Roman showers

Ok, so for a while OH and I have been thinking of having a go at a Roman shower.
“What’s one of them?” you say.
Well it’s not for the feint-hearted as it’s one of the more extreme fetishes/kinks and definitely won’t appeal to everyone but here goes….
Vomiting over each other.
It’s called a Roman shower after the idea that ancient Romans used to throw such epic orgies and parties where there would be so much food and drink (alcohol) on offer that people would indulge to the point of being sick, sometimes on each other especially if engaged in sexual activities at the time.
Obviously it sounds utterly revolting and completely disgusting, and yet at the same time we’re both strangely drawn to the idea, even if just to try it once.
Apologies to those who’ve just had their dinner, and sorry if it sounds completely icky, but has anyone ever tried it and got any tips?

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I’ve heard of them, but being someone who experiences nausea if I so much as lay flat or move too fast, they don’t sound like a fun time to me. My only advice if you’re going to eat enough to induce vomiting is to think about the health implications: calories, possible stomach ulcers, gastric upset, plus the side effects of vomiting: nausea, strained muscles, cavities etc - you may not feel so kinky after all if you get that far :joy:

I don’t kink shame, but whatever your kink is, I do advocate for doing kink sensibly and safely. Good luck to you and I hope you have fun :blush:

This is a new one for me. Wouldn’t be something I’d want to try but curious to hear how its went for anyone who tried it and how it goes for you if you try it.

Indeed, the health implications aren’t lost on us and we’ve done a bit of research. I think with a few sensible precautions and knowing the potential risks to look out for we can probably try it and be ok. It seems to be one of those activities where doing it very frequently and/or over a longer period of time can lead to the real problems.
It’s quite big in the US porn scene where milk and dairy are the preferred choice for some of the reasons you’ve mentioned.
I’m kinda anxious but excited…

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That makes sense. I suppose if you used skimmed or semi-skimmed milk, it won’t be as calorific as using whole milk, or cream, but then would it work? I’m not sure.

All kinks are scary the first tme. Heck I’m supposed to have a play session tonight and I’m anxious even if we’re not trying anything new :joy:

Whew, just when I thought I had heard of everything, I stumble across this post. I clicked it because you know, curiosity and all but WHOA, not what I was expecting. I thought maybe something like a golden shower but a little more detailed.
I’m not here to judge because what others do, doesn’t bother me. I will say though that as someone who has been in the medical field for over 20 years (yes I know my name says trucker and thats my career, I’m a paramedic as well), please make sure you do as much research as possible and you take all precautions.
As someone else suggested, maybe fill up on milk or anything like that, even lots of yogurt. I’m not thinking about calories because unless you’re already anemic or want to do this for HOURS on end, you’ll be just fine. You can also keep gatorade on hand for the after treatment. I am however thinking of the throat condition from the amount of vomiting you are trying to do. That’s why I suggest milk, yogurt, etc.
Have fun and no, I won’t be coming back for details on this one…lol

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One way to get there would be face fucking?
I’m not recommending it and find it yuck myself, but that’s my own thing there.
I do remember gagging so badly on those covid tests and retching really badly whenever trying to swipe the back of my throat. Im sure a cock deep enough in a mouth would have the dame effect? And eventually lead to puking your guts out?

Some of the errr…..”research” videos have suggested deep-throating seems to be the way to initiate things so yeah, that’s what we’re planning.
The way we see it, it can’t be any more dangerous than some other kinks, things like fisting or certain types of anal play, which are equally unappealing to some people and yet have quite a following and, if done carefully can be quite safe.

That’s gonna be a no for me, dawg.

Scat, blood, and now vomit are all on the hard limit list for me (at least, where intention is concerned. I’m not bothered by a little poo showing up during anal play, nor do we abstain during period, and I’m sure we’ve had a little bit of a “hot” gag during deepthroat occasionally, but these bodily substances will never be in our bed “on purpose” if that makes sense.

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I don’t enjoy being sick normally, so there’s zero chance of me doing it for a sex thrill.

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Interesting reactions so far.
There’s a thread going ant the moment about golden showers, and people don’t seem anything like as shocked by the idea of that.
We’re quite in to sploshing anyway and see this as something of an extension of that but, like others, draw an absolute line at scat etc. Urgh.

Nothing worse than being sick, so can’t see the attraction of intentionally making yourself sick and sharing it with someone, the taste, the smell the heaving, no ta! :joy:

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I’ve seen this in porn movies
It was a mild turn on for me
The woman who vomited did so after gagging on a guys dick
She in turn vomited over another woman and she had some go in her mouth and she started vomiting too
I can categorically say I wouldn’t want to participate the smell alone would be horrible
Same for straightforward scat ie just pooping not smearing or eating it’s kinda ok to watch out of curiosity but that’s it

I think for us the grossness is almost part of the appeal.
We love sploshing partly because of being covered in something a bit messy, and the vomiting idea takes this a little further. It adds a bit more of a degradation/humiliation angle than we’re used to by involving something that most people (rightly) find a bit revolting (but without going as far as scat play which really is awful :nauseated_face:)
OH is also coming at it as something of a challenge in trying a slightly more extreme kink than we’re used to, but not as genuinely dangerous as things like breath play or some of the elbow-deep fisting that goes on.
A bit of milky puke seems quite tame really.

@marbles1 I guess I enjoy my self peeing so as you say maybe mild puke fun on an empty stomach and after drinking water would be something to try
Out of interest how typically do people induce the vomiting?
The only way I’ve seen it is gagging on a cock
Here we go down another porn wormhole at a later date :man_facepalming:

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As you say, a common method is gagging on a cock or dildo. Other than that I guess it’s a case of eating/drinking extreme quantities (which we don’t want to do as it’s not a guaranteed method and carries sone risk) or the classic fingers down the throat.

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I’m certainly finding plenty of gagging n vomit porn
Different for sure and quite aroused now
Might try something next time I’m home alone with just some water incorporating it into my wanking

Never thought I’d come across this term again yet here it be rearing its head up :rofl:

Defo not for me but right on if you wanna try it :see_no_evil_monkey:
Maybe contemplate plenty of water to ensure the up Chuck is kinda diluted from the stomach acids and thing of the types of foods you’d wanna see come back up that date I say look appealing?! :nauseated_face:

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Hm I think the smell alone would be a turn off for me! :face_with_peeking_eye:

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Surely if you are going to try achieve this through deep throat then the giver would have to make sure they withdraw quickly otherwise the receiver could choke on their own vomit or even worse breath it into their lungs.

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