This is so embarrassing. I am very new to all of this. And started to experiment with toys in the last few months. I have never masturbated prior. But I noticed that I get the feeling to need to pee when I’m orgasming?! And l do I think. I heard there is a thing called squirting. Is this common? And is there a way to stop it? Any ladies here who can please give me advice. It puts me off.
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Some women squirt and some don’t. If she can, it can happen every time, sometimes, or only rarely. I would definitely say that is completely normal.
Why would you want to prevent it? I understand it can be a bit inconvenient at times, but generally I’d say just get a waterproof sheet for the bed and enjoy it.
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I would suggest looking at the Forum guide to squirting, you might find a lot more information 
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Try it in the bath or shower or buy a waterproof blanket and keep going it’s likely you are so close to learning g to squirt.
As mentioned, some women can and do other women can’t or haven’t been able to.
It’s rare that my OH allows herself to, usually stopping me prior, I see absolutely no issue with it as for me she’s reach that pinnacle of pleasure but then there is the ‘mess’ to clean up after.
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Lots of info re squirting can be found on this forum. It’s a totally normal occurrence and nothing you should feel embarrassed about. I also suggest you search squirting on YouTube. There are great channels including Dr. Rena Malik, Caitlin V, and many others who discuss this topic as well as other aspects of sex including masturbation.
While it may be off putting to you, please understand that there is nothing unusual or abnormal with you. It’s just about getting familiar with your body and learning how it responds to stimulation and pleasure. All the best.
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Whilst you may be able to control it, and i would certainly recommend you also explore that avenue, my main recommendation would be self acceptance.
Your body is wonderful and many men find squirting incredibly sexy.
Keep playing, keep exploring, use some waterproof blankets or similar, and learn what your body enjoys, its triggers, and how much pleasure can be derived from whatever happens.
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My wife only started squirting when she turned 70. Prior to that, like you, she was holding it back thinking that she was going to pee.
Once she let go she found that her orgasms were more intense when she squirted so now she just put a towel on the bed in preparation and goes for it.
She squirts almost every time she comes now.
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Firstly it is nothing to be embarrassed about, it is a natural response to achieving climax.
Some women can and some can’t, I would love the OH to be able to do so, but it has never happened.
If it happens it happens, you can prepare by investing in suitable bedding.
As others have said, it’s a perfectly normal reaction to stimulation.
Why stop it? As I guy I find it a total turn on to see my wife squirt. She does it quite often and it seems those are the best orgasms she has.
Just enjoy letting your body respond naturally and don’t be embarrassed by it @user9010! Keep having fun!! 
As a male, I would plead to you to allow your squirting and not try to stop it. I do understand that if you are in the presence of a partner, various emotions and thoughts of self consciousness or embarrassment. This is a natural act , yet not all women achieve this state. I personally find a messy squirting flow or eruption a tastey and sexy reward offered to me. It an awesome sight to witness, especially when I am partly he cause of it. . My humble opinion is that it is a powerful ejaculation.
While being a part of these situations, I hear almost everytime that the women senses the strong desire or sensation to have to pee. My OH used to make me stop at that point. . Not so much any more, since I caused her to squirt in my face and mouth. She was amazed of how much I savored every drop.
During your alone time you may also be embarrassed and concerned of the cleanup. Embrace and enjoy the pleasure part of it.
I can absolutely recommend a big water-proof pet blanket. Bigger the better.
and then just let it all go.
Absolutely agree lol It’s not something I’ve experienced yet but definitely find the thought of it extremely hot
With the appropriate bed protection, let it happen. Most comments I have seen suggest it goes with a stronger orgasm if you do. I hope my wife one day gets to a point where she is happy to try it. Would be a huge turn on.
Thanks all for the positive comments and advise! I’m very new to this so wasn’t sure what was normal or how I should feel. I will try to embrace it.
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