As a photographer I can say I get asked by couples for boudoir style stuff all the time. Men booking for their ladies and vice versa.
If you try it, get the lighting right and have fun with it.
Couples love to look at each other, visual things are really sensual and part of foreplay I think
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I was actually looking at getting a light ring the other day just for this 
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I think having goals in any aspect of your life is great.
My main goal is having sex and it not hurting! (I had a procedure in my womb to remove cancer cells, which caused sex to be quite painful) but with my libido increasing, Lube and foreplay itis definitely getting better and after chatting with my OH and being told he wants to pleasure me, I’m sure sex completely not hurting will be a thing of the past 
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My other goals are anal, DP, being tied up and being dominated as well as sex outside!
I was never a sexually active youngster so starting from the beginning but looking forward to it and OH is open to alot of it!
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@Beats69 - is it OK / safe to be double fisted? I’ve seen a single fisting in porn which still amazes me! Good luck 
I would love to be able to achieve a hands free male whole body shaking like a female prostate p super male orgasm.
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Interesting thread 
I’ve managed to get through quite a few goals with my OH this year; lots of awesome lingerie, kitted out our bedroom just right to be our Love HQ, got loads of fun new toys.
My OH has really embraced the visual aspect and is really comfortable being in positions where I get a great view of her sacred yoni while we have various forms of masturbation and sex.
I’ve been lucky enough to get quite a lot of pictures and a few short videos, but I’d really like to get a few good little films of her masturbating from beginning to end.
I’ve written some erotic stories, just reliving some great sex sessions we have had, and I want to write a lot more.
My OH makes up erotic stories on the spot, and we have agreed to create erotica together - but we have two kids, busy jobs and lives and it hasn’t happened yet, so that’s a goal.
Quite a while ago, I bought some bondage stuff for fun, but we haven’t gotten around to that either - definitely a goal to tie her up, blindfold her and for me to take a trip south of the border and gie her oral for as long as possible! 
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We always try to have outdoor sex somewhere when we’re on holiday but this time maybe different as we’re going to Tunisia and I think it’s against the law not just a telling off if your caught but going to jail so not sure if we will get to do it unless we have a very private balcony
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I wouldn’t; I doubt their jails have air con.
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Now I’ve had an orgasm without any physical stimulation my next goal is to experience it without visualising any activity with another person, just the pure sensation with a clear mind.
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We have a few of sexual goals, hopefully will achieve some of them, in no particular order:
- Intimate on a nudist beach
- Have a hot, fit man join us in a hotel room to watch then join in with us both
- Take part in an orgy
- Try role play
- Make wife squirt
- Give watersports another try
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Very nice goals.
I recently had a fantasy about a MFF but the other women fu#king my wife with a strap on while my wife rides me
Also I really want my wife to squirt
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Very hot, your wife would definitely be fulfilled.
We just need to find the right guy to join us and go for it!
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Not as easy as you might think. It took us years to find the right one.
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Yes, indeed, how did you find them?
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Luck. There was a female acquaintance that I was sort of flirting with over a number of months, and the conversation got sexual and things went from there. Over time, we kind of hooked up, got everyone on board and then went from there. It was a foursome in this case, with her and her husband and me and mine.
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I’m not sure she would be up for it, so it’s going to stay as a fantasy!
Hope you find the right guy for your fantasy & make sure you take your time 
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Thank you, we will definitely take our time.
Sure most of our sexual goals will probably stay as fantasies also but good luck if your wife does want to participate!
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Yes, that is lucky for you. Long time ago on a one off drunken occasion we were joined by a female friend which was great fun. Now would like to try and introduce a guy which seems a lot more difficult believe it or not!!
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Finding a guy is a lot lot more difficult in our experience. We have a decent list of women we can call on, but very few men. Haven’t quite worked out why. A lot of men seem quite mouthy, until they actually get called upon. And of course, there are the ones you wouldn’t want to with, like the creeps and those in need of certain interventions!
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Yes, exactly that, spot on reply!!
We have a certain guy criteria we would both like to share, which makes it difficult but in no rush at all!!
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Good looking list of goals!
2 and 3 are things that I understand to require a lot of communication and better be 100% sure before jumping in. For us, bringing in additional partners or social play are going to stay on the fantasy list and definitely are not going to be fulfilled by mutual agreement.
And just a caution to 5 that some things can actually become more difficult to achieve once you name it and put the pressure on. My wife has squirted just once, by accident, after being bound and teased for hours, and on her 2nd or 3rd orgasm lost total control. I thought it was incredibly sexy, she didn’t care much for the sensation - felt a little too out of control for her. So while I’d love for it to happen again, I’m opting not to put on the pressure of naming it as a goal.
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