Does squirting really happen. My OH often says its just a porn trick and confirms that from her lady friends also that no such thing ever happened to them..........well either it is really untreu or in any case probably extermely rare!!
Pour in with your views....have you experienced it. And it should not be pee. In fact one of my OH's lady friends even mentioned that she urinated while having sex once and passed it off as squirting...
If any of you have experinced it would really like to know was anything in particular that set it off.....
Thanks tinytheturtle!! If you could also answer the 2nd part of the question.....was it something in particular that worked for the women to squirt.
Also would really like to know did these ladies squirt often or was it rare........just trying to understand that is it that some women have the ability to squirt and some don't
No nearly all women can squirt, and if not squirt then gush. Some from clitoral stimulation and some from g-spot simulation.
Many years ago I was with a woman before who squirt from pentration and now in the last 6 months my wife has learned how to squirt from me stimulating her g-spot and as we've done it more and more she's found it easier to control and volume increasing.
Believe it or not I've been using the technique that you'd usually read in any artical on the web and I reckon with this I could make nearly any woman squirt (not that I've tried) it is also something a woman has to want to do.
Here's 2 forums regarding squirting that you might find interesting
I have squirted a few times and I will be honest it has only happened when I have been alone. I have never squirted in front of my OH because I am too self-conscious. It's definitely not pee!! At first it does feel like you need to pee but once you relax you soon realise it's not. For me to squirt initially it took a lot of patience, lube, and good porn to keep me going. It's all about finding the magic spot. When I squirt I have always done it from penetration and clitoral stimulation been done at the same time. Hope some of this helps x
All women have the ability to squirt but most women can't relax or 'let go' enough to do it. Most stop just before it would naturally happen. Because it feels like you need to pee, even though if you've went to the loo beforehand you'll be okay. It does take a lot of reassurance and patience and she really does have to be at the height of arousal. Try making her relax with a sensual massage. Try using a clit vibe, like a bullet and a G-vibe together like these; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042 and http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14134
As Don DOn said, have a read through the other threads, there's loads on there!
I've only ever squirted once, and that was on my own, and recently, through g-spot and clitoral stimulation :) It took a long time and a lot of reading to get there!
yes it is real.....infact Mrs H ( JJ ) has just enjoyed that feeling once again in an earlier afternoon playtime....
there's umpteen resources on the web to read, digest and to work through.....one huge point/tip, i suggest you don't maske this the be all and end all.......everyone is different or rather reacts differently to how things are laid out but its fair to say that bringing up teh subject in the wrong way could indeed put on some pressure even if that was not intended....and the one thing that holds true is that prssure to achieve something sexually generally becomes a blocker in itself.
The journey of sexploration should be fun and not tinged with a flashing light that says 'Goal'.....(imho).
Thanks tinytheturtle!! If you could also answer the 2nd part of the question.....was it something in particular that worked for the women to squirt.
Also would really like to know did these ladies squirt often or was it rare........just trying to understand that is it that some women have the ability to squirt and some don't
wll my first was my wife and she could only squirt or gush if you like to call it that was with cilt stimulation . my wife i have know can actually do ppenatration and the clit also but its easy for me to use my finger on her g spot and belive this when she really gets turned on i can finger her ass or use a vibrator and she wil squirt but since she had blader surgery things have slowed down and we arent as young as we use to be her is a trick for you take your wife up on her knees like the 69 use your thumb as far as it will go up turn it toward the belly button use 1 finger on the clit. with the thumb you should feel a round object this is the g spot keep rubbing softly not hard and dont stop even if she says to unless it hurts her just keep going she pop a nut sooner or later but just dont hurt her if it hurts quit a lot of women will want a man to stop because it feels to good and they get kinda scared this how my first wife found out she could squirt sorry for such a long response
The first time I squirted I was by myself and I was sitting on my chair and I was. Stimulating my g-spot. I was pretty relaxed when I squirted, I made sure it wasn't pee. And it wasn't then second time I squirted I was stimulating my clit and g-spot and ended up Squirting more than once. I have yet to do it in front of someone but I plan on it.
A question to those ladies here who have experienced squirting; how does it compare to a 'normal' clitoral orgasm? I was playing with my wife's G-spot recently and she told me to stop because it was making her really need to pee (or so she thought). I have tried to convince her that it isn't pee etc etc but she won't try it, she isn't convinced. If it is just going to be a fairly normal orgasm but with a lot of mess then I'll just drop it, but if its going to be amazing for her too then I'll get a waterproof sheet and find some things online for her to read & watch.
A question to those ladies here who have experienced squirting; how does it compare to a 'normal' clitoral orgasm? I was playing with my wife's G-spot recently and she told me to stop because it was making her really need to pee (or so she thought). I have tried to convince her that it isn't pee etc etc but she won't try it, she isn't convinced. If it is just going to be a fairly normal orgasm but with a lot of mess then I'll just drop it, but if its going to be amazing for her too then I'll get a waterproof sheet and find some things online for her to read & watch.
I am not sure all women can squirt. In fact most women dont. Either because they cannot relax enough to let in some cases or, or just because they cannot. I never really felt the need to pee, so I dont think I am holding anything back. And I dont squirt. On the other hand, I am very happy with my orgasms as they are.
Also some women can squirt only from G spot orgasm, while others only from clitoral, and some can from both. So there is a huge variety out there.
I guess squirting is like G spot. Some women can have G spot orgasm, majority needs clitoral stimulation to have orgasm. Some women learn to enjoy G spot stimulation more as they get older and more experienced and learn how to have G spot orgasm, while some never even find theirs, probably because it is not that sensitive. Or maybe they do not even have one.
So there is no reason to think all women can squirt. But it does not mean that maybe one day in the future it will not happen to your OH. It may.
The best thing to do is relax her and if she still feels uncomfortable have her read about it. But just like anything else its psychological, if she thinks she's going to pee it will stop the whole process. Infact she'll probably try to stop it from happening. The key is to relax, I'm not a "pro" at it but I do know one of the important steps is to relax physically and mentally. But I would still get the sheets to make her feel more comfortable.
A question to those ladies here who have experienced squirting; how does it compare to a 'normal' clitoral orgasm?
I was playing with my wife's G-spot recently and she told me to stop because it was making her really need to pee (or so she thought). I have tried to convince her that it isn't pee etc etc but she won't try it, she isn't convinced.
If it is just going to be a fairly normal orgasm but with a lot of mess then I'll just drop it, but if its going to be amazing for her too then I'll get a waterproof sheet and find some things online for her to read & watch.
I dont squirt but I have G spot orgasms. But I dont have the need to pee during G spot stimulation.
From my experience, my G spot orgasm is different from clitoral. generally my clitoral orgasm are stronger and leave me actually tired. My G spot orgasms are more subtle at the moment, but they last longer. And usually far longer than clitoral in my case. Also they feel bit deeper. Its different exprience all together.
Generally once I orgasm one way I can still orgasm from the other, but if I have both clitoral and G spot orgasm, both clitoris and G spot are too sensitive so I dont enjoy the stimulation.
I know that I will be able to persuade her to try it with a bit of effort, I just want to know if it will be worth it. I don't want to build it up to be something amazing just for it to be an anticlimax, with her thinking it wasn't worth making a mess for
Thanksa lot to everybody so far.!!!.......convinced that indeed squirting is a genuine phenomenon.
In fact I now have a sneaking suspicion that my OH did squirt at least twice. She just ran off too the loo saying she had a orgasm and wanted to pee....was a bit of a bummer for me though.....
Need to get my OH hot and horny again and some wet sheets........and we may actually be onto something
It's something that I have only been able to do I the last 3 years, I squirt really well with G spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time and it really does turn Gary on, it is not pee Gary says it's a clear sweet fluid x
