Wife comes first. Says it all.
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I always make sure mrs bustywife has a couple of orgasms before i do. Ladies first.
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Yeah 100%. The act of pleasuring is amazing. So much so that sometimes I feel close to cumming just by going down her.
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It’s such a pleasure just hearing gf moan as she gets wetter and wetter and she climaxes time after time
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I think from the onset of my sexual life after I was with a cougar, I make sure every gal cums first (multiple times usually) before I allow myself to cum. The cougar thought me how to please a woman and I’ve never looked back. There is a selfish reason: my BD is so girthy that I usually end up biting my lip to stave off my orgasm. If my partner cums multiple times they rarely mention my stamina (other than my tongue and lips). I still try to hold off as long as possible but it really is difficult. With Some women it’s like trying to put a champagne cork back into the bottle..
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I definitely tend to lean more towards making sure the other person is pleasured before I think of myself as I know i struggle as it is with climaxing being on antidepressants so is easier for me to focus on them, but i then find often their pleasure is seeing me pleasured 
I am exactly this way, and i’m a woman. I’ve actually faked it before because my partner hasn’t been enjoying it enough. I get off on the guy enjoying it and that’s exactly what I think about when I take care of myself and that’s what sends me over the edge. If I’ve ever fantasised about getting it on with a woman, it’s exactly the same situation too.
Unfortunately, in past relationships that’s what has left me unsatisfied, but then I still think just because someone doesn’t want to use their parts, doesn’t mean they can’t use their hands and mouth? Sometimes honestly I wish I’d be more selfish as selfish women seem to be the most satisfied!? X
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I do prefer to make my missus reach her o first but regardless I always get her off at least once,if I’m going down on her I really think I enjoy doing it as much as she loves receiving it but she also enjoys me to go down on her after I’ve finished sometimes and will ask for it but either way we both end happy
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I agree, having her exhibiting pleasure gets me going. I actually find little pleasure in just going for my own, though my wife encourages me to do so. It’s difficult if not impossible for me to orgasm if I feel she isn’t enjoying it. That would be a lot like fucking my ex wife, who never uttered a sound, there were times I would pause to see if she was awake and breathing during sex. Which made me feel totally in adequate, though I know it was just her problem.
100% agree with you! I think it sounds like you just love your wife more than it being a kink 
My husband and i are the same! Being focused on your partners pleasure is one of the best things in my opinion 
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We could do with more people like you. A lot of people promise this and that and don’t actually do it…
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I feel the same way. I enjoy my pleasure, however alot of the arousal and fun for me is knowing my partner is having a great time and getting off.
Same with porn, I want to see the woman enjoying herself. Don’t care nearly as much for the guy. I hate that so much porn spends half the time showing the guy getting a blowjob and he spends no time on giving the woman any foreplay and just a quick stabbing before cumming. I want to see genuine orgasms from the woman and active enjoyment from her when watching a scene. Big turn off for me when she looks bored as hell while the guy bangs away like a Neanderthal.
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My wife’s pleasure is ALWAYS top priority! I must admit however, that I do on occasion feel a little jealous? The fact that a lot of women can enjoy multiples, yet most of us poor blokes can only really climax once per performance can sometimes feel a little unfair..? 
I often find myself trying my hardest (inadvertent pun?) to NOT go over the edge, or to enjoy myself too much, purely so I get to watch, hear & feel her climax, over & over again! It does sometimes feel a little 1-sided, but I’m almost uncontrollably urged/determined to get her there multiple times, every intimate occasion. I guess some of us are just wired that way?
In my own headspace though, I think having properly satisfied her & given my absolute best, it can really feel like it’s own reward..? It’s only once I’m confident she’s totally happy that I’ll sort of “give myself permission” to come, if that makes any sense? She often wants us to climax simultaneously, which is amazing in it’s own right, but even in those moments, I find I’m almost always doubting myself, or rather my performance as to whether I’ve done enough to deserve it?
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I do really enjoy seeing her getting off and love licking every bit of her juices up after her orgasm,I usually do lick her to orgasm before any piv most of the time,recently she’s become very fond of sitting on my face for another orgasm after I’ve finished inside her which gives her a very strong orgasm and has lead to a fair few occasions of round two from me becoming turned on again after this,
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100% her first
We are big fans of facesitting but not tried it after I’ve finished inside her. Need to add that to the bucket list! Lol but facesitting is my ultimate preferred way to make her cum.
She loves to orgasm riding my face and then rub my face in her pussy juice. Heaven.
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We both get more turned on by pleasuring the other. My wife usually starts on me, which turns her on. Then I pleasure her, which gets me going even more!
It goes on like this to the inevitable happens for both of us 
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Nothing better than watching her in the throws of orgasm. Love watching her writhe about, moaning and screaming. Rather she came than me but she makes sure she sees me cum when she finishes and becomes to sensitive to continue . Turns me on just thinking about her coming.
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First time I’d ever gone down after finishing inside her I was abit hesitant,was a lot younger and we’d not been together too long,she’d tormented life out of me one evening on a date and told me to enter her before any oral etc when we got to bedroom so I did and finished too quickly,she’d not finished so obviously I wanted her to orgasm and went down on her (I’d never done this to anyone after finishing inside before),she absolutely loved it so it’s something that has happened often now and I don’t bat eye at doing it, Facesitting has become a more regular thing with us, incorporate fact she loves being eaten after I’ve finished inside her and she “feels in control” sat on my face it’s something that gets us both some real pleasure and enjoyment
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Watching my wife’s pleasure is by far the biggest pay off for sex for me. she finds it easier to relax and just ‘be’ when she’s blindfolded, so one of my favourite things to do is a mixture of an erotic massage, straight up playing with my wife and sitting back to watch her play with herself. My love language is very much service and acts of devotion, so getting to take that in to the bedroom means a lot of pampering.
She’s also somewhat sub, so combining that with gentle domination make for a bloody wonderful evening if that domination means edging her.
One of my biggest fantasies is to watch my wife being pleasure by another man or woman, not because I want to be cuckolded or humiliated, but because I want the space and clarity without getting lost in the moment to really watch her in the throes of sexual pleasure.
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