Preference... Big Boobs, Big Bum or Small Boobs, Small Bum?

Miss_V wrote:

I have a nice bum, not small but not fat - I have 35" hips too so I am curvy on the bottom but I don't have any breasts (34 A). Threads like this always depress the hell out of me, should probably put off reading them until I've had breast implants.

I wouldn't worry. It's all about perspective, some women are naturally more curvy and as such have bigger boobs. Equally, taller women with a larger frame will have bigger breasts than shorter women with a smaller frame.

I like curves, but in an age where everywhere you turn you're faced with big breasts and massive cleavage it can actually get a bit samey. I'm sure you wouldn't want to, but if you look at the average model or porn star she'll have big (often fake) breasts and it's all a bit much.

There is still very much a place for women with smaller breasts - especially if they have a cute bum to go with them ;-) And as I've said before, it isn't just about what you've got, it's how you show it off and use it too.

*Perspective and proportion I mean


thank you ste, im delighted that you said theres much place for woman with smaller boobs and a cute bum :) and trust me i use it hehe

Glad to hear it ;-)

I've got what some men have commented on as massive boobs-about an E cup I think, and an apparently very nice bum. I don't spend time looking at my backside though so I take their word for it!

Let's face it, men like women-unless they like men of course! Fat, thin, big, small, wobbly or toned-it's personality and confidence that are more attractive than any physique.

Well, unless you're a mindless imagine obsessed tosser who doesn't care about the person, and just wants eye candy!

For the point of this thread, incidentally, I'd like smaller boobs and a waist-mother nature is so cruel to women!

nice purpleflo, your body sounds awesome!!! although dont forget that us women also like women too!

Good point HC4U!

Women are so analytical and often downright nasty about other women's bodies though. Does that ever cause problems for you?

not really to be honest purpleflo......I (and my bf) are interested in lots of different shapes and sizes and really the most important thing is that we all enjoy ourselves and the sex with others. Yes people may say that im too tiny being a size 6 to 8 but i dont care there will always be someone who finds me attractive. I do have a pretty face which helps tho (if that dosent sound too arrogant)

well i have DD boobies and a big arse (sadly :( lol) so im guessing my other half likes big boobs and big bums, i on the other hand would love to keep my boobies the size they are but have a smaller arse i.e no arse what so ever! lol

i love my mans bottom! its just the right size and i love his little belly aswell, :P

Dxx

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diamonds ur pic looks like you have an awsome ass!!! hehe tell you what il inspect you and your mans features close up :) and let everyone know!! x

thats not me in the pic! lol

and my mans arse is for my eyes and pleasure only :P and mine his lol

Dxx

hehe thats cool hun, but im sure you lovely anyway!! x

hc4u, you're just too kind to everyone-what a sweetie!

We women are so rarely happy with everything we have-it's always too big or too small or something.

I'm just happy to have a man who loves me as I am and have the knowledge that others find me sexy too.

That'll do for me I reckon! :-) x

hehe wel wat else is ther hun!! as long as your happy and enjoy your sex life you should be :)

i dont think wel ever be truely happy with our bodies so u just got to use what you have. i wish I had bigger boobs but hey shit happens!

Im sure your gorgeous hun....i was thinking bout putting some face pics up of us but jus bit worried cus of our careers!

i think no women (well most) is ever truly happy with her body, i know im not and i never have been. but after one thread on here (the thread about posting pictures of ourselfs on here) it made me feel much better bout myself as no women looked liked what you see in the mags, infact everyone looked more normal and healthy and like me.

Dxx

thats right diamonds! the magazines are idyllic not to mention airbrushed and promote the 'fantasy' look or look that society says we should achieve. The pics of the members on here show that to be wrong and I for one find the pics on her more of a turn on than those in magazines....its reality!!!!!

It's ridiculous really innit-almost every bloke you'll ever talk to will say that he prefers his women with curves and 'something to grab hold of.' And yet still the glossy mags continue to bombard us with images of unrealistic women, airbrushed to within an inch of their lives which keeps the myth alive that women should be thin to be considered attractive.

I've shared pics of me with a few online 'chums' recently and the response I've had has always been overwhelmingly positive. I've always had low self esteem and been very much lacking in confidence in my body, but the opinions of these real people has helped my ego and self esteem no end.

I'd love a slightly smaller body in some areas, but more than that I think I'd just like to be able to afford nice clothes in my size.

Fashion is designed by gay men who hate women-I heard that somewhere but can't remember where! lol

Fashion is designed by gay men who hate women-I heard that somewhere but can't remember where! lol

that would explane so much if it is true lol

Dxx

Big boobs please and a butt to match , curves rule

proportional boobs proportional bum ... in proportion to my hands that is lol