@Himeros1 @KinkyMira I agree the typical type harness with nylon straps is uncomfortable especially while play where the straps dig
The leather one I have is soft while strong and a pleasure to wear
The pants I found are lacking in power when used with a dildo
If you find the ones uncomfortable wear knickers under the harness - but I highly recommend a quality soft leather harness every time - but I prefer the type where the dildo goes directly against the pubic bone rather that the ones where the dildo is held in place and there is a piece of material between the dildo and the body