It has come to my attention that not everyone reacts the same to sexual stimulisation, I cant seem to keep quiet and infact when i have to (as to not scare the kids =S) I end up getting a splitting headache. My previous partners have been silent and tbh I never enjoyed sex as much as i do now with a partner that moans and groans and, in my eyes lets me know if i'm doing things right.
So my question is do you find yourself making noises whist engaging in sex or do you feel more comfortable being silent, or even what do your partners seem to prefer and does any of this cause problems??
Screamer all the way! It's physically impossible for me to not make any noise at all. You can imagine how hard this makes it, living with my parents. I normally have to gag myself with a pillow or the duvet!
On the other hand, my boyfriend is completely silent, only ever making the odd bit of noise when he comes. It's quite irritating at times!
Know what u mean Ecksvie.....it came to a point when I felt there was somthing wrong with me and it didnt really help when my first ever guy stopped and asked what the heck was wrong with me =S
Aye, I'm the same, rather loud, although I've trained myself to be quieter out of necessity. Still couldn't be quiet, don't understand how people manage it.
I used to be really quiet but now I just can't manage it!
And if there is noone else in the house apart from me and WandA then a lot of screaming just escapes - don't know how I manage to stifle it when people are in!
My orgasms never seem to be like the ones in porn movies..... I actually laugh when i watch a home movie bk and ask the OH if that really are the noises I make, in my head they sound so much more sensual. =S
Haha, no you're def not the only one, Sexual Tourettes is def my affliction but it turns him on so much too, I love it, mind you when he then responds in kind that sends me crazy, haha!
Yeah by the time in repeating the word F**k over and over again my OH knows and coming and asks me if im about to which just tippsme over the edge...... oh this week is going to drag I can tell.
Aww Malteser I feel your pain, *big hugs* not even sure when I will see my OH next, luckily he is great at text and phone sex for the in-between times, he even puts the f**ks in his texts for authenticity, haha!
I can keep quiet and sometimes that makes for some pretty intense sex. Ordinarily though I make all sorts of noises...screaming, swearing, whimpering, moaning, crying (when getting whipped, I love it though!), I've even been known to purr!
i find it exrtemely hard to keep quiet, its part of the release is the noise i make - i do moan extremely loudly, i have been known to scream but only when its deserved!! ;)
I'm noisey but have to try keep it down when my son is hear. A few months ago my downstairs neighbours chapped up to us, I didn't even realise I was being that noisey!
My OH isn't a screamer but certainly a swearer and tells me where to put what in no uncertain terms! I on the other hand am very loud whilst in full pounding mode Lol