That’s exactly why we started sharing with others. To be able to sit and watch without being involved is sublime.
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Despite not having had any experience myself with a partner I definitely think that when the time is right I will definitely put my partners pleasure before my own whether that be getting them off with clit rubbing, oral, penetration etc etc
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Sorry to be disagreeable. But in some cases it simply doesn’t work that way.
I happily give my wife multiple orgasms. Cant get it up much because of ED. Oh how I wish I could!
Problem is, she’s just not interested unless I were able to get it up. When we met she advertised that “she swallows”. I thought it was cool as my prior wife did. It was amazing. Then she died. Sigh…
This woman USED to do them, but she’s impatient. After maybe 30 seconds in she’s like “can you give me a hand here?”
At that point I think I’d just rather masturbate. After all, what’s really the difference if you just end up doing it anyway.
Ahh well. Enough whining for now
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I totally get that feeling, I was in the same boat, it’s like you want to please the other person and get off on it but at the same time they ndglect you, it’s like you’re invisible. And the frustration is crazy.
I don’t get as well a blow job where it’s done with hands. i’m of the belief it’s got to be mouth and throatfrom start to finish, but then that’s just me 
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I was more speaking in general and from my own experiences. Personally I get as much pleasure, giving him pleasure, if not more. I’m happy to put his needs before mine - I’ve never got bored, been impatient or treated him like that. Food in his stomach and empty balls is my motto.
I live by: You get out, what you put in. If you want more, give more. Unfortunately in a some relationships, it’s completely different and doesn’t work like that 
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Always 
I’m touching her down there during foreplay and she always has an intense orgasm. She is not ignoring me during that, and we get very hot, and we really get it on, then.