lilac_vix wrote:
Although there is always a chance that one day she will change you need to think about and decde if you can be happy with your relationship as it is, sex and all, or if you need to end the relationship. If you know you cannot be happy long term with the sex as it is now it's unfair to stay in the relationship.
I tend to agree with this. I think you have to look beyond the sex in your relationship as it's not everything.
I do agree with the others talking about it and baby steps is a way forward. There isn't much I will say no to with the OH but if I say I'm not too fond of it/interested he won't push for more information he basically lets me sit, reflect and if i change my mind then I change it!