Hi all.
I wonder if anyone can give me some advice on what to choose. I have 6 by now and still haven’t found the one that just stays in while walking about and isn’t too big to get in. Latest one I tried was http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21111 and it just isn’t going in, even though the idea of it having a long stem and big head sounds just the trick.
Ta.
A.
Would Round Medium from the same series do it, or is it too small already? Inbetween the two, there is Funkist Lemon from TSX, which is the only long-term wearable I use, 66x62 mm in diameter, and on the soft side. I strongly suggest you try that one.
I know it's a bit pricey, but I have the smaller version of this and it feels so good!!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30911 (XL)
Or a smaller 'Large' version
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30819
The aluminium feels lovely, and the weight is really nice too. It's super comfortable, super smooth and very easy to insert because of the taper.
There is this - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=350
But I don't think the stem is long enough, I also like having a long stem.
Or this looks super comfortable!!
Jeeze Amanda! You're brave!!!
I just like little ones, I've got no intentions of having a huge one. The sensations I get from small ones are brilliant, so I haven't got a need for a bigger one at the minute. I worry I'll end up with a gape :|
eeeep Amanda that's huge!!!
amandammmm wrote:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=350
I have this, and it stays inside me!! :)
i'm impressed, if somewhat envious also!
Would love to train on wider toys however I have an issue with length being uncomfortable. Still on the look out for a butt plug with the perfect dimensions...
Awwwwww noooo!!!! Gapes really freak me out!!!
I have the same glass one - my first ever purchase on here and took me four years of practice to get it in!
I agree the flat flare is a bit more for an advanced player - but once in, it aint coming out - plus the glass is amazing.
and agree - love gapes!
That's a hole that's supposed to be closed :|
I like mine being as tight as possible, that's why I use small plugs with long stems. There's no fun in having a gape at the back when there's a hole at the front! Mr loves the tightness!
holes were meant to be filled!
and a gape doesnt mean you lose tightness if its done properly of course...
Surely if you have a gape, that's not as tight as not having a gape?!
I see what you mean here...
However in order to gape, you need to focus on really relaxing the muscles there. Don't forget we have two sets of sphincter muscles, one which we control voluntarily and the secind set, found slighty deeper in is controlled involuntarily.
So gaping is not a permanent thing (if donr properly of course) it is merely the person relaxing their muscles and being in the right frame of mind also and most likely having used a toy to relax both sets of muscles.
When play time is over everything goes back to normal.
I rememebr reading an article on a similar topic where a test was done on a number of people to see how tightly they could squeeze their sphincter muscles. It should that those who actively had anal play had better control and a tighter squeeze as the muscles were in better condition.
Like any other muscle though - you can over work them/abuse them and this will naturally lead to problems of course, but as said before, if done properly and safely then all shoud be well and good.
Gaping is not a permanent thing, but it doesn't fully go back to normal for a couple of months without using a toy. Otherwise if it went back to normal immediately, you wouldn't be able to get massive butt plugs in surely?
it's all down to flexibilitiy of the muscles, in this case sphincter muscles. If you train them properly then you will go back to normal immediately aswell as having the ability to stretch to allow for larger toys.
Its the same concept as touching your toes for example. If you did this everyday for 20-30 seconds, it would simply become second nature to you and you would always be able to do it as your muscles (hamstrings, calves, lower back amongst others) have been trained and conditioned to allow for this movement. Of course, you would then be able to stand upright after.
However if you just tried to do it and forced yourself down to touch your toes, especially without training or warming them up, you would probably pull a muscle and risk injury.
As I said before, the sphincter muscles are muscles in the same way as others in your body which can be trained, warmed up, stretched (but not pulled) and strengthened.
amandammmm wrote:
If I have a big plug on a night, my bottom is back to normal by the morning!!
Admittedly, smaller plugs are used more often, and the big ones come out on occasion.
I've managed to learn how to just stretch it open with my fingers, and again, it's back to normal very quickly.
sounds awesome!
For staying in there's nothing that works as well as the Njoy shape plugs:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9038
There used to be a rubber version as well (that's the one I have) but the weight of the stainless steel one is supposed to add to the sensation
I've worked my way up for a few months and gone from the slim line ones up to the large ones, and its worth doing, once you can take the large ones, they are so much more pleasureable
icicles 14 glass buttplug feels great