear in mind the Lovehoney return policy though; you could buy a Bathmate and use it every day for a whole year, and if you didn't get the size increase you were hoping for then Lovehoney will still refund you in full, so it takes the risk away.
Pills and creams are a con, so just stay away from them altogther.
I'm going to be honest with you - My penis is just a smidge over 6 inches and has a girth of 5 inches. For years I thought that I wasn't big enough - but when I met my husband, I found out we were a similar size (in fact, he's perhaps a fraction bigger) - and he looks and feels enormous, so I certainly now feel alot more comfortable and confident that what i'm 'packing' is more than enough. In fact, you (and me) are in the average penis size category, perhaps just a bit over (as I think the average is actually 5 inches) - so you really do have absolutely NOTHING to worry about - and pumps and creams may provide temporary results - but that is it - TEMPORARY.
You need to be learn to be happy with what you have - it will be more than capable of giving someone pleasure, and at the end of the day - to quote something that has been said thousands of times (because it's the truth) - it's not what you have - it's how you use it.
BE PROUD of what you have and just enjoy having fun with it. Life is too short to be hung up over things that actually, in the grand scheme of things, are insignificant.
Your penis is completely normal and not small at all.
If your having confidence issues relating to it then I would suggest you seek out a therapist to help get over your fears because your problem is your head not your boxers. Im not mocking you when I say that, Its a serious issue but you need to recognise its mental not physical and get the appropriate help.
A far better goal would be working on your leg and butt muscles. It's generally more comfortable for the recipient if a man is able to use his muscles to thrust rather than his weight.
The larger the girth and length, the more care a man needs to take - in other words, the better a lover he needs to be. But it's more often the men with smaller erections who pay that kind of attention.
And listen to Pixieking, Incendiaire and David B. They've all earned my respect many times over. It's great to see them all here. :-)
Remember that your penis always seems smaller to you than to anyone else - as David says, when you see it on someone else it seems huge! It's all to do with perspective and distance.
If you're concerned, find a household object that's 6" long and just under 5" in diameter, and hold it up to your face, etc. You'll realise that you're reasonably well endowed!
rose hip wrote:
A far better goal would be working on your leg and butt muscles. It's generally more comfortable for the recipient if a man is able to use his muscles to thrust rather than his weight.
The larger the girth and length, the more care a man needs to take - in other words, the better a lover he needs to be. But it's more often the men with smaller erections who pay that kind of attention.
And listen to Pixieking, Incendiaire and David B. They've all earned my respect many times over. It's great to see them all here. :-)
Beautifully put rose hip!
rose hip wrote:
And listen to Pixieking, Incendiaire and David B. They've all earned my respect many times over. It's great to see them all here. :-)
=) Thank you for this Rose hip. It's nice to be back.
Speaking as someone who has experienced both huge and tiny penises alike, I have to tell you that the best sex I've ever had was with one of the smallest (plus there was more g-spot stimulation, which let's face it, is never a bad thing). The larger men tended to be more lazy too!
There is nothing sexier than confidence!
Your measurements put you at just a little over average. Which means your penis is larger than at least 50% of males. You cannot permanently increase the size of your penis. There are options to increase the size temporarily, but nothing is permanent. (If a company ever discovered a product that could, they would be squillionaires I swear! lol) So many males worry about this, but you can't change it, so it is fruitless agonising over. Even surgery doesn't actually increase the penis length. They simply sever the tendons (or whatever) that hold some of your penis inside the body, so it hangs out more and looks bigger when flaccid, but it is still the same size when erect as far as I remember reading.
Anyway, I agree with others. Size is not important for being a good lover. Many younger men tend to believe that the most important aspect to good sex revolves around their penis and penetration. This becomes their focus: "I must be bigger and girthier and last longer and longer and fuck harder and quicker" They do this believing this is what women ultimately crave and desire above all else...possible because it is the main focus in porn, or that so many people believe or perpetuate the myth that penis in vagina penetration is the end goal, the ultimate experience, the one true way.
Penis in vagina sex is just one sex act among many. have you considered that having a 6 inch penis will help women to be able to take more of you in their mouth, or that she might find anal sex more comfortable? Have you considered that many women cannot orgasm from penetration alone and therefore would not rate it as high up their "orgasm scale" as oral sex, or being touched? Yeah we love penetration. It feels great because it stimulates the g-spot (Which is only like, 3 inches deep...easy enough for a 6 inch penis to reach).
I don't know about other women, but I suspect this might be true for lots: It is not just physical stimulation we get from sex. A lot of the thrill is mental (feeling connected to our lover, getting turned on listening to his sex sounds, the idea that he is inside us...etc) I would say its 50/50 physical and mental for me and it doesn't matter what size penis he has, the mental thrills are still exactly the same.
I know, as a human, with a body that contains some parts I wish looked differently, that it is very hard to just stop worrying that you "look wrong" in some way. Most of us have this. We are all our own worst critics. However, you need to know that no one is perfect and I can tell you this....when in bed with a woman, she is most likely to be worrying about her own perceived flaws than to be focusing and scrutinising yours. She most likely wouldn't even notice and if she did, she wouldn't care because she actually quite fancies you (or she wouldnt be in your bed)...and if she did care, shes not worth it anyway! (Be with someone who is not so shallow as to critique your normal, human, flawed body) When I slept with my guy for the first time, I cared about him. Love and lust is a funny thing....it makes us overlook and only see the beauty in our partners. Their flaws often become our favourite things because they need more love! lol
I drive a BMW and I am perfectly happy with the size of my Penis thank you! As has already been said it is how you drive it that is important!WillC wrote:
If all else fails,you could save up for a BMW! (That`s what people unhappy with their size usually do!) 