What was your partner’s reaction when you first slapped her on the face? Did you tell her about this kinky before? Anyone here have face slapping fetish? I have no fetish for it. I’ve never done that before. But recently I felt excited when I thought about it and told my partner, and she said okay, we’ll try it. Any advice on how to do it? How should I do it, and when are the right moments to slap her face?
1 Like
I think if anyone “surprised” their partner with a slap in the face out of the blue, they’d be prosecuted for assault. I think you need to re-word your question, as this site doesn’t promote unsolicited violence against women, plus it should be open to both genders. I’m guessing if you do ask, she’ll tell you to get lost. Any unsolicited violence against a partner is abuse.
5 Likes
I think if my hubby slapped me round the face without warning he would get one back and divorce proceedings would follow.
If he told me in advance i would want to know why he felt he needed to hit me, tell him no he cant and i dont care if its a kink at which point i would tell him i have a kink to kick him in the balls.
If the receiver of the slap has requested to be slapped that is different, the same as cbt its usually the receiver that asks for it as it is their kink.
6 Likes
I often wonder if posts like this are trolling or the poster is genuinely clueless.
1 Like
Check out his other posts and i think you will have your answer.
2 Likes
Definitely not something you should be surprising your partner by doing, but if you’ve discussed it and they are ok with it, that’s different.
Face slapping is actually more dangerous than most people assume. The impact can push the face round and that can cause injuries to the neck. If it’s something you both want to explore, having the other hand on the cheek to hold the head in place is a good idea.
Beyond that, there are obviously plenty of breakable bits in the face and you, of course, want to stay well clear of the eyes.
You also have an issue with marking. If the slap leaves marks, they are going to be very visible for others to see. The slap might not even have to be that hard if your partner marks easily. Different parts of the body react differently, so you can’t use how easily they mark in other areas as much of a guide.
4 Likes
Scarring should also be considered. I have a scar on my face, which i have had for many years just under my cheek, its very faint and easily covered with makeup and blusher but how would he feel if he accidentally scratched her face with a ring or his nail and left her scarred for life.
1 Like
I love a bit of spanking but have said on more than 1 occasion: ‘slap my face and I will full on punch you.’ Said jokingly but deadly serious.
It should never be a “surprise” FFS.
2 Likes
When I’m in the mood I’m not against a bit of face slapping (it goes well with a bit of degradation, which I can enjoy), but it has to be something that is negotiated and agreed, not just slapping your partner across the face out of “surprise”. Even if it is done as a “surprise”, it’s important to remember that people discuss and agree kinks before hand. So before “surprising” your partner, you have a plain ol’ conversation with the question “how would you feel if I slapped you across the face?”. If they aren’t into it, don’t do it.
If fhey are game, do not use the ball of your hand – you can dislocate a jaw, knock teeth out, or worse. You want to use only your fingertips on the buccal muscle (the soft, fleshy part of the cheek) and a quick tap, not a full-armed swing.
The whole point of face slapping is that it can be degrading, which some people (hello, hi) sometimes enjoy. You do not want to break your partner, though.
Also, you may want to edit your question slightly to keep it open to all members, as per the forum rules 
2 Likes
I didn’t mean excessive abuse or violent slapping that would leave a mark. I’m talking about some soft kinky “slap”
Thank you. But I didn’t mean excessive abuse or violent slapping that would leave a mark. I’m talking about some soft kinky
Any slap on the face out of the blue is assault, and you didn’t word it how you now claim to have meant it.
1 Like
Accidents can happen when playing, just would not want to be you when your partner is in a&e trying to explain why when you hit her she fell and hit her head.
I think I misspoke. But I didn’t mean physical violence.
I think I misspoke. But I didn’t mean physical violence.
You do want you want to do but it should always be with prior consent. Just be prepared to accept the consequences of your actions.
1 Like
The only kind of slapping for me is some nice penis slapping against face or any other body part.
I was the one getting slapped, and I basically told him I wanted it rough, and then kept asking him for more until I said something to the effect of “just like that” and that was where we kept it….
1 Like
As a woman, what prompted you to ask for that? I’m curious to know about your experience.
When someone slapped me on the face years back, I bit their hand 
1 Like