I don’t think I’m on my own on this but is anyone else obsessed with pleasuring your partner and making sure they are satisfied first? Don’t get me wrong, I love nothing more than a sensual BJ but whenever we are in the bedroom I just crave my wife and could spend hours bringing her to orgasm, particularly with foreplay. I particularly love going down on her and giving her back to back orgasms and her being so wet.
Getting her off brings me as much pleasure if not more than any act on me. I’m not sure if this is a kink and I’m only just realising lol
i couldn’t agree with you more i love going down on Mrs H and can be their all night if she’d let me but apparently you can have to much of a good thing. she ends up telling me to stop so i have to come up for some air and let her have a play with me. i’d personally rather keep going and pushing her through the orgasm boundaries.
I have always prioritized giving my partner as much pleasure as possible, often to my own disadvantage. Not being in the moment, and going for my own orgasm has sometimes prevented me from getting any orgasm at all. I love making my wife cum, as much and often as she can enjoy it. These days, she struggles to reach orgasm, and so in the moment, just enjoying whatever pleasurable sensations we can have is just as important as reaching the peak. Bringing toys into the mix might bring back some of the orgasmic bliss, that has yet to be explored fully.
Absolutely agree. For me it’s absolutely joyous to see my wife getting pleasure out of what I’m doing for her. I crave it. There is just something magical about seeing your partner in extasy. It’s incredibly sexy.
I’m glad it’s not just me! Lol I could spend hours on end pleasuring her. It’s like a craving! Particularly love it when she takes control gives me very clear instructions
Definitely agree @peggly seeing your partner orgasm is incredible. Knowing you are giving her that feeling is so hot.
Yep, I’m a pleasure submissive, my husband is a pleasure Dominant. Basically I like pleasing him and he likes rocking my world and leaving me with no energy to brat lol.
So, let me start by saying that my husband will get his rocks off by the end of this. He absolutely will, I’ll see to it.
However, he gets so much pleasure out of working my body, that if I just focussed on him, it would over so soon and a lesser experience for us both.
So, in the early part of a session or act, I do focus on me, because getting me to cum etc is harder than getting him to. If I focus on the act and what he’s doing to me, it just escalates it, it makes the act more massive, and ultimately more spectacular, and that then makes his pleasure so much more.
And then, if he needs my focus, he’ll absolutely get it. He doesn’t usually, he just carries on working me.
So actually, in order to put his pleasure first, I do actually have to focus on me, so I’m doing both in some ways. Call me Schrödinger’s slut!
Yes , this has been me since before my first wife , multiple girlfriends and continue with my wife for almost 39 years . It can be difficult for me to get excited without me first pleasing her .
100% hearing and seeing him enjoy himself, and having the attention fully on him is so exciting, I’d say it enhances my own pleasure knowing he’s satisfied.
