Absolutely love watching OH play get to learn so much and I got to watch last night as she was sliding her big toy in and out of herself then got instructed to get my toy out and do the same
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I actually owned more than my wife when we met and introduced her to them. One of my favourite activities is watching her use them.
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@carzy I talk it you enjoy being directed then? Its something i want to try
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My partner when we first started was a little intimidated, one night out of surprise he took one out my draw during and we always use during since, he loves to use them on me as he enjoys watching me cum.
I think it is down to communication, talk about what you like, what maybe he would like, your desires etc and go from there.
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I love watching my wife play with her toys. To be honest I think I have brought more of them than she has.
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@gbag aww that’s lovely! I’m in a streak right now of buying anything that intrigues me 
just to give myself ideas and yes, my hubby is involved to a small degree, and he’s definitely willing to try things, he’s more of a lingerie guy tho.
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@MasterOfSexToys that’s awesome! You never know what private thoughts people have
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We enjoy using toys together but I also get turned on thinking about and watching my partner use toys.
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My husband enjoys watching me and a lot of the time we use toys together. My OHs favourite part is watching me use a glass dildo on myself. He gets turned on seeing my blonde bush getting wet and seeing the dildo slide in and out of it
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I love to watch my OH but she feels a bit self conscious about it, she’s only ever done it a handful of times. I’m not pushing it but slowly she’s becoming more comfortable about it and now brings it up in conversation so I’m hoping that in time she feels able to do it as I’m love to watch!
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We both love to watch each other play with our toys. It’s a brilliant way to build up to a full on session.
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I think you are doing everything right, taking your time and letting her dictate the pace, hopefully over time she will want you to watch more. Good luck
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Simply put yes…my OH is usually quite shy…I love watching her face as she plays under the covers. If the mood elevates then sometimes I get to watch without the covers…I just love it!
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Oh yes, and the other way round too
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Never experienced it but hell yeah
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@BLovesC yes, it took me years to be comfortable in my own skin if thst makes sense. I was soo critical of myself. And now I’m like f**k it 
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@Scottishfunk my hubby hasn’t yet either, but im coming up with some creative ways of bringing this up 
It’s so sexy watching her naked lying on bed and using toys. Very often I ask het to give me a taste and I lick dildo covered in her juices.
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I love watching my wife using her vibrators. She enjoys me playing with her breasts at the same time
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I have never been one to pleasure myself. We initially bought a dildo for him to use on me, but we has got me to pleasure myself recently during sex and he loves watching it! Sends him crazy!
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