My birthday discount ends in about a week, and I’d like some recommendations if possible. I’m relatively new to sex toys. I bought the Womanizer Pro40 and it took two months before I finally came from it (each time takes me abut 30-45 minutes though and I do not squirt). I’m curious about getting a clit stimulator (I’m open to suction, rabbit, whatever) and a g-spot stimulator combo. Definitely MUST be quiet and USB rechargeable kinds only.
Can I please have some recommendations? I’ve never used one before so would something ‘girthy’ like the Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator be out for someone new to insertable types? Or how about Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit or Mantric Rechargeable Rabbit Ears Vibrator or Jessica Rabbit 10 Function G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator or Jessica Rabbit 10 Function Rabbit Vibrator (this one isn’t for G-spot though)? The Jessica Rabbits are not USB rechargeable but if it’s really that good, I miiiiiiight consider. But loud is definitely out - are these loud?
Or should I just get a g-spot vibrator on its own and use it together with the Pr040?
Please feel free to share your thought/ comparisons of these or even add your own recommendations.
@MK7 Yes please, I’d love to know your suggestions!
@ChloJakes Yep definitely considering this! I’m a bit concerned about the hefty price tag though, even at 40% off and the angle is known to be tricky. Also I’m a bit curious about the rabbit ears, hmmm, never tried that before.
Rabbits are great toys but highly anatomy specific so it can sometimes take a little trial and error before you get the right one. One way around this is to buy 2 separate toys so you can exactly what you want from each part. There are a few clit vibes that have rabbit ears so you can still have that if you wanted.
In terms of noise, anything that has moving parts (like the Jessica Rabbits do) will generally be noisier than ones that just vibrate. If you like the look of the Happy Rabbit G Spot/FSG Greedy Girl, there is this one which also has the beads like the slimmer Jessica Rabbits.
Size is a personal preference. If you aren’t sure, try inserting your fingers (when aroused) and see how many you can take/enjoy. Id recommend buying some lube with whatever you decide to purchase if you don’t have some already which will help.
Mrs Chimp is a fan of the two-toy set-up too. She does really like the Happy Rabbit G-spot, and most of the other rabbits she’s tried have fit close enough (wobbles hand ), but she still likes the freedom to get everything positioned exactly where she likes it. Her go to is a glass dildo and a good clit toy.
Oh yikes I love the price and looks of this but I do need something quiet as I have zero privacy at home. As it is I try to drown out the Womanizer Pro40 by covering myself with a blanket and switching on an electric fan. :-/
@ChloJakes
I’ve never tried a g-spot dildo - does it make a big difference whether it’s a gspot vibrator or non-vibrating?
@duchessofnowhere I think I prefer mine to be non vibrating to be honest. Can squirt with either or. I find ones with a bigger kink/curve are better, or glass and steel. I’ll throw some examples below:
Desire Curve Vibrations are relatively quiet Satisfy me No vibrating, basic but works! Glass This comes in steel too
Would agree with the other comments that rabbits can definitely be tricky, and is solely based on your personal anatomy but if you do get a good fit then they are amazing It’s also worth thinking about how you are going to want to use your toy… For example, if you prefer the in/out motion for your internal stimulation then a rabbit won’t work as well as you won’t have continuous contact with your clit. However if you prefer more of a grinding motion then I find rabbits work well for this. This generally takes trial and error and so I would advise not splashing out too much and perhaps get more of a range of toys to begin. This will allow you to work out what you like and then you can invest in a better quality.
In terms of rabbits, I personally don’t rate the Jessica Rabbits but many do. They tend to be quite straight (even the ones advertised for G-spot) - the best rated G-spot toys tend to have much more of a curve. For example the Desire is incredible!
When thinking about toys, the rechargeable tend to be quieter than battery operated or mains powered so you’re on the right lines with that! The clit suckers tend to be a bit louder because of the motor so any standard vibe should be quieter than that I’d say!
I really rated this vibe - it won’t necessarily hit your G-spot but I found it great for both internal and external stimulation and is incredibly quiet considering how strong the vibrations are. It’s also really good value so not too much of an investment!
Good luck in your search - let us know what you decide on!
@SexInTheCity - thank you for the recommendations! I’ve actually never had g-spot stimulation before. Or well, my ex tried and it looked like he was doing the right thing but I didn’t feel turned on in the slightest so I thought I’d try it myself. Okay so if I understand you correctly, the best g-spot stimulators won’t really be found on a rabbit or something like the Womanizer Duo? Also, do you think the Desire would be too girthy for a first time user of insertable vibrators?
It is late so I will come back tomorrow, but for now I will echo what others say about two toys rather than one - then you can get the girth and clit vibe just as you like it.
I’d also add that taking 45 mins to orgasm is perfectly normal for lots of women, whether it is with a person or a toy.
My own feeling is that if more people realised this, there might be more sexually happy people around
G-spot vibes, whether they vibrate or not, often work because of the pressure you apply.
Once you find the spot, try pressing the toy upwards. Move it around depending on how it feels. This is how glass and steel g-spot toys work. There are slimline glass dildos, too, and they won’t break (made like pyrex oven dishes, but prettier).
Oh - and don’t worry about squirting. It is something which has become more mainstream from porn, and it isn’t at all expected. Some do, some don’t. Just focus on what feels good.
Girth is an interesting one as it’s body specific and depends on each individual. A long time toy lover might actually like less girth than someone trying toys for the first time just because of anatomy.
Unless a toy is “extra girthy” or slimline it will probably fall in the same size range as penises do (IMO anyway, I don’t know whether others agree?) so I wouldn’t be too worried unless you’ve had issues in the past or are looking at something very large.
Until you’ve tried a few you might not know in inches what girth is best for you, but you may already have a general idea of what works for you if you’ve had PIV sex? Ie. if you’ve always thought “no this is too girthy” with previous partners then err towards the slimmer side.
I’d agree with the others about getting two separate toys - rabbits can be hit and miss in terms of their positioning just because every vulva is different. But with two separate toys you’ll be able to get exactly the right spots!
It also means that if g-spot stimulation doesn’t do it for you then you still have a clit toy to enjoy.
Hmm, penises and one silicone vibrator I’ve tried - different feeling though. I do like girthy penises, but I tried one regular, not that girthy silicone vibrator once and it could.not.go.in.
It’s also worth thinking about how you are going to want to use your toy… For example, if you prefer the in/out motion for your internal stimulation then a rabbit won’t work as well as you won’t have continuous contact with your clit. However if you prefer more of a grinding motion then I find rabbits work well for this. This generally takes trial and error and so I would advise not splashing out too much and perhaps get more of a range of toys to begin. This will allow you to work out what you like and then you can invest in a better quality.