I'm new to the rabbits, and I'm looking for one that's as slim as possible - I'm really really really small down there. As in, a 1.3 inch vibe can make it hurt and bleed. (Yes, I'm going to see a gyno about that.)
What I was wondering is if there are any really slim rabbit vibes out there? I've seen the littlest one which is like 0.7, but I really want one with the turning head. The slimline jessica rabbit will probably be too big, and the gspot one looks about the right size but I'm not sure about that curve thingy. Would love to hear any suggestions!
This might suit you: www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/slender-vibro-wand-mini-rabbit-vibrator/ I haven't tried it but it is very slimline and a good price x
Alternatively, you could use a seperate rabbit like this: www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/pure-vibes-waterproof-silicone-rabbit-vibrator/ then you can match it with one of your vibes that you are comfortable with already so don't have to worry about the girth! x
Perhaps a rabbit isn't the toy to consider at this stage yet...
There is not point rushing something for short term gain and long term pain. I'd suggest listing to your medical professional and seeing what they suggest eith things such as dilators. It is of course always possible to stimulate both parts with two separate toys!
My girlfriend has suffered from something similar and I imagine the fixing of the shaft might present problems when trying to stimulate your clit.
I must say - I have put off rabbits for the reasons WandA stated - it's not always a good idea to push yourself for more than your body can take...experimenting with different shapes and textures of dildos and insertable vibes might be a good idea.
I'f you're dead set on a rabbit - remember to take into account the length of the ears too - if you're narrow inside, you probably have a smaller length between your pussy and your clit and you don't want a toy that will sit awkwardly and pull funny inside.
Also if you're suffering with tenderness (was it vestibulodynia you had a problem with? I remember there being a thread) then I don't know if you have tenderness between your inner lips - you know, just below the clit? If you do, a rabbit will sit right there and may aggravate it.
Actually, my gyno said to try and take larger toys than are in my comfort zone. So for a while I had this routine of taking a one inch dildo in, then a well lubed up 1.3 inch dildo and just keep it there until it stops hurting. But nowadays I just start bleeding when I try that, so I'm going to go back and find me a better gyno. And of course buying a rabbit is delayed until after I can get a professional opinion.
Thank you for the tips, though. I really would love to try a rabbit, but I'm mostly playing with clitoral toys so far.
Actually, my gyno said to try and take larger toys than are in my comfort zone. So for a while I had this routine of taking a one inch dildo in, then a well lubed up 1.3 inch dildo and just keep it there until it stops hurting. But nowadays I just start bleeding when I try that, so I'm going to go back and find me a better gyno. And of course buying a rabbit is delayed until after I can get a professional opinion.
Thank you for the tips, though. I really would love to try a rabbit, but I'm mostly playing with clitoral toys so far.
Hello TD... so sorry to find you are having probems. Alot of women (more than I realised) have problems where they can only insert the smallest of toys etc into their vagias and I feel for you. Hope you do get a new gyno who can help you deal with your problem much easier and wilth less pain =S.
Untill then enjoy clitoral play hun, it really is so much fun but I wish to ask if you have ever considered anal stimulation as can be just as effective, fun and pleasurable?? xxx
Actually, my gyno said to try and take larger toys than are in my comfort zone. So for a while I had this routine of taking a one inch dildo in, then a well lubed up 1.3 inch dildo and just keep it there until it stops hurting. But nowadays I just start bleeding when I try that, so I'm going to go back and find me a better gyno. And of course buying a rabbit is delayed until after I can get a professional opinion.
Thank you for the tips, though. I really would love to try a rabbit, but I'm mostly playing with clitoral toys so far.
You should see about getting some dilators from your gynae - they should prescribe some to you - I'm not sure how it works out cost wise, I got mine free because I was under 19 and in full time education when I got mine but they might be great for exactly what you want - you can get them on lovehoney http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13236 but they are dear.
I think it's a good idea to hold off the rabbit for a while and work with smaller dildos and the likes - you can always combine clitoral vibes with dildos too if you can work one with each hand or lay on your front to hold the clit vibe in place.
I don't know if you're doing PC muscle exercises but that should make a real difference too especially if you combine it with the smaller toys you're using!
I totally agree with AndaW, dilators sound like the best option for now an you can work your way up to a rabbit. You can always use a bullet vibe on your clit at the same time as using these.