Ok so Ive been with my OH for over a year now and we have never watched porn together. Partly because Ive never really watched it.
While in a sex shop with a friend I confessed this and the woman who worked there over heard and offered to help. Consiquently I left with a soft porn dvd took it home and was very dissapointed.
Can anyone point me in a direction which might help? x 
my OH isnt too big a fan of porn as its mostly hard core and she wants something more sensual..she has now become enamoured with x-art which is basically videos of couples making love rather than "screwing" as it were....
Yeah, X-Art is a good one for a more intimate scene, but that's still full on sex.
A film called Life-Love-Lust was one that the missus actually pointed out to me as something she would be more interested in. Sadly I haven't gotten my hands on it yet, but certainly have a look yourself and see if that's something that interests you.
oh absolutely its still sex, or rather a vid of a couple (or more ) making love - but its very sensual and for my OH who dislikes hardcore she gets off on it quite a bit
I've recently become quite a fan of vids from Daring!. They are part of the Beate Uhse sex aids etc group. A lot of quite off the wall, sensual stuff, not your typical grunt & groan stuff- but hard core none the less The wife likes them.. 
I think if you have never watched porn before but you want to introduce it to your sex life you should go on some porn websites yourself if you and your boyfriend are both fine with it and see what turns you on, get used to what does it for you and then once you know you will know what type of porn you like, you can watch it together instead of just watching things that dont do it for you!
I just read that back and thought it doesn't make sense..I hope it does 
we love making our own "home" movies!
The abbywinters.com website is girl-girl porn but very natural. No fake boobs, blonde hair extensions and growling at the camera!! It is a pay per month website but has a few short videos to watch for free to see if you like them. If so but don't want to subscribe, the abby winters dvds can be purchased from simplypleasurexxx website for about £20 each. The girl-girl stuff on here is more sensual and less rough so it's more couples friendly.
It all depends on what turns you on, all varietys are catered for these days. To be honest, soft porn is not really porn as such is it? Try some vintage 70s or 80s US, french, Italian or Scandinavian films. Soft on the eye, and yes quite corny, but still hard-core and a real turn on. Readily available on the net or in a good sex shop
Didi, best start with something you know you like and which turns you on. Maybe just look at stuff for yourself first online. I rarely watch porn with hubby because we like different things. But the thought of filming ourselves turns me on loads but i doubt it would him, so its not for everyone i guess. But as said before, its gotta be worth a try.
must admit that there is a male performer who really turns me on called "James Deen". he usually does rougher sex and more of the BDSM stuff but he can make chemistry with most people he works with ( i.e lots of kissing and eye contact with the girl and some dirty talk and things). generally if it's someone i would probably go for in real life and they're not too bad on screen it will be fun.
yeah james deen has the best job ever...
DrtyBoy wrote:
yeah james deen has the best job ever...
he's good at it though. I'd rather watch people who want to enjoy it and actually care about the other performer than some disembodied male torso and a woman who is constantly moaning and looking into the camera!
u are right, i do enjoy JD's movies a lot, he does seem to get a good performance out of it every time and makes it enjoyable for both sexes to watch -
i know a friend who enjoys Nacho Vidal's vids but he is SO rough and aggresive its not really my thing.
I've never watched porn with anyone, even my wife. So a year is nothing, try *counts* 15 years of relationships. Just never happened. We tried to find something last year that we could both enjoy together, but there just isn't much out there that works for us.