Solo play while partner isn’t home

My husband is a regular gym goer one evening a week whilst I go in the day but just lately on the night he goes I seem to have thought of his sweaty body working out which turns me on.

Those thoughts lead me to using my greedy girl vibrator which gives me huge .multiple orgasams I do feel guilty my pointis should I tell him or just carry on. What’s your views

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Both! Tell him and carry on :heart_eyes:

When we were first married, my OH went to a keep fit evening class with her friend. I was home alone thinking about them getting hot and sweaty in their leotards. This made me hard and I always had a play. I always told my OH about this and this led to terrific sex with explosive endings :heart_on_fire::blush:

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Tell him and then do all sorts of things to each other

Tell him, he might come home early.

@Wood-Nymph Wood-Nymphthank you but I have so many orgasams i don’t think I could do anothercround

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Definitely carry on, but tell him too

Absolutely keep Doing it. And maybe film yourself and send it to him. Or as we do watch it together while mutually masturbating

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@Wood-Nymph Wood-Nymphthank you but I have so many orgasams i don’t think I could do anothercround

@Wood-Nymph Wood-Nymph forgot to ask do you do solo.if you don’t mind me asking

No i dont, i get what i need from hubby and if i wanted more hubby would oblige, might be him piv or he uses my toys on me. Normally holds me for a couple of days.
Forgot to mention we are both retired so can do it whenever we want.

I don’t know what it is about going solo when he is not there it’s a new thing like you i get enough from him but it’s a strange thing

Its very rare that we are not together. We even go to the gym together. He goes to football on his own but it never crosses my mind as i feel i dont need to.

@batjamboree good to see your still around howbis winter wonder land

Personal question to you play solo

@AWB1955 - yes still around and winter wonderland is beautiful but very expensive

as for playing solo - I do when I cannot sleep and either play with my fingers or insert a small dildo and buzzer

Yes I called down there and thought it was expensive the castle looks good

Thank your for your honest reply

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You could tell him that while hes working out your fantasising about him, doing your own sexy work out x he may then come in sweatt wanting to extend his work out lol

Carry on :fire::fire::fire:

Came home from work one Saturday. OH said she had read one of my porn mags ( was many years ago ! ) and was so turned on she had some play time with her vibrator. The thought of her using it made me horny as f**k so I asked if she wanted to show me how she used it. Ended up having a wild time in bed with multiple orgasms. Still remember the day all these years later. So as others have said tell him and see what happens. Be surprised if you don’t end up coming together - so to speak !!

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Personally if my OH told me she was masterbating it would be a massive turn on!

Could you talk to him and explain you will work yourself up whilst he is out but he better be ready to perform when he arrives home. @AWB1955

You’ve definitely got to carry on given that intensity but I would definitely tell them if you think it will get a good reaction, either right there and then when you tell him or add something to your sex life! I’d personally love it if my OH told be she was masturbating like that and I think when she told me I’d just want to ravish her but longer term it would be so hot knowing she was doing it at a certain time! :fire: