Screamer or silent appreciator?

Def a screamer, but tbf it's my oh that makes me loud! Lol he is loud too but not as loud as I am, when we first got together he was silent and was surprised by my vocality! However he is very talkative especially with the dirty talk which is a massive turn in and is something I am trying to give back but still feel a little unsure of myself at times! #keeptrying

Lilmiss x

AlyBlue wrote:

Hands All Over wrote:

I tend to be quite silent but honestly I just want to be able to let it all go. To at least do a bit of moaning out loud. Definitely practicing on it ;)

Trust me when you let go it feels amazing, but it does take time to let go, but when you start....theres no stopping you haha ;)

Oh I believe you! Well practice makes perfect, right ;)? Can't wait for that day to come!

I am relatively quite bit as i get close to orgasm i do some proper pornstar grunting lol

CaptainTightpants wrote:

I am relatively quite bit as i get close to orgasm i do some proper pornstar grunting lol

You're very good at dirty talk abpnd you do moan more when I give you a blow job or hand job.

I've always been quiet, at most, gasps and low moans.

Somewhere between a groan and a gasp! It's never the same twice! x

lets have fun wrote:

Am loud , but have to be quiet when the 3 kids are at home.

Do you find it difficult? I'm the same and find it kinda spoils the moment for me! I am so focussed on keeping my moaning to a minimum (so as not to wake my son) that I don't feel fully satisfied... Is that selfish?

I have a high sex drive, but without fully letting go, it's just not the same 😏

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Well captain told me yesterday that our eldest took him to one side and told him that he had heard a very rude person saying a naughty word over and over again while he was trying to sleep the night before 😳😳😳
Apparently that was me...

I'm a screamer.No doubt. When I'm alone, I can contain it, unless I'm using a toy and I "surprise" myself. With a partner, I will always make some noise. Sometimes too much. Ooops.

I also like when the person I'm with makes noise. Love a moan, or a grunt, or some dirty talk.

My OH is a suppressed silent appreciator! As we live in a Semi she is really concious of being heard! We're not even allowed to do spanking up stairs as she's worried our neighbours would hear! She has learnt to keep cum quietly although sometimes she can't stop some noise cumming out! Which it very satisfying to hear from a man's point of view as you know you must have done something right! Our dream is to buy a house that we can build a dungeon in so we can be as noisy as we want!

I'm a screamer, absolutely. My boyfriend is forever shoving a pillow over my face or tugging my hair to let me know hot loud I'm being.

In fairness, it's hardly my fault , is it ;)

Our house is on the middle of 2 houses and my husband had now moved our bedroom around so that the bed is nesr the wall at the front of the house and not next to either of walls that connect us and the neighbours due to me being loud apparently. He also is paranoid about windows being open so sex in the summer is usually really hot and sweaty lol.
I tell him its his fault and shouldnt blame me haha.
I dont really care about how load i am although i do try and keep in down a bit due to having 2 kids however, they tend to be really heavy sleeper and the bedrooms are not attached to ours so always a plus

Hands All Over wrote:

AlyBlue wrote:

Hands All Over wrote:

I tend to be quite silent but honestly I just want to be able to let it all go. To at least do a bit of moaning out loud. Definitely practicing on it ;)

Trust me when you let go it feels amazing, but it does take time to let go, but when you start....theres no stopping you haha ;)

Oh I believe you! Well practice makes perfect, right ;)? Can't wait for that day to come!

More practice just means you'll have to play more ;) It'll come in time :) you'll get there :) x

The more noise she makes it motivates me to work even harder at giving her pleasure.

It's a huge turn on for me, a sign of appreciation of what I'm doing.

I don't have a default setting, it largely depends upon:

who else is in house

what level of sensation is being experiened

how long it has been

I tend to be a little quiet but when things are done well and it's good sex I can be louder. Also helps when you are more comfortable with the other person as you don't feel so self conscious about your volume or is that just me? 😂

I used to be quiet with past exs..but with current OH its just something he does that makes me scream. We've purchased a few gags to try and quieten/muffle the sounds as we live with my parent, he used to just cover my mouth with his hand or put 3 or 4 fingers in my mouth but i had a tendency to bite them really hard haha. When parents arent in he leaves me too it

Loud and proud here 🙋 not quite a screamer. Hubby doesn't make much noise but does talk dirty and moans when he cums

I scream, moan, beg and just about anything else too ! Lol

I just cannot keep quiet no matter how hard I try. Oh loves it, thank goodness xx

I'm pretty loud, especially when I'm close. My OH loves to hear me moan, it is a massive turn on for him so I have always been pretty vocal. Now with the kids in the house I do try to be quiet but reckon I am still louder than I realise. Luckily they are heavy sleepers!!

When I climax though, I barley make a sound. Like it takes my breath away and everything just seems to pause whilst the pleasure runs through me. Anyone else like that?

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