I always shave bits down below, and pubes are very very trimmed. My wife does not say anything about it, maybe she is embarrased, dont know, not asked. She is very hairy below which I dont like, especially when applying oral which I do love. I have asked if I can shave her but she is a little prude and does not find it erotic, not even to think of.
trimmed for both me and a guy while i don't have a problem with being natural getting a pube stuck between your teeth or in the back of your throat during oral is a real passion killer
I've been totally bald for a couple of years until recently when I've suffered with in growing hairs and my doctor advised me to stop shaving. That was an embarrassing conversation. My OH is very hairy too and i find it off putting when going down on her, she does trim occasionally but it grows back so damn quickly :-(
I went completely bald once and so did my oh. For me it itched, quite painfully may I add when it started growing back so now I get my clippers out and number 2 around my penis then completely razor my balls and neaten the rest up with the razor. As for my oh she wasn't keen on completely bald (I loved it). Again it itched too much and always left a little rash so she just has a landing strip now which is great. Must say too many pubes just isn't inviting and especially as I love giving oral I prefer it to be neat. Not keen on the hair stuck in teeth or back of my throat face. Sort of ends the moment.
Waxing, although sometimes painful, is better than shaving. Stays smoother for longer. Oh goes bald, barr a small tuft above her "button". I have "Sack, crack, base and sides" waxed, and trim the rest. Feels so much more intimate for us. Funny really, but I remember, back in the 80's, when depilation started taking off. God..... I am getting old!
I'm totally shaved. I started off trimming it, but gradually went shorter and shorter till I thought "what the hell" and went for the bald look. Mrs Yorkie prefers it this way these days too.