hi rabbits, sorry im tired and think i reported your post instead of reply to it so i appolgise now if u get into trouble. her responce is pretty much "it aint happening and to drop it" but no cant say i feel i wanna cheat or want to.
Gunther - i don't think i been un-realistic but that why asking on here lol, i'm talking abt things like swapping dirty pics, cum in mouth, anal play
I think that if she has said no then you are being unrealistic, from a woman's point of view.
I have a reasonable sex drive and am willing to try some new things BUT
I don't do oral, there is no way my OH is ever going to cum in my mouth. He knows that and respects me enough not to ask or push me into doing something which makes me uncomfortable.
I always said no to anal but with patience he has introduced me to it, slowly. It is a very personal thing and there are a lot of women that would consider it beyond their boundries.
Finally pictures, I am like Gunther's wife I hate having my picture taken, it has taken a long time and a lot of confidence building for me to allow a camera into the bedroom. The guys on here have had a big role in that, the positive reactions help. Again my partner respects that I dont like some of the shots and they are deleated without question. To be honest I agree with Rebecca
Your post is all about what you want, and does imply a somewhat selfish attitude.
It boils down to three things respect, trust and communication. If any one of those is missing then the relationship isnt going to fulfil either of you.
I didn't mean this to come across as a lecture but having been married for 13 years with a boring sex life I can understand where your gf is coming from. For me the difference came from a new man. Maybe you need to consider if you are compatable enough to last.