Interesting thread 
I’ve managed to get through quite a few goals with my OH this year; lots of awesome lingerie, kitted out our bedroom just right to be our Love HQ, got loads of fun new toys.
My OH has really embraced the visual aspect and is really comfortable being in positions where I get a great view of her sacred yoni while we have various forms of masturbation and sex.
I’ve been lucky enough to get quite a lot of pictures and a few short videos, but I’d really like to get a few good little films of her masturbating from beginning to end.
I’ve written some erotic stories, just reliving some great sex sessions we have had, and I want to write a lot more.
My OH makes up erotic stories on the spot, and we have agreed to create erotica together - but we have two kids, busy jobs and lives and it hasn’t happened yet, so that’s a goal.
Quite a while ago, I bought some bondage stuff for fun, but we haven’t gotten around to that either - definitely a goal to tie her up, blindfold her and for me to take a trip south of the border and gie her oral for as long as possible! 
We always try to have outdoor sex somewhere when we’re on holiday but this time maybe different as we’re going to Tunisia and I think it’s against the law not just a telling off if your caught but going to jail so not sure if we will get to do it unless we have a very private balcony
We have a few of sexual goals, hopefully will achieve some of them, in no particular order:
- Intimate on a nudist beach
- Have a hot, fit man join us in a hotel room to watch then join in with us both
- Take part in an orgy
- Try role play
- Make wife squirt
- Give watersports another try
Very nice goals.
I recently had a fantasy about a MFF but the other women fu#king my wife with a strap on while my wife rides me
Also I really want my wife to squirt
Very hot, your wife would definitely be fulfilled.
We just need to find the right guy to join us and go for it!
Not as easy as you might think. It took us years to find the right one.
Yes, indeed, how did you find them?
Luck. There was a female acquaintance that I was sort of flirting with over a number of months, and the conversation got sexual and things went from there. Over time, we kind of hooked up, got everyone on board and then went from there. It was a foursome in this case, with her and her husband and me and mine.
I’m not sure she would be up for it, so it’s going to stay as a fantasy!
Hope you find the right guy for your fantasy & make sure you take your time 
Thank you, we will definitely take our time.
Sure most of our sexual goals will probably stay as fantasies also but good luck if your wife does want to participate!
Yes, that is lucky for you. Long time ago on a one off drunken occasion we were joined by a female friend which was great fun. Now would like to try and introduce a guy which seems a lot more difficult believe it or not!!
Finding a guy is a lot lot more difficult in our experience. We have a decent list of women we can call on, but very few men. Haven’t quite worked out why. A lot of men seem quite mouthy, until they actually get called upon. And of course, there are the ones you wouldn’t want to with, like the creeps and those in need of certain interventions!
Yes, exactly that, spot on reply!!
We have a certain guy criteria we would both like to share, which makes it difficult but in no rush at all!!
Good looking list of goals!
2 and 3 are things that I understand to require a lot of communication and better be 100% sure before jumping in. For us, bringing in additional partners or social play are going to stay on the fantasy list and definitely are not going to be fulfilled by mutual agreement.
And just a caution to 5 that some things can actually become more difficult to achieve once you name it and put the pressure on. My wife has squirted just once, by accident, after being bound and teased for hours, and on her 2nd or 3rd orgasm lost total control. I thought it was incredibly sexy, she didn’t care much for the sensation - felt a little too out of control for her. So while I’d love for it to happen again, I’m opting not to put on the pressure of naming it as a goal.
Yes, fine line I suppose between goals and fantasies!
We have no time limits, if they happen, they happen, if not we’ll no doubt have plenty of fun trying to achieve them!! Finding time is always an issue.
@LRLRL wow, sounds a very sexy session when your wife squirted!
I have just one major sexual goal. I want to be able to fully ejaculate and get that last little bit of fluid out of me. I feel it in there, but no matter how hard the sex is I just can’t quite get there. Like there’s a little wall inside me and it is frustrating. Just a tiny thing separating me from what is probably the most pleasurable orgasm of my existence.
Do you have any sex related goals or anything specific you want to do over the next, say, 6 months?
I spoke to a colleague the other day who said that she was working towards fully taking her boyfriend via anal, and then wanted to work towards DP, and it got me wondering.
I’m also happy if you want to share any sex related ‘milestones’ you recently achieved.
- Getting OH her strap on to begin our pegging journey
- Fantasising bi side during sex
- Building a deck of ‘truth and dare’ cards to pick one each morning (including scenario where OH is watching porn whilst playing and I come in).
We’ve reached a turning point in our relationship together. She’s keen for me to dominate and steer how we move forwards. Any tips welcome!
Love the sound of number 3, and hope you get lots of good tips!!!
I love the fact you can chat with a colleague about this… much more interesting than the sort of stuff my colleagues get into conversation on 