Had this for the past 2 hours hun what are they letting them off for or celebrating ??? @Rea1 don’t make sense ass holes
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Some people are just inconsiderate prats. I hate fireworks because they fact our animals react negatively.
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I know, I wouldn’t mind if it was the towns planned event where you pay and money goes to charity or something but just your average household fireworks should be banned! Hate them
Just finished my work out… feeling hopeless. The amount of anxiety I have been put through is extremely unhealthy. My hair is falling out and nails breaking easily, been so worried about my partners bipolar with the lockdown, his moods have been so bad lately where we are acting like strangers to one another, he comes to bed at stupid o’clock at night every night and plays games all day and night with his mate, (granted it’s better than him being out up to no good, I suppose) but there is no time spent with each other. There’s no effort nor Romance. I know he can’t help it as mental health really sucks and I’ve been so used to this feeling for ages I’ve been making do. But sometimes he pushes me to feel like this, I feel really guilty… it’s time I start looking out for me. 
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@MsSubExperimenter hope you get your money back though
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We’ll get to rebook - again! For some time next year I imagine, it’s a bit of a pain because she needs childcare and I need to get the time off work but it is what it is.
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@Forever_his probably best to post your piece here.
I totally agree with you, the general public can he complete knobs at times, especially over the phone or internet. Pretty cowardly really, if they did such things face to face, they may come to harm. As you say, you don’t know a person’s personal circumstances or mental state, so be polite and kind. It costs nothing.
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People are annoying me. When I start talking to people one of the first things I will say is no private pics. I’ll flash my boobs all day long but never have and never will send a picture of my intimate area. They can send as many pics and vids as they want but if they do don’t start saying owe you one, putting pressure on me to send vids pics. Then makes it awkward.
It’s my choice what to send AND I HAVE TOLD YOU. Do not guilt trip me into sending something I’m not comfortable with
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Stand by your morals and principles hun @Orgasm_Chaser 
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@Forever_his I’m so sorry to hear that and that’s someone has been nasty to you, there’s absolutely no need for it.
I also used to work in mortgages and would take calls, I understand people being frustrated at the situation, it can be stressful, but there’s never any need to make it personal! Does your place have a way of noting if customers are rude or anything? A warning system?
Sending lots of virtual hugs xx
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Thanks you lovely lot! Its just busy everywhere at the moment and everyone is under so much pressure. Which I always try and consider. Alas, today it was just too much!
Sadly it was another mortgage professional which make it worse as you’d think they’d understand the position we are all in.
To make matters worse, I made myself a lovely hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows and I only went and bloody forgot about it! Now its a sweet cold mush lol
Ahh well. Onwards and upwards and I feel better for a rant 
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Tired of being snubbed by friends. 
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Just be like they say in the Madagascar film smile and wave guys smile and wave
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I prefer the line, “if you’ve got any poo, flick it now” 
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Have you seen the internet clip of a monkey throwing poo…straight into an old lady’s face? 
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@Rae1 how are you feeling today ? I’m not medically trained but please look after your mental health too. In relation to your OH Bi Polar has he been taking his meds etc ? The lockdown has screwed everyone in a massive way, but please try to also look after yourself.
Dealing with someone else’s mental health problems isn’t easy and I hate how it impacts on my OH. Take time for yourself and do something positive for you, be a a hot bath, yoga or whatever else you want to do. If you need to talk with your OH and have a no pressure talk about your concerns and the impact its having on you, do it. However you know what’s best best for you and only do it if you feel safe.
Take care please @Rae1
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My rant for this morning whilst I’m working… I work in mortgages and often speak to people on the phones.
Why do people think its ok to be absolutely vile? I’ve just had a horrible chat with someone who said some horrible things about me - which were far from the truth. I had to put him on hold as I was in floods of tears, which he could clearly hear. I composed myself and went back to him - as he did need help at the end of the day. I could have hung up. He then launched another tirade of abuse and hung up.
I’m not a huge fan of my job but I’m so lucky to have one and be able to feed my kids in the current climate but that doesn’t mean I’m not having a hard time. We are all stressed and overworked, can we just not be a bit kinder? Good lord. And the thing us, you wouldn’t speak that way to someone in person would you?!
Anyway, sorry about that. But I need to get it out and put it to rest, which will hopefully stop the tears. You never know what someone’s going through at the end of the day. Happy Tuesday!
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@Forever_his Sorry to hear some twat made you cry. There’s no need for people to behave like absolute ar*eholes in this day and age, especially with everything that’s going on.
If anyone ever speaks to me in a horrible manner or swears at me down the phone, I give them one warning to calm down or change their tone, otherwise I just terminate the call. I don’t get paid enough to be spoken to like that.
Virtual hug for you today this morning 
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That’s awful @Forever_his, people can be real shits 
, sending some hugs 
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I have full sympathy for you I would not do your job for the reason you have stated why or how does anyone think they can talk to you or anyone in this way ??? What makes them so special I have full respect for you and what you do sorry there are some toasters out there ! 
@Forever_his
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