Spanking and pegging

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@Himeros1 @KinkyMira I agree the typical type harness with nylon straps is uncomfortable especially while play where the straps dig

The leather one I have is soft while strong and a pleasure to wear

The pants I found are lacking in power when used with a dildo

If you find the ones uncomfortable wear knickers under the harness - but I highly recommend a quality soft leather harness every time - but I prefer the type where the dildo goes directly against the pubic bone rather that the ones where the dildo is held in place and there is a piece of material between the dildo and the body

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First time in over a year last night we had pegging without a spank first due to the heat

Still amazing and I used 4 different dildos on him - but we both missed the spanking - so different pegging his bottom when it’d not red… :paddle: :hot_face:

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Interesting @batjamboree. Most of the time, pegging mine doesn’t involve spanking (although occasionally it does).

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We started spanking years ago but then found pegging and so we would spank and then peg as part of the same routine

Last night it was just too hot

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Well, I’ve been a very bad wife. I’ve let the training of my husband’s ass (for pegging size purposes) slip of late. We have a target of once a week ending up with his current largest dildo, and it’s been nowhere near that.

So because I’m such a bad wife, it hasn’t been my husband’s ass that’s been spanked before pegging him this week, it’s been mine.

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I have been enjoying this more and more. Last night started with a good spanking before wife pegged me. Started with a butt plug and spanked, my nipples pinched and bit. It’s become a thing that really gets me aroused now and has added a new dimension to our pegging sessions.

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Mrs W here ….

That sounds the same that Mr W enjoys @JMS55 …… he enjoys a spank anytime and loads of other things but when we are travelling towards a pegging he really enjoys the nipple play and spanking, usually ending with me pegging him first in missionary but then moving to doggy for the finale…. xx

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We occasionally follow impact play with pegging, usually when I’m hanging by my wrists from an overhead restraint. When she’s finished whipping, cropping or whatever she keeps me hanging and pegs me standing up. It’s not our favourite position though so, as I said, it’s only occasionally.

Normally impact play and pegging are two very separate activities both enjoyed for their own unique pleasures.

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It’s been a joy over the years as our sexual appetites have changed and evolved. I remember one of the best orgasms I ever had was when we were just introducing anal for me. I had a vibrating butt plug while PIV missionary, my wife was pinching my nipples and the orgasm I had from the multi new sensations was incredible. Now adding spanking to the mix is just another level of pleasure.

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We’re thinking of introducing spanking to our pegging sessions as well as some mild BDSM to add another dimension.

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Same here! But my dominant nature will not let me switch. So he’s getting spanked for my failure’s :joy:. It feels like it’s been forever since I gave him a good pegging. I think we need a LH petition for a better thicker real leather harness that sits higher. We have gone through so many harness’s. It’s disappointing when you’re balls deep and his tight arse pulls the dildo out of the harness

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Because of this thread, I realised I hadn’t done a combined spanking pegging session of my husband for ages. I like to do it from time to time, as I view the spanking as a Maintenance Spanking, and then once his ass is all bright red and burning, I can’t resist slamming into it as I’m pegging him.

Well, last night, I started on my own and by the end of it, there were 4 women taking it in turns doing it to him. His ass and especially his asshole are both very sore and tender this morning. Just how I like him to be.

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Sounds wonderful.

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Bloody hell @KinkyMira - I thought I was a sadistic bitch but you took it to a whole different level

I bet after all that spanking he was crying out for pegging just to ease the pain

I’m like you - I will only peg after his bottom is red and I don’t stop until he says the safety word - then it’s time to stretch his ass - at least 2 dildos - start small then bring on the big boy

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I’ll wear that badge with pride!

Well, he prefers lots of strokes with something like a paddle to fewer with something like a tawse. I can’t usually do loads of strokes, but with multiple women, we can.

Also, we did a load of spanking and pegging, then went back to spanking before going back to pegging. Spread it out a bit. Oh, and then spank him a bit more at the end because he’s cum everywhere and made a mess.

But fundamentally, the way I look at it, he didn’t use the safeword. (Apparently, he very nearly did a couple of times, so as far as I’m concerned, I judged it perfectly.)

I wouldn’t say I’ll only peg him with a red bottom, but I prefer it. I love the wince as the balls of the dildo hit his ass. The view is much much better too.

And yes, multiple dildos. In a scenario like this, he wasn’t stretched before we started pegging, so small, then build up (with three or four), ending with a long and powerful pegging with the largest he can take fully and at speed, before going up to whatever monster he’s trying to take and seeing what you can do.

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@KinkyMira - has he recovered yet from his spanking and pegging …

I loved your story - I have only ever allowed to share my husband once with my bf and we both spanked his ass - but only I have ever pegged him - but thinking about it I would be game to share the pegging with another person (as long as I’m there and I know the person)

I bet he loved it ….

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He did love it. He has pretty much recovered, although his ass is still fairly tender.

As you know, I love sharing sex generally, and this is no exception. I get off on seeing someone else spank and peg him almost as much as me spanking and pegging him. He’s a lucky fella. (Although I suspect his ass thinks differently :joy: :innocent:)

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Total newbie to the idea of pegging, but I’m super anxious & excited to try it!? I wondered if I could pls ask for people’s thoughts & ideas? I’m pretty confident my wife won’t shy away from the idea, as over time, she’s gotten more & more in to spanking me. We’re at a stage where she genuinely seems to enjoy having me bent over, or on my hands & knees, & wearing a suitably sexy little thong. My taut little bum cheeks seem to make a great sound when spanked, & we’ve got a couple of cheap little paddles which I thoroughly enjoy! What recommendations/suggestions do you all have, as far as expanding the variety & type of toys we use? I’m game to try it all over time, so hit me with all your favs, his & hers alike!

She prefers whatever I’m wearing to have easy/unrestricted frontal access too, or be quickly removable altogether, but I love the thought of being restrained, so I’ve got a few bits & pieces on order to try out… Any ideas on chastity or sexy little clothing, be it cages, belts/harnesses or undies etc? I did try a harness type thing recently, but she doesn’t seem to enjoy the straps, metal or materials getting in the way when she finally wants to ride my man bits..?

Most recently, she has started taking some interest in my tight little dot too, which has me both nervous & thrilled at the same time! She’ll gently touch & tease me (on the outside of clothing) & caress my little anus by rubbing a paddle or handle over it, and little by little, applying gentle pressure. It drives me wild! I’m sure she gets a kick out of seeing me squirm like a naughty little schoolboy too… Occasionally, when she’s feeling brave, she’ll use the Tracey Cox Supersex Butt plug on me, which I am seriously starting to enjoy! I adore the thrill of backdoor play, & the old-school “taboo” is now a thing of the past I believe, so I want to try more! What are people’s go-to toys, plugs etc? What do you suggest to try?

Now the next step in progression I think is only natural & obvious? I badly want her to “do” me! I’ve bought what I think is a reasonable harness & set for us to try, most importantly with a dedicated pouch for her little vibe, because Afterall, I want her to enjoy the experiment as much as possible! What are your experiences/suggestions as to what will work best for her? How do I maximise her pleasure & comfort when the time finally comes for her to penetrate my tight little bum? How do I make her feel physically & emotionally at ease with the whole thing?

Sorry for the novel, but I’d genuinely appreciate any & all thoughts, ideas etc on the topic, & very much look forward to reading what you all have to share!?