I’ve just received my pussy pump through the post and want to surprise my husband when he gets home from work tonight. I’ve never used one before, can anyone help with any tips for a first timer? Like how long I leave it on, how often throughout the day for the best results etc?
I get really swollen and wet over him anyway, so I’m not sure how much difference it’ll make but I want to try.
Thanks in advance!
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I have one but I use it for pleasure rather than appearance. I’m sure someone with more experience will be along shortly but in the meantime, the amount of time to use the pump will vary from person to person. I would suggest you have some fun with it, try it gently for just a few seconds to start with, see how it feels, let things recover (go back to normal colour and size) and then go again for a longer time or with more intensity until you find something that works for you. Don’t forget that you can always increase the time and suction in future uses but you don’t want to overdo it and end up feeling uncomfortable by leaving it on too long the first time! Oh and, if you don’t have a vibrating pump, try holding a vibrator / wand against the pump while you’re using it, that way you get to enjoy the process even more! This is just my experience and I’m quite sensitive so a couple of minutes is enough for me at the moment.
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This is good to know, thank you! It’s something we’ve talked about trying after filling in a ‘yes, no, maybe’ list - and now it’s reality I definitely don’t want to overdo it or put us off on the first try! Thanks so much for your reply x
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Just thinking that I know a few other members of the forum have a pump because I remember discussing it previously. I’ll tag @Peitho @JoCat and @MsSubExperimenter as I think they might be able to help. (Sorry if I’ve got that wrong). You could also try searching for pussy pump in the forum and see if there are any previous threads that might be helpful. Or maybe read some of the reviews of the pump you have and see if any of those are helpful.
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Thank you! I’ve had a browse on the forum and taken a few tips away, I think building up is definitely going to be the way forward. Thank you for your reply
Hi, I do have a pussy pump though its been a long time since I’ve used it, thanks for the reminder!. The pump didn’t do anything to the appearance of my vulva although when you read reviews people will say it did for them, I didn’t have that experience. For me its the heightened sensitivity, I leave it on, from memory about 15 mins and just do other things in the meantime. It makes me very sensitive, like I can feel the air but then touch needs to be gentle so as not to hurt. I love oral after using the pump. I also bought the 3 pack nipple and clitoral pumps, the suck up everything in the vicinity, so placement is very important! But I find that works better on my clit.
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I have a few, though, like @JoCat don’t tend to use them very often. As part of BDSM and power play, they’re fantastic, but for solo use, they don’t do a lot for me. Yes, they make everything super sensitive but I prefer it when it’s just my clit so tend to reach for a Melt of Womanizer if I’m solo. Appearance wise, for me, it depends a bit on which pump you use, but with the Bloom, yes, huuuuuge vulva!!! Personally, a bit disconcerting but it does go down eventually 
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This is my review of the Bloom, which goes into quite a bit of detail. Any questions, feel free to ask.
I think @Kitty-Cat01 advice for your first night was excellent 
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Thank you so much for your replies.
As far as first times go we had so much fun and I definitely felt more sensitive which I didn’t think could be possible! Experimenting is all part of the fun but the timescales and what else we can do are really good takeaways. Excited to delve into this more
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