Can I ask all you out there - when enjoying pegging - do you also like to be spanked before or after the pegging - or do you just enjoy pegging without spanking- I will give you more context later …. 
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I like to be caned, cropped or paddled first then, when my bum is really sore, i like to be pegged.
We haven’t considered spanking with pegging but it’s now on our to do list. 
For me, I enjoy the intimacy and vulnerability I experience from being pegged by Sexterminatrix. But if she chooses to liven things up with a slap on the arse (either with her hands or her implements), then who am I to say no?
I think I need to apologise to my husband- last night about 10pm he was horny and so I agreed I would assist with some spanking and pegging - I’m full of a cold at the moment do my head was not in it
We went down to the ground floor (we are making this into our sex room / dungeon) and I took off my top and fixed the harness with a new 6 inch dildo (it’s a glitter and gold inside a more rigid shaft)
He was in his suspenders with stockings and knickers and so we embraced and I whispered to him that he needs to be fu**ed - I bent him over the table and took down his knickers (as he had suspenders on - they don’t go that far ) but he asked to spank him with his knickers up first - I said I will spank you after pegging and proceeded to force his legs apart and slide in the dildo
I pegged him for quite some time - I felt the new firmer dildo was great and he was enjoying watching my boobs bounce up and down in the mirror infront of us while I thrusted
Then after pegging I spanked him quite a lot with paddle and crop until his bum was nice and red - I pulled up his knickers and spanked him some more
After I asked if he was satisfied- but he said I needed to be spanked first and then pegged as it’s not the same - I said it makes no difference - clearly it does ….
@batjamboree for the most part I enjoy pegging without spanking. But when in the mood, like last night, I prefer to be spanked before pegging.
@JMS55 - it’s each to their own - my husband enjoys the spanking more than the pegging- for me I enjoy the pegging more - it’s the sight of the dildo entering him turns me on
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My husband tends to prefer them separately (eg on different days), but on the occasions he does have both, it is definitely spanking first, then pegging.
From my perspective, I love a spanking before anal, probably for much the same reason. The feeling as the body attached to the cock slams into the tender ass on each stroke - it seems to heighten the senses about everything to do with the penetration.
Sometimes, I do spank him afterwards too, often under the premise of him enjoying himself too much and needing to be punished for it 
Totally agree. As well as the dildo rubbing my clit to orgasm, pegging for me is all about the visuals. Watching the dildo enter his ass, and watching his face as the pegging happens, is why I love it so so much.
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@KinkyMira - thank you for your reply - it’s a bizarre world when a woman straps on a dildo and bends her man over a table and pushes in a pretend cock - and it works for both parties
To mate the mirror in front of us also helps and it’s always good to reach around and feel how his cock is doing while pegging
My kink is that initial sight of the penis entering his bottom - and then watching the shaft as it enters and comes out - but also I like to push his body against the table as I enter
Can I ask you - what position you you prefer when pegging your man
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My absolute favourite is the diaper position, him on his back with his legs up in the air and me penetrating him from behind. I can see the dildo going in and his face each time I slam in.
Other positions are good with a mirror. Him holding onto the bathroom sink and looking into the mirror above it. I do like him bent over a table too (mirror the other side of the table).
@KinkyMira - table penetration for us - it’s fast and easy - and I feel in my heels / outfits I look great and love to see myself wearing the dildo
One I did like is him bent over the back of the settee, with his legs held apart by the spreader bar and the bar and his arms restrained to the legs of the settee. Fairly uncomfortable for him I think, brilliant for me, and great visuals too.
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We’ve done that exact same thing except that she caned me first.
She had a spreader bar between my ankles and another between my wrists then she used cable ties round the bars and the sofa legs to keep me bent over the back of the sofa.
It wasn’t comfortable but it was a full on domme/sub experience for both of us and I enjoyed it immensely.
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@rockstar - I agree I will always spank him first (I got him a cane for Christmas- so he will be caned) as he enjoys having a red and sore bottom prior to pegging
Can I ask what is your favourite pegging position- I will not be able to use the back of the sofa as it’s too high and I cannot get the angle right
As for a spreader - I will use this going forward- I currently don’t have this with me
It does surprise me how much spanking he can take - his bum has been almost purple after spanking and still wants more
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@KinkyMira - I agree the view would be amazing- as I mentioned to @rockstar j cannot use the sofa as it’s too high but will definitely use the spread bar when we get back home
As for spanking - I am very good at spanking and have amazing aim - once I have spanked him - it’s pegging time
We only have the 6 inch dildo with us currently- looking forward to using the 8 inch soon
Bent over the kitchen work surface works too.
My favourite position depends on what I need.
If I need intimacy then I want to be spooned. If I’m feeling particularly feminine then missionary with my bum up on a wedge cushion is lovely. If I want to be dominated and pounded then it’s doggy every time.
@rockstar - we spoon as well - slow and loving and doggy style works but I have bad knees and it hurts me
@rockstar - it’s wonderful to speak to you but can I ask how often you get spanked or caned - my husband wants more and more but I don’t want to cause damage - I spank him about 70% of time through his wet look knickers which reduces the marks - but when I take the knickers down and spank bare bottom I’m concerned - and currently it’s every day and about half hour per day
I have started spanking top of legs and penis to reduce the bum marks
I have no worries pegging him - this causes no problem and it’s what I like - but he likes spanking hard and using a cane does leave strong marks
I appreciate a red bum is what you like - but I don’t want to take it too far
I’m with @spanking_for_fun. My ass takes an awful lot at times and it bounces back fine. So does my husband’s for that matter.
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Every 3-4 days I am caned, cropped, paddled or whipped.
She stops when she sees deep red marks that will turn into bruises.
She never draws blood.
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