Does any one know how to stop this amazing thing!
Good fun
Not So Good On the Sheets i must admit
And the amount does vary along with the pressure
Best way to not feel like your going to pee is pee before you start
its amazing and it works!!
I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.
jaycloth wrote:
I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.
Whilst it does contain traces of urea and creatinine which are found in urine they are in much much lower concentrations. It also contains chemicals produced by the female prostate. When these chemicals are found in urine it's in much lower quantities than in female ejaculate.
To quote a fantastic website on the subject
Female ejaculate and urine contain the same substances found in male ejaculate. These common substances, PSA, PAP, & PSAP, are at a higher concentration in the ejaculate than they are in urine. This demonstrates they are not exactly the same thing. The female prostate contributes more to the ejaculate than it does to the urine.
You can read more about lady love juices at http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/arouse_indx.htm
Lots of people report it's consistency to be close to semen than wee.
I think a lot of the associations with urine come from porn where they fake ridiculous, metre long ejaculations which are either urination or pyrotechnics. (if you achieve this though, hats off)
jaycloth wrote:
I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.
Not meaning to offend, but I assume that u have never experianced making a woman ejaculate like this as I can assure u is isnt from a womans ureathra.
I used to think it was just pee from seeing porn and when my OH mentioned he'd been with a couple of women who'd done this (and just soaked the mattress) and I was very rude about them and said they'd pissed themselves etc. It's still something we're exploring, but I'm pretty sure now it can't just be 'pee'. I an only speak for my own experience and it appears to be different to his other bed partners - so maybe they did just piss the bed given it soaked sheets etc! lol
However, the reason I know form my own experience there's a difference between my body doing that and simply urinating is mainly because a small amount of fluid has come out of me when being stimulated, but after we've finished being together and he's held me a while the sensation of 'needing to pee' goes as that area's no longer being stimulated. Some time after we've finished I will go to the loo and quite often (probably TMI!) I will have quite a long wee! So clearly my bladder was fairly full so if it was 'just pee' then I think a huge amount of 'ejaculate/wee' would have come out of me if that's all it was. This is why I have no started to change my opinion about it - and from reading more widely about it/people's experiences. Also, in the past this happened to my partner when he was having intercourse with the women and both parties were surprised when it happened. With me, I suppose the difference has been very actively exploring my g spot with his fingers and - not necessarily trying to get me to squirt - but finding out what it feels like for both of us. When I have ejaculated (which surpised me) he could feel my vagina contracting and could tell something was about to occur beforehand. Also, the last time it happened and there was more ejaculate I didn't actually even feel anything happening! So it certainly wasn't 'just pee' then because I'd have felt it if I was pissing the bed! As others have said, I think it's something you need to experience first hand to see the difference.
Malteser81 wrote:
jaycloth wrote:
I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.
Not meaning to offend, but I assume that u have never experianced making a woman ejaculate like this as I can assure u is isnt from a womans ureathra.
Actually my understanding is that it is ejaculated out of the urethra - which is why you get the 'need to pee' sensation...
sexynurse09 wrote:
I always find it feels better when i'm lying down, Elcano!
Does anybody know, is it possible to squirt from a clitoral orgasm? Because i'm sure this happened the other night!! But I always thought it had to be from G spot stimulation
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That's very cool. I think all the sweet spots must have some connection and it's possible that a range of stimulation could 'blend' an orgasm. I think that even when primarily focus on one areas the other spots may be working independantly. For example the involuntary movements we get inside and the AMAZING range of things that happen when we become aroused.
In the initial stages of arousal:
- Vaginal lubrication begins first, within 10-30 seconds.
- The inner two thirds of the vagina expands.
- The uterus and cervix are pulled upwards.
- The labia majora flatten and spread apart.
- The labia minora increase in size.
- The clitoris increases in size.
- The nipples may become erect as the result of muscle contractions.
- When highly aroused the breasts may increase in size.
This diagram of the tilting action amazed me when I saw it! http://www.the-clitoris.com/x/orgasm/respon2.jpg
So it's not suprising that ejaculation can come along for the ride if we weren't expecting it.
Anyone else experienced it without G-spot stimulation that they were aware of or performing conciously?
Wiki says "Female ejaculation (commonly known as squirting and gushinghttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation#cite_note-0) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene%27s_gland through and around the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethra during or before http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm."
Tsk, that's not copied very well!
Female ejaculation (commonly known as squirting and gushing refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm.
This simple diagram is good at showing how G spot stimulation puts pressure on the ureathra to create that 'needing to go' sensation.
http://practicalsexadvice.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/g-spot.jpg
Ooo i gona look into them links in more detail later, I would love to squirt and have come soo close :)
When I eventually get there properly I'll be putting up a plaque to commemorate the occasion. You're all invited to the after party.
My OH does ejaculate now and then. She takes ages to get her to that stage though at least 30 mins of clit play. We do this with a clit vibe, tounge, finger and hand. Normally she just does just a little dribble or a squirt but a couple of times it has been massive a bit like a tap fully opened.
When it first happened like that I thought oh my god and was a little bit shocked/scared (stupid I know) but then really enjoyed it. The only problem is that it totally wets the bed and you have to sit there with a hair dryer to dry it out.
Have to say it is alot of fun though.
alone4ever wrote:
come on girls have you never talked to your OH about what his ejaculation and orgasm feels like.
Endlessly ;)
Great to see you posting Alone4ever, I've really enjoyed reading your contributions. One suggestion though, paragraphs are very useful. You're posts are fantastically detailed but a little hard to read in one block.
Also, we're all women on here, not girls ;)
The orgasm/ejaculation separation is very cool and explains a lot. Thank you!
Damn, sounds like you've been through the ringer. Ther'e some issues there I would love to address when I've more time. For now, I would say it's always good to remember that when you're being good at expressing your thoughts and feelings, like you are clearly, it's not 'male' or 'female' it's being a good communicator of your thoughts and feelings. It's hard to keep this in mind with the world we live in though.
For shortness, for the moment I would really like to recommend some great blogs for you written by articulate, sex loving men who I think you might like
http://www.realadultsex.com/
http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com/
Also there is a rather fabulous woman who runs a blog called Pervocracy, you might find her attitudes refreshing if you don't come across it much in the real word. I love her.
http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/search/label/cosmocking
I've linked you to the cosmocking section because that's the most funny and also makes some great points about how men are treated by the media. Hope you like.
PS 'woman' and 'man' does sound naff. So for the sake of semantics, you can stay on the island. ;)
Hi, I am a newly discovered squirter, lol. Im 45 & have known my b/f for about 16 years & always had fantastic sex together, but only this year did we discover that I could squirt (a bit of a shock for me at first!). He used his fingers (hitting/poking the G-spot I believe, lol) to penetrate in a rapid & quite forceful method, which gave rapid resultsLOL . The orgasms (yes, multiple!!!) were absolutely incredible, far more intense than the usual ones & rather exhausting! lol. The downside to the intense (& loud) pleasure was the soggy bed, lol, but this was solved by purchasing a "slippy Play Sheet" from LoveHoney.
My advice to any women who thinks she's not a squirter (but wants to be...) is to experiment with technique - different speeds & pressure etc.....& to be totally relaxed with your partner.....squirting is a form of absolute surrender.
Hey, alone4ever, Belle de jour also just wrote an article on 'nice guys'
http://belledejour-uk.blogspot.com/
I really feel for you alone4ever but in these cases I often find the problem isn't being 'a nice guy' but low self esteem.
This came from an article I just read
Nice Guys exude insecurity -- a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them is the lowest form of life...
Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
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You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.
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The article is here http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml
Please do not take the title seriously, it's really written with the intention to help a dude out. But it would be interesting to see if anything in it hits home for you, even if it makes you squirm.
Columbus wrote:
Malteser81 wrote:
jaycloth wrote:
I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.
Not meaning to offend, but I assume that u have never experianced making a woman ejaculate like this as I can assure u is isnt from a womans ureathra.
Actually my understanding is that it is ejaculated out of the urethra - which is why you get the 'need to pee' sensation...
Interesting debate here - and I don't wish to stir things up again - but I just wanted to draw attention to this bit again and mention that we all know male ejaculate is also ejaculated via the urethra. Therefore anyone who thinks female ejaculation is "just wee" must by the same argument decide that male ejaculation is "just wee"....both conclusions = no fun!! (unless you're into that kind of thing of course!).
Just my 2 penneths.
Whilst I'm venturing into this thread (I tend to avoid as I struggle to come let alone squirt!) I'd like to say, good links Tigerlilies, particularly the cosmocking one - I'm enjoying the posts quite a lot right now External Media
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