Good mornong ladies some info and guidence would be appreciated. My OH is interested in trying to squirt and to this day still hasn’t managed. We have read tons of articles online but nothing from someone with expirence. Are there any ladies on here that might have advice from experience.
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I only succeeded the first time when I stopped trying. I was sooo desperate to squirt, that I think I pressured myself out of it.
I first managed it when my husband was sneakily doing the right moves in his hand in the middle of just playing with my pussy, and bam - squirting. I had no idea what he was up to, but he did it!
Now I know I can, there is no pressure, and so it is easier to do.
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ah thanks! Were not trying to force it just thought maybe we’re doing something wrong. Maybe there are some toys that may help the situation. Any excuse for more purchases! 
My husband just does it with his fingers. I can’t really tell you how, but it is all in the touch.
I will have to keep practising then! Thanks for the response! 
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That’s quite a broad question and a little difficult to give you a helpful answer to. Firstly, there isn’t actually any proof that all women can squirt and secondly there isn’t simple “follow these steps and you’ll definitely squirt” instructions. Going in to sex with too much of a “I want to squirt today” mindset can definitely stop it happening.
There are 2 different ways for women to ejaculate and the terminology often gets mixed up. There is squirting which is a clear liquid that comes from the urethra and there is gushing which is a milky liquid that comes from the vagina. Both originate partially in the skenes glad and neither is “better” than the other. Some women can do one, some can do both.
There are 2 types of stimulation that generally work. Firstly is G Spot stimulation. The G Spot is an inch or so on the front of the vaginal wall (everyone’s is in a slightly different place). Firm pressure is generally the best way to go. Fingers are a good way to stimulate it, if not firmer dildos such as glass and metal. Personally I prefer metal as it has more weight which helps with the pressure. You need a come hither or juicing type motion. If you can hear a splashing type sound, then that is it, your partner just needs to work on dispelling the fluid. Improving her kegal muscles will work here. Although be aware, having anything inside the vagina (toys, fingers) ultimately blocks the passage. You’ll often see people talking about removing fingers/toys at the right moment as the cause of the ejaculation, often it isn’t the cause, more opening the dam before the fluid dissipates elsewhere.
The other way is through clitoral stimulation. Generally the best toys for this are the more powerful toys, with deeper rumbly vibrations or the air pulse style toys. Both of these penetrate the sensation through the vulva and therefore hit the internal parts of the clitoris as well as the G Spot.
Otherwise, it is important to be relaxed, turned on, in the moment and well hydrated. Some people find it easier to do it with a partner (as they aren’t focused on having to think about what to do), others find it easier alone (that way they aren’t “letting their partner down”, not that most partners feel that way). Experimenting with both can be helpful.
Often once someone has done it once, it becomes a lot easier from then on.
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Hey @TheBoss01 if you type in the search bar ‘squirting’ there is lots of helpful advice including This thread.
Have fun practicing
Thanks for such detail and honesty. I’ll be sure to take your advice.
@Orgasm_Chaser I’ve had a search but thought I’d try to speak to someone with expirence as I thought maybe there was a bit of an art to it
Bunny 
usually gets there using her rabbit, but can get there with her wand, it’s mostly clitoral stimulation for her, she just has to ignore the feeling of wanting to pee and carry on… 
@Squirrel_and_Bunny Defintly everyone is alot different. My oh doesn’t get that feeling from clitoral stimulation and 90 percent of the time only g spot orgasms though normall intercourse. I think I need to go back to the drawing board!
Also squirting won’t always be a large gush of fluid either, every women is different. I’ve only “squirted” 2-3 times and the fluid has trickled out rather than actually squirt out.
It’s just a matter of trial and error with toys, hands, intercourse and her masturbating to see if she can make herself do it.
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I tend to gush with clitoral stimulation. The one and only time I squirted loads and everywhere was legs on the air with fingers. Hard against the gspot and fast. I didn’t even feel like I was but it went everywhere lol.
It’s all about practice really
Middle 2 fingers inside (think of Spider-Man’s web shooting style lol) curl up slightly until you feel a slightly “spongy” part and work it there curling your fingers closed as you push in and out. Can take a bit of force, so try to use your arm muscles for it rather hatband relying on wrist.
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Still working on this one with my wife. I can get her very wet but yet to have that big squurt we all love seeing!
It’s very rare. Please don’t expect miracles. I squirt but the porn star squirt I think your wanting is very rare if it happens at all.
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Take the pressure off by wanting to do it and then it might happen, this is what happened with my last partner, we gave up on the idea and one time 12 months later when I was fingering her whoosh the livingroom carpet got soaked, she was kneeling and it just happened.
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As @KinkyMira said, basically stop trying, and focus instead on maybe having a g-spot/ blended orgasm.
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I didn’t squirt until I was about 30. I always stopped cos I thought it made me want to wee. Didn’t realize that’s what it should be lol.
I did it once in my early 20s and my partner said it smelt a bit like wee so it really put me off ‘letting myself go’
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My wife never squirted before, until she was pregnant. It was the hottest thing ever and it kept happening everytime we got down to it.
Since she gave birth, she’s able to do it pretty much everytime too! I encourage her to as I find it so damn hot.
For her, she always held back before pregnancy (it wasn’t ever something we tried to do either) but then once that happened, it almost gave her the freedom and helped her to realise there isn’t anything wrong with just letting herself go. She gets it from clitoral stimulation, but now with penetration. When I give both to her, it’s even better.
I would just encourage your OH to relax, and when it feels like orgasm is getting close, either tense everything (which there is research to back that up as it increases the feeling of orgasm) or push with the orgasm. Either way, Just try and see what works, but do it without any worries or shame.
Hope it goes well for you!