I'm not sure about specifically 'adult' DVDs to bring up, but I would highly recommend Secretary - whether or not you're interested in various elements of BDSM, it's a fantastic film, and I think it's particularly sexy.
Depends what you want. We enjoy watching the "swinger" series of DVDs (numbered "Swinger 1". "Swinger 2" etc) which were filmed in La Chambre swingers club and star ordinary club members. We were watching one in bed one night and decided we'd like to give the club (and the sort of play going on) a try, and got hooked!
Anna Span's porn for women is good, there are 'soft' and 'hard' versions of each film and we prefer the 'hard' ones. Melanie's swinger DVDs are good too, as again she uses real people.
We don't like the USA-style porn with muscle-men and skinny women with false breasts acting out pre-arranged routines while making inane comments. If you don't fancy this sort of stuff try French or German films as well as those we recommend.
I'm not sure about specifically 'adult' DVDs to bring up, but I would highly recommend Secretary - whether or not you're interested in various elements of BDSM, it's a fantastic film, and I think it's particularly sexy.
(sorry, writing on here doesn't allow me to 'quote') poppy - Hurrah for fellow fan! Still think that James Spader was a very risky choice for a romantic male lead, but somehow it works. Might have to watch that tonight!
Why not create your own film? Make a script (which might reveal sereat fantasies) and give it a go. Make it a weekend thing. Shoot a scene in the morning...another that night...and screen it the next day.
If you get real good - you can make a sequel.
Imagine getting turned on by what you see on the screen - and then actually get to reinact it with them!
I agree on Secretary, if you want something a bit more 'porn' 9 Songs is ok, or my ex's fave was UK student house 2, you can get a softcore version on Amazon I think if you don't want anything too graphic.