I would love to know how people feel about this topic, and I’m only referring to ‘one off type’ sexual encounters, not pregnancy or proper relationships or anything of that type. My female cousin who is same age as me is smoking hot and has massive fke tits that look fantastic etc… My first sexual fantasy about her was a long time ago edited by mod to remove age and 20 plus years later nothing has changed and I still think about fucking her all the time.
I honestly feel that if the situation ever presented itself, I would not hesitate to make those fantasies reality. I think about her all the time and I’ve even tried to create situations that would make an encounter more likely to happen… is this normal behaviour or do I need professional help?
Would love to hear the opinions from fellow Forum User’s
First cousin, so that means she is the daughter of either your mothers or fathers brother or sister. So is she married or in a relationship i am guessing not if you are thinking this. I have male cousins but have never thought about them in this way they are more like brothers so couldnt have done anything like that it wou!d have been weird.
It’s not illegal although in most European cultures it’s considered culturally unacceptable. It’s entirely normal to marry your first cousin in many Asian cultures.
The reason it’s culturally unacceptable is related to shared genetics - heritable diseases are more common in populations where cousin marriage is seen as normal.
How does your cousin feel? From the sound of it, she’s a woman in her mid-30’s who you’ve known more or less all her life but her thoughts and feelings haven’t had a mention. I’m guessing she’s not interested…
Not something that I have ever thought about, it’s family when all said and done regardless of their attractiveness but that’s just my personal view.
At the end of the day you can’t help who you are attracted to but what you do have control over is what you do about it.
You may have feelings towards them but that doesn’t say it’s mutual, they could feel the complete opposite.
Then there is the opinions of family members should you try anything, successfully or not, you may be open minded to it, they may be disgusted by the idea and is that something you want to risk?
It’s a no from me. Think about how your family would feel if you pursued it, or how she would feel. Is it really work risking your relationship with your whole family because you’ve got it hot for your cousin?
It’s not illegal but it’s definitely frowned upon. It’s also incredibly risky.
It may be legal but if she knows nothing about your infatuation and you tell her she could just shut you down and want nothing to do with you anymore. Think of the fall out if she tells her parents, your parents and friends.
My cousin and I are in our 50s, but we didn’t meet until our 30s so we didn’t know each other as kids. She is a beautiful person, hot as hell and my best friend. We openly talk about our sex lifes and I often fantasise about her and hpoe she does about me, but it will remain just that
I’d say you do you to be honest. Think it would be a far stretch to say you need “professional help?” A tthe end of the day shes a legal consenting adult that is attractive.
The facts are though that it would be deemed very taboo/unacceptable by most and you may have to deal with that if you did make a move.
Personally while finding her attractive and having fantasies about her is fine, id leave it at that unless she made the first move then… risk it for a biscuit I’d say
I’d say it’s just natural lustful fantasies, I’ve had sex dreams of one my older cousins before when I was younger and would get really shy around him but I knew I’d never act on them or anything.
It’s mainly questionable if she is in the same mindset as you to this fantasy as she might literally have not idea your feeling like this over her.
Although there isn’t really law on this topic, my opinions are, it’s just wrong to enter any kind of sexual activity with a first cousin or second cousin. I in fact have female first cousins, and we are very close, more like siblings really. And their offspring regard me as their uncle.
