We’ve been buying furniture with one eye on its sex potential ever since we got together. So, tables at the right height to be bent over, same with the sofa, bed with a fixed headboard for use with restraints, that sort of thing. Even our coffee table is the right size and height that I kneel by the end and lean over it, my boobs hang over the other side and it is a good height to be spanked over. Given how much I love being bent over furniture and shagged or spanked, it’s a necessity now!
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@KinkyMira - love your set up - we are looking to replace the sofa as the one we have is very old school but it would be ideal to be bent over and penetrated
Currently working on him taking longer dildos - I’m wanting him to take 10 inch by this time next year
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@KinkyMira - can I ask when it comes to choosing dildos that ultimately end up inside your mans bottom - do you choose them or does he
We are in the car at the moment driving home to the Uk and he wants me to choose the dildo …
@batjamboree Ultimately, it is me. I know what he likes, so ftry to pick to please us both. But the visuals ate important to me, so it is my choice.
@KinkyMira - I’m the same visuals are important but you would think the man would like to see what’s coming his way soon - not going to buy yet though waiting gif Black Friday
@batjamboree I genuinely don’t think he cares now. He used to. He used to see my choices before I bought them, but last time, he really didn’t care, as long as I liked the look and it was bigger than what he already had, he was happy.
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For me it doesn’t matter if I’m spanked or not as long as she gives me a good seeing to.
@alboy - it’s personal choice - personally I love teaching my husband a levels - he has to learn
Just pegged and spanked by my wife. She likes watching me pegged, spanked,and milked!
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@ Mike - so what order - I would spank then pegging and milk you to finish
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Would like to try this order!
When pegging your partners, which do you each favour for providing you with the best / most stimulation of your clit:
- strap on harnesses;
- strap on harness pants?
Is there a particular brand of harness, or harness panty, you would definitely recommend for providing:
a) the best stability of the dildo; and
b) the best clit stimulation
when engaging in pegging?
Thank you for your posts - they are most educational as well as entertaining.
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@Himeros1 for me when pegging I don’t bother with trying to get off myself - it’s more the pleasure I get in giving it good to my husband and watching his reaction as well as watching the dildo …
The pegging pants are ok - but I feel they don’t hold the dildo very strongly- however it’s easy to pop a toy inside for personal pleasure
My harness is a British made real leather hand made in purple leather - not from here … so I cannot say where bought but they are online
My previous harness was from here and did the job well but it was not comfortable to wear for long
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@himeros1 For me, the pegging pants didn’t hold the dildo well, and strapless didn’t work at all, so I tried harnesses (which at the time I wasn’t keen on the look of). I tried one that the cock hung down on, but that did nothing for me stimulation-wise. I read somewhere to find a harness that sits higher up, so the cock sticks out rather more than hanging down.
Like @batjamboree, mine is leather and not from here, but it holds the dildo high and pointing out, with the base of the dildo against my clit. I part my flaps so my clit is fully exposed and pushed against the dildo, so any movement transfers to my clit and wowsers, almost instant rolling orgasms. It is also the most stable, as in it never moves away from my clit and I don’t need to keep adjusting it.
It sometimes feels like I’m using his ass to anchor the dildo, so I can ride the flat end of it. That usage appeals to me.
I should point out that every body is different. I know people who swear by strapless, those who swear by pegging pants and those who swear by harnesses. I’m afraid it is trial and error for the body involved.
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@KinkyMira is a shame that we can’t share this info. I’d really like to get Sexterminatrix a custom harness like yours or @batjamboree’s, but without knowing much more about the build or visuals it’s a bit problematic. I may just have to wait until we hit a large enough town that does custom stuff. 
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Hi, first time posting.
Am curious about getting your oh to take 10inchs.
Have not done a lot of pegging, but have received once, loved it by the way.
I’ve done a lot of solo anal and like the larger girth butt toys. I have one 6inches long and a circumference of 10 inches at the base.
So my question is do you find men like depth of large girth best. Or both?
@user68 welcome to the forum
My husband prefers length over girth but we are slowly working our way to thicker dildos
We started on 6 inch and we are comfortable with 8 inch and slowly working up to 10 inch - but when pegging I don’t ram the whole length in - there is about 2-3 inch that does not go in due to our positioning
Thanks for the insight, I have to try something with a bit more length and normal size girth, but I do like the stretch of the large width toys.
Hopefully I can get oh into pegging again soon.
Reading comments on here keen to do with her
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Thank you both for your helpful advice and recommendations.
It is lovely to hear that you both receive such lovely mutual satisfaction with your respective partners during your pegging sessions - albeit for different reasons - and especially how you have incorporated spanking.into your play.
We haven’t introduced spanking into our strap-on play … as yet, but it sounds, from both of your experiences, that this could be a pleasurable addition.
The points you have made @KinkyMira re clit stimulation during your pegging sessions are very helpful.
We have four strap on harnesses in our toy box:
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Leather Ultra Harness (Discontinued)
Lovehoney Lovehoney Strap-On Pegging Kit (4 Piece)
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-on-kits/p/lovehoney-vibrating-silicone-pegging-kit-4-piece-/a48625g86487.html
Tracey Cox Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit (Out of stock)
BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit 6 Inch
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-on-kits/p/basics-strap-on-harness-kit-6-inch/a47966g85677.html
We were wondering whether to try a pair of pegging pants for greater comfort. The straps, that our other harnesses posses, can become uncomfortable during longer periods of use.
Wearing a pair of knickers underneath the harnesses would be a compromise as far as comfort is concerned, but finding a harness that allows a small /medium sized pegging dildo to sit high with the base snugly against the clit is our next quest.
They are out there. LH used to sell one (but disappeared before I bought it). The other thing the higher positioning does is it makes it an easier thrust - the movement for a lower hanging dildo was always difficult for me, a higher dildo is more natural.
The fact they are leather makes them (for me) more comfortable than the non-leather ones, as they rub less. I used to have to wear knickers under the ones we had first, which were some sort of man-made and comparatively rough straps. I wanted one that I could wear without undergarments, so ended up with leather. Important for me is the dildo resting on my clit with nothing at all (not even the natural cover) being in the way. That’s what makes it mind-blowing.
It is trial and error to some degree, as every body is different, but do your research. It became a quest for me!
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