Most men on here myself included have an overwhelming desire to swallow our cum , but after orgasm the desire goes away. My question is why is this so? Do we desire to do this as it seems so dirty and after orgasm to we feel ashamed that we would want to do something that may be seen as gay? Do the ladies who swallow do it before orgasm and then go off the idea as well? It does seem a huge contrast from really wanting do do it to -- not doing that
I fined the same thing I want do it but after orgasm I lose it but now I can control it and it's better when you are told do it 👍
Definitely agree.. I've always wanted to do this but I never had the guts / urge afterwards - not really sure why.... Maybe it's hard wired as males generally release all sorts of hormones and all so maybe that affects it.
Perhaps it's just the post-orgasm hormones and brain giving you that "nah" attitude. Even though I'm a girl, I don't usually feel the urge to continue with anything else after I come. I know we can have multiple orgasms and all that, but one does it for me as I'm too tired to carry on. I just can't be bothered, lol.
I'd imagine it's some form of genetic throwback to our animalistic desire to fuck and move on to something else.
First off there is no connection between being gay and swollowing your own cum, any more than a man who enjoys anal play, or pegging. Would you label a woman a lesbian for tasting her own honey; I doubt it. But why should it matter even if it was; being gay is only a problem to a certain group within society who don't want to accept diversity. The trouble then is that it makes other people feel scared about anything which they feel may get them labeled as gay. So try not to think of doing this as a "gay thing", and most certinly don't think of it as something dirty.
Deffinition of gay: a person who is capable of being able to be emotionally and sexuall attracted to the same sex. ; besides there are more than a few gay men who will not take another guy's cum in their mouth, just as there are more than a few gay men who will tell you " no way is some guy going to push his cock up my ass".
You kind of answered your own question on why the desire to swollow your own cum; sexual desire in men usually fades after orgasm; # deed done. Same reason why men often want to sleep straight after sex; because that is the way nature intended it to be. The body releases hormones on orgasm which make a man loose interest and become sleepy and more dosile.
You can learn to get past that feeling, by eating it even through you don't feel the desire to do so, thinking yum that's sexy at the same time even though you don't think it at the time, will likely make it feel like "yum" eventually.
As Alecia said.
And no, I most certainly do not have an overwhelming disire to taste my sperm.
Get her to ride you then once you've come get her to sit on your face
You won't have time to lose the desire or much choice in the matter and it's fantastic
May I ask, in which capacity would it be seen as gay? It's your own body, your own fluids. Embrace it, enjoy it. If fantasising gets you off, knock your socks off. I love seeing a guy taste or swallow his own cum.
My husband masturbated and always tastes his pre cum. He usually offers me a taste too during foreplay. As I’ve tasted his bum on many occasions it was only a matter of time until he got around to tasting cum. I found it a real turn on watching him scrape up all that white stuff and lick his fingers. He doesn’t clean up every time we have Alex but it’s fantastic when he does.