As technology improves and society changes. What tips, tricks, games, advice can you give for someone who is a solo submissive without a Don/Domme in 2025?
Thanks to @HungJ for inspiration for this and here are some interesting points of reference to start the conversation
I’m not writing it out again 
https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/q-a-with-lifestyle-submissives-48-hrs/323343/5
Could you help me out if you think it’s appropriate please.
In the Q&A thread there is a part of the conversation that’s not related to the original post, could it be moved here please.
When you say through masturbation, do you mean like orgasm control?
You could try using a dice/coin toss/spin the wheel.
Dice: Odd numbers mean you can cum, even numbers mean you can’t (or vice versa)
Coin toss: Heads means yes, tails means no
Spin the wheel: create a decision making wheel with “yes” and “no” sedgements. The wheel decides yours fate.
You don’t even need a physical dice/coin for this, just ask Alexa/Google to toss a coin, or you can find an app.
I hope that helps 
That’s about all I have for now, but I’m sure the oracle of wisdom @JGood might be able to help.
@HungJ What are your hobbies, interests? Shows you like to watch etc.
Let’s say you like watching a show. And instead of drinking a shot you have to wank so you start off hands free and I’ll use football as an example.
The rules for when the ball is in possession of an odd numbered shirt player you wank slower than you normally would, even numbers at normal speed, if the ball is in the air you stop, throw ins you pinch your nipples, fouls you cup your balls until normal play resumes corner kicks and goal kicks you wank as fast as you can if you feel like you are cumming you stop and spank yourself every 15 seconds watching the clock. If you cum you turn the TV off and don’t get to watch it and you hear the results on the news or your app etc.
@Tenshadesandme I hope that’s something like you would suggest to our friend.
Far more technical than anything I could think of, thank you.
If you are willing to use an app, you could explore online tools like fapinstuctor or Virtual Succubus for the more BDSM experience.
@HungJ in that scenario you are subservient to the game and the players to add to it also if a goal is scored you have until the ball gets to the centre spot to feel cum without consequence.
There’s a free AI less option rather than the bells and whistles version.
Vs also has a free demo option with limited but still extensive range of options.
Moved as requested @JGood 
think I got everything 
Appreciate the help as always and flawlessly as always. Thank you 
Thankyou @MsSubExperimenter , your help spares me the confusion too! 
Some things off the top of my mind to try would be one of them self masturbating toys put in a hold thingy what sticks to the walls or even poke the masturbater in between the bed mattress and then you can perhaps put your hands in some self restraints and only let the toy jerk you off without being able to touch anything if makes sense?! 
Pair that with some nipple clamps on chains what connect to a cock ring so every move tugs at them and perhaps add a dildo fuck machine u to the mix, you’d be in a full submissive play in no time! 
If gentle
Inner thighs can be quite nice @Tenshadesandme is the pinwheel queen from what I remember.
@JGood I rolled my eyes so hard at that
@HungJ there’s nothing to stop you but I would test the sensation somewhere less sensitive before you dive in, andbstart gentle with yourself. Also make sure you keep your toys clean if using them in more intimate areas
Do you mean this one?
I wrote a review on it here