Sex, Disability and Neurodivergence

Ive been following these guys for a few years, not so much lately though, basically they are a interabled couple.. All the small minded people think “why is she with him” “She MUST be being paid to be with him”," its all fake" and the list goes on and on.. But a hell of a lot of women would love tobe in her shoes trust me… Basically if you women want a half decent man, try looking for something outside the box, a little different and scary.. Go outside your comfort zone as it might be the best thing you’ll ever do..

Watching these guys vids give me hope and gives me a kick up the backside when I get down/depressed, as Im no where as disabled as he is, as my main issue is shyness towards women face to face as its just unbelievably bad … But its always the case isn’t it, the 1 thing in the world you want the most but you cant get it,

You hear it on the news etc everyday, that women are being abused/killed by men and what goes through my mind is yes all men need shooting who are mean or abuse women, bewhy the hell makes women go for these men, when theres men like me, yeah I might be too kind and caring, that might make me boring to women. But surely thats hell of a lot better then being scared of someone, wrorring of saying the wrong thing etc?

Its like this women Im still head over heels about, she keeps on picking the baddens that make her life miserable, plus she has meniere’s disease, so a few times a month without warning she will become dizzy and collapse.. So she has enough to cope with, without arsehole men making her life 10x worse… But Id so love her to death(and give her hell in the sex department) if we clicked.. but she would never EVER be scared, hurt or worried again, or not while she’s with me anyway. Dont know why Im talking about her, sorry..

I’m sure you’ve probably thought about this @Domandsub4eva but I thought it was worth mentioning just in case you hadn’t. Have you tried one of the harnesses that hold wands in place? They might save your hand from going numb and free up you hands for something else too! I don’t know if they would position the wand as precisely as you can though. I haven’t tried one myself (I have the opposite problem - nerves that are over reactive so I need gentle touch)