I’m the LH toy buyer in our household and also lucky enough to have been sent a few tester items for reviews.
My long term wife has really liked enjoyed some of the toys and others not so much and have reviewed them all.
I know she watches porn and orgasms using her fingers when she’s away and we’ve sent a few photos to each other (nothing too graphic).
I volunteer for her to take some of the clit targeted toys away with her but she’s declined thus far saying she’s happy with her proven fingers.
I’m not sure whether she’s worried about breaking them or leaving them in hotel. She does fly abroad so probably doesn’t want to have her hand luggage searched with them either and sometime she doesn’t take check in luggage.
But I would most certainly be up for seeing or watching her use them solo. We’ll use them together again soon.
If i were her, I suspect I’d hide myself in a hole for a while if they started going thru my stuff, so I understand. I know someone who took pictures to send with her spouse when he was away, once for 2 months and he still has them 30 years later I’m definitely going to recruit a couple of photo buffs i know to take some boudoir photos I’m going to try before Christmas
I’m definitely the buyer, I love to shop and this is one of the most satisfying shopping sprees I’ve been on I’m always respectful of his choices, but he is very willing to try which makes this so much fun @Fire_Ice1
I love it. I buy all the toys in this house (for my wife) and the pleasure I get from her experiencing pleasure is amazing. @FortySomethingWife - your man needs to reassess priorities!
Why wouldn’t you want your partner to be extremely happy? It puzzles me. You have always sounded like you put plenty of effort into taking care of his needs.
It’s a two way street …
We are the other way around, my OH gets really horny watching me play her real turn on is my fleshlight. She also loves to see how big I can get with my penis pump then finish off with her vibrator
We started using toys at Christmas and she loves starting a sex night by putting the clit sucker on herself and telling me to put my but plug in and then using my vibrating masterbating sleeve wank in her face while she is sucking on her own clit
Some times she loves teasing me by getting naked and making me sit on the other side of the room by using a dildo on herself, not allowing me to move or touch myself!
That’s very sad to hear,
I wish my wife would be more open to masturbating on her own or with me,
it’s good for you and opens up your sex drive.
you need to be able to love yourself and know what feels good.
I also find it very sexy to watch my partner pleasure herself, it does not have to be with a sex toy but just any form of self pleasure does it for me.
@Stuck_nomore . Toy use is definitely a spectator sport in my mind… i love watching my wife pleasure herself, with or without toys.
I must be a bit of a voyeur??
Yes, I love watching her cum and her toys are pretty much guaranteed to get her off. Either watching her toy herself or using toys on her gives me such a fantastic view which is such a turn on.
Yes for sure I absolutely love watching Mrs LabRat having fun with her toys. I do get slightly jealous when she just cums without me, lol… Our latest purchase was the Glow-in-the-Dark Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator, and I swear it took less than 20 seconds !
But I love to watch her or give her a helping hand, and it is usually just a prelude to a longer sex session, so she never leaves me hanging.
I’m definitely going to recruit a couple of photo buffs i know to take some boudoir photos I’m going to try before Christmas 
I’m always respectful of his choices, but he is very willing to try which makes this so much fun 
