Way over my head and really out of my comfort zone.
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I definitely think for me that mood is a massive factor. I find I have to be completely in the moment to achieve a prostate orgasm. Never easy with my stressed head. As soon as I start āchasing itā itās a no go.
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The anal orgasm is the best sensation there is. I had one with my bf today that lasted so long I was shaking and I cried at the end. I felt so tired. My ex wife used to watch me with men and loved how loud I was and I changed pitches when I orgasm
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That sounds amazing!! 
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I need to find out what this p-spot ogasm is like i dont know if ive had one i have had the legs shaking and my toes curling but just thought that was the norm if anyone can help what ime looking for much appreciated 
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Ive done the estim befor and alway thought about a estim butt plug would love to here your feed back 
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Thanks for that think i will give this a go intresting read
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Iām guessing by radio silence then the spinning thing may just be me then!
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@FindingLibido my rotating vibrating prostate massager is pretty good but I think itās a bit too small for me.
When I have on vibrating and rotating it does want to escape hehe.
I either hold it in place deep, or find a posting to keep it in or use some string pulled up underneath it.
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I used a dildo for the first time recently and it gave an amazing orgasm. Was reccomender to buy a prostate massager which i did but it hasnt provided the same result. The dildo was much larger than the prostate maasager though
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Sooo really getting the hang of my njoy pure wand now. 4 orgasms in a row last night. It really is my new favourite thing. Especially when itās cold at first. Wow 
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Sounds amazing 
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Whatās the secret? I literally feel nothing whatever I do - apart from some discomfort getting the big end in!!
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I donāt know if there is a secret. Key things for me are being very relaxed generally and very horny. Mrs H helps a great deal once relaxed and horny I find the larger end is easier for me to start although Iām normally pretty stretched and ready lol. Then to be honest itās all pretty much just slow movements across my prostate. Sometimes just the weight of it and inner movements are enough. As I get closer I can feel my prostate and just apply a little more pressure or sometimes I canāt resist a fast but small rubbing against my prostate to get me over the edge. Once Iāve come once it seems pretty easy to just keep it going although last night was a PB I think 
i also find the smaller end is really good after too as it seems easier to locate and pleasure myself.
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Are you touching your cock at the same time? There seems to be mixed thoughts as to whether this is counter productive.
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Corrr! I am soooo missing out. I bought the
Lovehoney Booty Buddy 7 Function Vibrating Butt Plug 4 Inch
(https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/on/demandware.store/Sites-lvhn-uk-Site/en-GB/Product-Show?pid=74400) a few months ago, hoping to experience this amazing Super-O, but it never happened. After several uses, I didnāt feel anything close to an orgasmic sensation or anything really pleasurable.
I conclude that this is just not for me. BUT ā¦ could it be that this vibrating prostate massager is just not hitting the spot? Would I be better investing in a different model?
Thanks for any tips.
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A few nights ago the wife was tired and in a little bit of pain, so she ended up going to bed early. I was feeling horny and had a THC/CBD edible earlier that was kicking in, so I resolved to try using the steel wand per @UKlovingcoupleās suggestion.
While I did not achieve orgasm, I was able to get some really good sensations and kept getting pre-cum to flow. I think I was fairly close a few times, but I was in the bathroom and standing/squatting and trying not to be too noisy. I had thought about doing all of this in bed next to my wife, but didnāt want to disturb her sleeping.
Something I think I realized with my body is that the best sensations were when the wand was pretty deep/far inside of me. This seems odd as I thought the prostate gland was typically fairly close to the opening of the anus, such that a finger should be able to touch if once inserted or that even massaging around the perineum could do the trick , but that usually doesnāt do much for me. Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is my grasp of male anatomy just rubbish?
In my experience itās around 3 inches or so inside. For me the best p-spot sensations come from gently drawing the tip of the njoy wand from inside to out, so pulling from about 4inches deep to around 3inches.
Approximately mind! Iām generally not sitting around with the tape measure 
Thereās a different point near the entrance which is pleasurable, but really quite different. Where the muscles and the base of the penis meet, basically. I think I read some where that the bit just on the outside where the perineum meets the anus is known as the āblack pearlā in some eastern tradition (anyone else heard this?). Stimulating this but from the inside is a pretty strong extra bonus while the penis is getting attention.
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I tend to touch it to get aroused and then leave alone. If Iām wanting a prostate orgasm and I touch my penis it tends to take my mind off the job in hand 
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Iād definitely agree with these ball park figures lol. Yeah I agree the back to front thing is really pleasurable. @ScorpioDaddy I donāt think this is weird as when I get really close I sometimes go deeper. I think I read somewhere that itās like hitting the back of the prostate but hell I donāt know, just know it feels damn good.
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