I meant for the choking during a bj lol.
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Hubby wouldnât dare do that to me he just strokes my hair. He knows I bite 
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For all of the âI donât watch that so I am ok with itâ or similar coments, just wait until they ban something you do like. It is coming.
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I am too boring, still if they ban bondage or sexy underwear Iâm buggered, they will probably ban that as well just when we were going to dip our toes into that one.
When all is said and done people will do what they want in the privacy of their own homes
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Whelp, guess I better tell hubby itâs lights off missionary from now on then, and he choked me this morning too after we discussed this, so I best let him know heâs liable for prosecution too
But if you do some reading, and from the Google AI overview I have in front of me, consent is not a legal defense if serious harm is caused. Furthermore, there is a consent clause for non-fatal strangulation, but it does not apply if the choker was negligent or intent on causing harm. In Scotland, however, consent is not a defence at all.
There is another caveat here, folks, and that is that the law is not trying to stop your kinky fun and games: this is only if an assault charge is filed. So basically, be careful who you play with and be careful what you do, whatever you get up to out there.
Do I support the ban? Eh. Itâs monkey see, monkey do behaviour, and sadly there have been too many lives lost to incorrect technique, drink/drugs during play, unsafe limits, lack of/refusal to use a safeword etc. I donât know what the solution is, better education is part of the answer, but you canât make someone sit down and listen to a âsafe chokingâ workshop.
My post on the choking kink, by the way, for anyone who wants a read: What's Your Kink? Choking - Ten Shades & Me
Hmm where do they intend to draw the line on this?! As many porn clips have some sort of moment where one or the other puts hand(s) on neck but donât strangle or anything⌠I can see this is the governmentâs way to take further control over people after the age verification crap backfired.
And for it to be taken under the same as child abuse and terrorism is just plain ridiculous to the extent of pure incompetence! Has nothing at all to be linked in with them things 
The whole idea of this I personally think is again too far and a deterrent to tighten control over peopleâs privacy and minds so it in long run adds to our repression which for some will lash out in criminal activity or creating such fantasies for themselves as they canât indulge in it from a safely created porn clipâŚ
If they go ahead with this and see that they can implement such control, it wonât be long before they then make more things illegal on that list such as role play scenes like student and teachers or medical professionals or office boss/employee, even bdms porn!!
They will not stop at this till porn on a whole is illegal in uk.
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Totally correct - while consensual bondage / spanking and play is good trying to choke a person is beyond wrong and many schools have started teaching to pupils itâs acceptable if done properly..
no .. dangerous and wrong
@batjamboree what schools are these?
Also what about RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) or PRICK (Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink)? Itâs not your cup of tea and I appreciate that but Iâve also seen things in the community that I personally have no interest in (pegging being a prime example) but I just accept that my yuck is another personâs yum and move on. All of kink is âwrongâ and some of it arguably dangerous too, thatâs kind of why we like it.
I donât want to argue with you, I just think calling someoneâs yum âwrongâ is unfair. Not everyone is dangerous and some people take their kink safety very seriously 
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Indeed, and that defence had been used many times, be it choking or generally rough sex.
You kill them, you pay the price. Sounds as fair as can be without having them chocked to death themselves.
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The story was in May this year (bbc news) where it was endorsed as a sexual practice
Each to their own but itâs too dangerous for my liking
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I was curious so tried to find it⌠and succeeded: Bridgend council criticised for sex strangulation presentation plan - BBC News
The article says it was part of a draft presentation that was then dropped, so It wasnât taught to anyone. Not trying to defend the attempt to endorse choking during sex to schoolchildren of course, but felt like a good idea to clarify that it doesnât appear to actually be taught or encouraged.
I canât believe that someone actually got as far as to draw up a draft presentation on it to give to children. Who in their right mind would think that it was a good idea.
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Itâs a difficult one. On the one hand, promoting it as ok is a bad idea, but there are a lot of teens trying it so isnât it better that the understand the risks involved rather than them just try to copy what theyâve seen (or guess from what theyâve heard) and really cause damage?
I donât care about that personally. Not into being suffocated. But then I donât watch porn at all, since the age verification came in. All the stuff Iâve liked over the years is all up there in my head. I just have to close my eyes to see my favourite gangbang.
First time I heard of this was a woman, i think it was a jubilee clip, a mother of 3. Said she liked cnc, I had to look it up, its short for consentual non-consent. Apprantly women are into it.
itâs bizarre how how overreaching some of the laws are. Just barrell through loads of laws and keep people distracted from online IDs and other draconian stuff.
Itâs just a kink people have. no worse than seeing SA/murder etc in a film.
People assume this scenes are âtoxic masculinityâ, but women are into this stuff just as much as men. BDSM inlves this sort of stuff and BDSM requires to consenting parties to be involved, men and women.
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Not all women are into CNC or BDSM, just saying.
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I understand that as people consume more and more they will always want the next best thing as stuff gets âboringâ. But banning stuff has never really worked, if anything people will go underground for material or act things out as they canât get a fix.
As with anything sexual, I think people just need educating. As a dominant, I have had several partners who enjoyed choking and similar as part of BDSM ⌠but itâs not actually caused harm and been done with a safety word and plenty of communication and precautions. Itâs an extreme act, but it shouldnât mean if two consenting adults enjoy something they will be punished for it.
Education is the key thing missing, teaching the current and next generation that porn is a movie, itâs acting and itâs done with a full crew and script. The people involved are consenting and itâs all under strict guidelines. Iv watched movies where people do absolutely diabolical stuff but I wouldnât go and do it myself as I know they are actors. Itâs a shame that instead of fixing things, they just take stuff away. Removing the ability to educate and understand.
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Letâs also ban jiu jitsu, because yâknow, choking.
Iâm being a little facetious of course, but it makes my point.
I agree.
Unfortunately,however, I am seeing that no matter how many good points you make to some, or how many facts you present, there will always exist those that are eager to give their rights up to the government for the promise off a lesser burdon of responsibility. It is sad and frightening.