@SpicyGinger yeah i was like this for years. Like me receiving pleasure is super to be a secret or something 
thank goodness I’ve gotten over it!
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Yes I love it when she uses toys on her self. Massive turn on for me even just thinking and typing about it is getting me excited.
I think she enjoys it more to as she know exactly where to put it. But saying that most of the time she is letting me choose them and use them on her!!
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Last night I watched my partner use this, while I snuggled up and gave her a rub (and myself)
Mind-blowingly sexy!!! 
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My wife has never (ever) masturbated in her life but in the last 5 years I’ve communicated my desires more openly with her (We’ve been married 12, nearly 13 years) which include watching her play with herself.
One night she got dressed up in sexy lingerie whilst I was in the shower and when I came in she was going at it herself and told me to sit on the end of the bed and watch. One of the hottest things ever - she hasn’t done it since but I live in hope that she does it again! There’s something so beautiful about watching your partner pleasure themselves, their facial expressions, the way they move and interact with themselves. I flipping love it!
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My fella loves watching me use my toys and often masturbates at the same time
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@maz1965 that’s soo hot. I texted my hubby a couple of weeks ago, do you ever masturbate? When was the last time? I told him I do it a few times a week now he hasn’t told me so far.
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yes but it’s better to watch her use her fingers
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Personally i love it, infact we are both big into toys. We have a large storage box full (Due to my over indulgence on lovehoney) of various toys. I find it so sexy watching my wife let go and enjoy herself. There are just as many great toys for the males though and we both enjoy a regular session whilst both playing with one of our toys together.
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@Pab69 oh yes, I’ve defined been indulging on a regular basis over the past few month I just need to find a way to organize it all. My hubby doesn’t mind as long as we have a growing sex life between us 
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Definitely love to see her using her toys anytime, I think it is my favorite thing and fortunately she doesn’t need any encouragement to do so.
We got together when we were both 19 and she had already been using a vibrator for some time by then. She was a little shy initially but since then has been really open that she likes to uses sex toys, mainly vibrators and dildos. She knows it really turns me on and will often send me messages when she has just finished a session.
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@GettingMoreKinkyGuy that’s awesome. I encourage women to enjoy their sexuality. My experience is we don’t get encouraged or the opportunity to learn etc soo good on you for encouraging her!
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Simply put yes yes yes and generally she is naked and a combination of sucking on her nipples and her playing usually sends her over and I get the pleasure of watching her cum. Sometimes, well to be truthful, nearly always, I will masturbate as I watch her and as she nears orgasm she will give me oral.
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@New2(D) . I love watching MrsIwill use our toys and react similarly to yourself.
What you described sounds like a great arrangement and you both get a lot out of it.
Ive taken on board the ankles up at ears position along with the vibrator tip by ( R)
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Absolutely I do. Love watching, listening, shopping for new things to try. I’m usually the one who brings a new toy to the table, too. Sometimes it’s out of the park, sometimes it flops. It’s always fun, though.
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Oh yes 100% Love it watching her with her vibrator etc. I wish she did a bit more sometimes with dildos etc but she’s a clit queen mainly.
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God yes I love to watch OH play she doesn’t do it to often but when she does gets me so hard
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Nothing gives me greater pleasure then watching my wife use a toy or play with herself, massive turn on.
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Love watching and hearing the wife enjoy her wand, soo sexy! Will sit and get aroused just at listening to her groans, very hot. She has a large dildo which she will also use, great watching her ease it into her when she is wet and ready l for its entry
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@LRLRL ohh I totally get that!! I tend to go really overboard when I get passionate about sex
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