Based on another recent tread I am interested to know how many people, (women in)particular want (essential)their partner to be completely smooth down there to the extent that they wouldn't do oral unless it the area was hair free? Has this caused you problems in relationship as a result?
I do not want my male partner(s) to be completely smooth. I prefer a medium trim above the penis so I can get clitoral stimulation during sex, and the rest should be smooth (shaved, waxed, whatever). I rarely ever meet a partner who has the 'hairdo' I prefer down there, but everyone so far has been accomodating to my preferences. It has never been an issue and it hasn't caused any problems in the relationship.
My wife prefers me trimmed, short enough so no short and curly's come out during oral but not completely shaved.
So Smultron there have been a few that you did have to approach the subject with?Smultron wrote:
I do not want my male partner(s) to be completely smooth. I prefer a medium trim above the penis so I can get clitoral stimulation during sex, and the rest should be smooth (shaved, waxed, whatever). I rarely ever meet a partner who has the 'hairdo' I prefer down there, but everyone so far has been accomodating to my preferences. It has never been an issue and it hasn't caused any problems in the relationship.
I am currently styling a landing strip on my wife. I have a small square . Much better to be trimmed than full bush. I have to trim there other wise my wife won't see my tattoo which hair would cover.
My various boyfriends have had a mix from hairy, trimmed and smooth. My boyfriend now (long term) is completely smooth and prefers it this way. I wouldn't mind too much either way but I defintely do like him smooth down there.
MalRoss wrote:
So Smultron there have been a few that you did have to approach the subject with?
Yes. With some potential partners we've talked about it even before getting intimate for the first time. With other partners I brought it up (if needed) after being intimate for the first time. For me, it's simply practical. If he's shaved or trimmed ver short above the penis it's painful for me. If he's got a full bush, hairy balls or butt, I get to fish out pubes from my mouth after oral, and I'm not into it.
I will of course do my best to trim/ shave as they prefer as well. Unless they want a full bush - this isn't going to happen. 
Smultron if we were intermate I'd need to grow some back! What do you usually sport? I prefer fully shavedSmultron wrote:
MalRoss wrote:
So Smultron there have been a few that you did have to approach the subject with?Yes. With some potential partners we've talked about it even before getting intimate for the first time. With other partners I brought it up (if needed) after being intimate for the first time. For me, it's simply practical. If he's shaved or trimmed ver short above the penis it's painful for me. If he's got a full bush, hairy balls or butt, I get to fish out pubes from my mouth after oral, and I'm not into it.
I will of course do my best to trim/ shave as they prefer as well. Unless they want a full bush - this isn't going to happen.
Smultron if we were intermate I'd need to grow some back! What do you usually sport? I prefer fully shavedSmultron wrote:
MalRoss wrote:
So Smultron there have been a few that you did have to approach the subject with?Yes. With some potential partners we've talked about it even before getting intimate for the first time. With other partners I brought it up (if needed) after being intimate for the first time. For me, it's simply practical. If he's shaved or trimmed ver short above the penis it's painful for me. If he's got a full bush, hairy balls or butt, I get to fish out pubes from my mouth after oral, and I'm not into it.
I will of course do my best to trim/ shave as they prefer as well. Unless they want a full bush - this isn't going to happen.
I prefer my husband to shave smooth. We both are smooth and love being this way, especially in the summer when we both go commando. We love naturist beaches and sauna. Being smooth in these locations is the norm, in fact to see a bush is quite rare but my husband likes to see one as it’s different from what he usually sees at home.
For me trimmed is always better because it avoids that chicken skin look and ingrown hairs. Trimmed can be done with a graduated in landing strip, which looks nice.
I actually like hair on a man down there I like the look and feel. Never been with a hairless man below before but I personally never want OH to go hairless.
I prefer men to be shaved or at least trimmed. I'm not being funny but my face spends a long time down there, so i think it's just a courtesy!
While I can appreciate the esthetic appeal of completely smooth women I also like to see a carefully maintained lady garden. My OH likes my three piece suite shaved below (helps with mild cbt) but a trimmed estate above.
One day, when I am king, I will introduce legislation to outlaw red haired women from removing their pubes. Why would you remove your crowning glory? Well... maybe not crowning, but you know what I mean.
i myself prefer to be smooth at all times as does my wife the way she said it was i aint going down there and coming back up with a full grown beard and mustach
I like to be shaved, pretty much all the time. However I like a man to be hairy (in general). I love a hairy chest. A trim around the bits is good but other than that natural is what I prefer.
I think trimmed but not hairless 🙂 neat and tidy but still something there! That’s for both males and females 🙂
I have shaved my OH many times before we had kids but since then she hs always preferred to let it grow. She naturally doesn't have a full bush anyway for some reason, so it doesn't really bother me, although I do prefer shaved. However, I do trim her lips on a regular basis to keep things nice and tidy and it does make for a sensational oral session afterwards!!
I trim myself just because I prefer the feeling, not fully shaven though. OH doesn't mind either way
I like a full bush on a woman , there again my fisrst memory of seeing a naked woman , was back in the 70's , when I found my Dad's porn "stash " !!! If you're over ertain age , you'll understand !
I’m totally shaved and so is my partner, we both prefer it that way, I must admit tho I dont mind a little landing strip but nothing more