what do you like to think to yourself or tell yourself when your alone during a pleasure session?
I like to think about hubby
Recently I’ve been using his t-shirt, I love to smell his scent while I’m going solo, I’ll either use videos/photos we made, or I’ll use my imagination, thinking of different scenarios of us 2. I mainly use my womanizer, but I do like to use my FSOG rabbits too.
I go for either past experiences with sexual partners, love remembering the feelings I had at the time as it makes me tighten, or I think about what I’d like to do with someone, usually kink related.
I always think about being bent over the boot or bonnet of a super hot car, my hair being pulled hard, a gentle hand tightening around my throat that tightens with every thrust and a hard slap on the ass cheeks alternating every few thrusts gets me cumming over and over on my solo sessions
@VioletWolf , love that. i get the same feeling, i think its called something like ghost touch or smn like that. not to mention the fact you know its already happened to you I personally think makes it way hotter
Mostly just watch porn and kinda get visualised in the moments
Well I think about sucking hos cock and he puts me on my stomach and I raised my ass
When I masturbate by myself, no partners present, my mind races thru many many past sexual experiences. I think about sucking a clitoris to the point my girlfriend moans and screams and having sex outside naked in the moonlight while sucking a penis and swallowing the cum. It is all good, but by the end of my climax, I am only thinking about my own pleasure, sounds a bit selfish.
not selfish at all i dont think, after all its just a thought “we all make mistakes in the heat of passion jimbo” im sure wh all have a secret we dont lke talking about but thats realy only unleashed in he heat of the moment. besides wouldent mind the thought of that either lol
When I’m in a relationship I think of allsorts about her, things I imagine doing/have done. thinking about her sitting on my face getting covered in her juices. Often I would put pictures of her around me and having a item of her clothing with her scent. I would say her name out loud and say things like she was with me watching me masturbate.
Now being single it’s kind of all changed I still had some of her clothing she gave me as she would say that clothing was mine but she would top up her scent every now and then, so when we split her scent was still on them I would just think it was someone else’s clothing . the scent has now gone.
So I watch porn for a bit then I will think about past experiences or things I would like to do to someone I kind of imagine they are with me. If I’m looking at naked pictures while I’m masturbating I kind of think of someone and that’s their picture.
My mind is actually thinking about alot of things while I’m masturbating I have a very active mind
I have been doing the solo program for many years . I relive memories and often expand or modify them . I also watch porn clips and home made porn . You may notice that I have posted “several” photos here in the forums . I love setting up photos and videos of myself . That is often tied into fantasies . Common hope in those is that even though my photos here are mild is that someone somewhere may use my photos for their fantasy . The thing about having a non active wife is that my fantasies have expanded into being hetro flexible and my imagination runs wild .
Sometimes i think about the wife, but most of the time i dont really think about anything just masturbating myself and knowing im going to orgasm is enough for me.
I’ve changed to just focusing on the feelings and am enjoying looking at my own body more while doing it, luxuriating in the reality of the here and now.
@Serpentwand I totally understand what you are saying about enjoying your own body, since I have been happyish about my new weight I love getting out the and watching it back seeing what I do and how my body squirms. I still want to gain some more weight but I’m happy to watch where before I would get the out and be totally saddened on how thin I was enough I couldn’t bare to get out the camera again.
I tend to think about things I’ve done in the past. Mostly with my wife but occasionally with previous lovers (but they’re a long long time ago so I need some imagination to supplement the fading memories).
it really depends. sometimes I just focus on what I’m feeling, sometimes I watch bondage porn, sometimes I listen to a Dipsea recording, sometimes I think about my husband, sometimes I just think one or two words over and over, like ‘spit-roasted’ or ‘fuck me’.
I have no time really to think…except for what toy I’m using next and where it’s going
I think about my two exs together always get me going
I think about my OH always gets me turned on
Usually I create scenarios in my mind - it’s usually the same scenario which is almost almost cuckquean style. I don’t know why I always think of this !