Hey all,
I'm currently in the process of putting together a sexy lingerie outfit as a surprise for my boyfriend, and I'm currently debating about whether or not to get shoes or not. Bearing in mind there's no way I could walk in them lol. Obviously there's not much walking to be done in the bedroom, but do you consider shoes a waste and not worth the money, or do they really add something to the experience?
I think my outfits always look kinda like theyre missing something when i dont have shoes to go with them.
Which sucks cause i desperately need red shoes and cant find any i like, lol xx
From a bloke point of view (might just be me mind you) the oufit is the main thing, the shoes I do not even look at (mind you if your bloke has a shoe fettish, that is another thing).
I think if you want to give it your all then get some shoes as you may think afterwards that there was a little somehting missing as Morbidia has said.
If you are going to do any form of show infront of your man then he will have lots of time to look at your full body which will be head to toe so shoes would be good. If your just going to walk in the room and jump on him then shoes not so important.
The main thing is def the outfit tho as jaydee said so as long as you have got a good one, the shoes are not so important.
Thats my opinion anyways either way im sure it will be a nice treat for him.
I dont have a foot fetish, but where a sexy bedroom outfit is concerned 'fuck me shoes' are essential
I have always wondered that. I will just ask my OH what he thinks now.......
......he says...wait for it....."yeah its alright"
Load of help that was
I like shoes, but I think they definatly gota match. I fancy a pair of over the knee boots myself :)
LoveHoney - Carly wrote:
Oh this is a hard one - are you wearing stockings with your lingerie? Shoes and stockings go together like cheesecake and rum (for those who haven't ever indulged, they go together REALLY well) and will make your outfit look even more fantastic!
If you're not wearing stockings and the lingerie is quite light and floaty (think girly babydolls, cute camisoles and soft chemises) then the bare feet look is very sexy! It adds a sort of freedom and wildness to that kind of outfit that hints at innocence and naughtiness at the same time.
Agree with Carly, I'm a sucka for stockings and add shoes to finish me off, but they dont go with cami's - although I've found a nice pair of docs go with everything.....hang on, I've got a fetish WOOHOOO!
shoes with everything!! just make sure they compliment the outfit and dont take the attention away from it too much (again, unless he has a shoe fetish!!) x
I LOVE IT when my OH climbs ontop of me with a pair of thigh high boots or high heels on. . . .
sexy as fuck!
SG69 x
LoveHoney - Carly wrote:
Oh this is a hard one - are you wearing stockings with your lingerie? Shoes and stockings go together like cheesecake and rum (for those who haven't ever indulged, they go together REALLY well) and will make your outfit look even more fantastic!
If you're not wearing stockings and the lingerie is quite light and floaty (think girly babydolls, cute camisoles and soft chemises) then the bare feet look is very sexy! It adds a sort of freedom and wildness to that kind of outfit that hints at innocence and naughtiness at the same time.
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Yeah, if there's stockings, there must be fuck me heels; if it's bare legs, then bare feet too!
If you are just going to be in the bedroom then I'd say no shoes, but if you are going out somewhere together and want to get straight to business once you get back home then sexy shoes are a must. And no heels if you have a waterbed of course.
Agree with Shellyboo and Carla, graet advice there - if the outfit is calling for it, then that's just what the outfit needs :)
yep got to agree with carly, i have a pair of knee high victorian boots that my OH go's absolutely crazy for, when i'm wearing black or red or anything overly sexual and a bit gothy, but when i'm wearing little pink nighties, he just likes matching knickers and bare feet, or even sometimes knee socks, (innocence thing)
so it really does depend on your outfit :] and your budget of course
You need a reason to buy shoes???? Let's be honest, with a name like mine, it's obvious I'm obsessed! I'd suggest maybe using some you already have (if you do) unless you particularly want to buy some new ones. I agree taht some outfits benefit from shoes but you don't *have* to have some. Although I'd always recomemnd having one pair of heels at least that make you feel good in (whether you can walk or not!). Metallic colours like gold are good for this because they go with a variety of things easily.
I agree with the whole if its stockings you gotta put shoes with it thing, it looks ultra hot and all adds to the conferdance. i normaly just wear a pair oh my black high heels they go with everything and i can "sort of" just mange a tiny walk in them lol.
if your gonna add shoes id just get a cheapey black high pair from like primark or something if there just gonna be used for bedroom fun.
Dxx
I think its going to be all done to the outfit whether footwear will as they say... finish it off.
Not much good if its a camisole outfit with hobnail boots
Definitely, definitely wear high heels!!!
I think you have got to have the right shoes to finish off an outfit. It can make what already looks good super-sexy. I've got to admit that I am a bit of a sucker for a woman wearing 'porn-star' heels.
A pair of 'posing shoes' are always fun to have. The aren't designed for walking, just standing sexily and then looking elegant if your reclining on something. I'd recommend something without buckles or fastenings as its alot easier and more seductive to just slip the shoes off, unless you think your boyfriend would enjoying getting down on his knees and undoing and removing them for you before moving up your legs...
actually wearing heels to bed can be awkward unless one of you has an actual heels fetish.
