Squirting

Sex Tips & Talk
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Boogaloo wrote:

Sorry to revive an old thread, but didn't want to start a new one...

Man I feel like there's something wrong with me :( I've tried everything to learn to squirt, read through a lot of the comments on here and tried what you've done, even watched a video of Annabelle Knight giving squirting pointers! I still can't do it :(

I'd really love to experience it, but I'm starting to feel like only the lucky few are physically able to achieve it. Is that true, or can literally anyone squirt? I've heard mixed things about it, some say not everyone can.

I have tried combining g spot and clitoral stimulation, but always end up having a clitoral orgasm instead. I've tried plenty of times with just G spot stimulation and still end up having a clitoral orgasm! I think this is because I'm one of those people who can come just by thinking about something, without any physically contact, so if I'm too turned on I just orgasm.

Any more pointers? Was anyone like me, then eventually learned how to do it?

I always thought squirting was a myth and that it was just pee! I can't do it either although to be fair I'm struggling to orgasm from masturbating full stop at the moment - I want to be able to do this :-(

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LadyS wrote:

Hot Dog wrote:

LadyS wrote:

Boogaloo wrote:

Sorry to revive an old thread, but didn't want to start a new one...

Man I feel like there's something wrong with me :( I've tried everything to learn to squirt, read through a lot of the comments on here and tried what you've done, even watched a video of Annabelle Knight giving squirting pointers! I still can't do it :(

I'd really love to experience it, but I'm starting to feel like only the lucky few are physically able to achieve it. Is that true, or can literally anyone squirt? I've heard mixed things about it, some say not everyone can.

I have tried combining g spot and clitoral stimulation, but always end up having a clitoral orgasm instead. I've tried plenty of times with just G spot stimulation and still end up having a clitoral orgasm! I think this is because I'm one of those people who can come just by thinking about something, without any physically contact, so if I'm too turned on I just orgasm.

Any more pointers? Was anyone like me, then eventually learned how to do it?

I think it is the case that some people can't do it. But I don't think there is any harm in continuing to try ;)

Have you watched any of the porn videos that are a bit more like how to's of squirting? Like this one http://www.redtube.com/15878 Pretty sure this is the video linked at the beginning of this thread.

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Is that video real? We always assumed it is faked. Are women here having those orgams?

Well he's creepy as hell and she's annoying, but the technique is good and yeah that is how I get when I squirt, except less weird, lol. But the whole thing about it keeping going afterwards, yeah totally get that. My body gets a mind of it's own and I sort of pulse and quiver, and become really, really sensitive x

Haha. Yeah, creepy and annoying.

Hmmm, we have 'orgasm envy'! To see video's that may or may not be real (although I now believe this is real), but then hear first hand this is happening ...we need this in our lives!

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Hot Dog wrote:

LadyS wrote:

Hot Dog wrote:

LadyS wrote:

Boogaloo wrote:

Sorry to revive an old thread, but didn't want to start a new one...

Man I feel like there's something wrong with me :( I've tried everything to learn to squirt, read through a lot of the comments on here and tried what you've done, even watched a video of Annabelle Knight giving squirting pointers! I still can't do it :(

I'd really love to experience it, but I'm starting to feel like only the lucky few are physically able to achieve it. Is that true, or can literally anyone squirt? I've heard mixed things about it, some say not everyone can.

I have tried combining g spot and clitoral stimulation, but always end up having a clitoral orgasm instead. I've tried plenty of times with just G spot stimulation and still end up having a clitoral orgasm! I think this is because I'm one of those people who can come just by thinking about something, without any physically contact, so if I'm too turned on I just orgasm.

Any more pointers? Was anyone like me, then eventually learned how to do it?

I think it is the case that some people can't do it. But I don't think there is any harm in continuing to try ;)

Have you watched any of the porn videos that are a bit more like how to's of squirting? Like this one http://www.redtube.com/15878 Pretty sure this is the video linked at the beginning of this thread.

x

Is that video real? We always assumed it is faked. Are women here having those orgams?

Well he's creepy as hell and she's annoying, but the technique is good and yeah that is how I get when I squirt, except less weird, lol. But the whole thing about it keeping going afterwards, yeah totally get that. My body gets a mind of it's own and I sort of pulse and quiver, and become really, really sensitive x

Haha. Yeah, creepy and annoying.

Hmmm, we have 'orgasm envy'! To see video's that may or may not be real (although I now believe this is real), but then hear first hand this is happening ...we need this in our lives!

Just keep trying, I honestly think it must look horrific when I have this done to me. It has to be so hard and so fast, and probably very aggressive looking, but it does feel amazing, so is totally worth it, lol.

I think lots of build up helps too. lots of oral, internal and clitoral stimulation, but no orgasm. Just almost getting there and then the stimulation being changed, just over and over until the desire to cum is almost unbearable, then if I get the hard and the fast, that's usually when I do the squirting thing.

This could just be me though x

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No I've never watched the porn squirting videos, not really a porn fan and kind of don't like to watch it as I'm in a relationship and my partner doesn't watch it either. :/

I guess I'll keep trying, maybe 20 years down the line I'll finally get it ;) haha. Just seems a shame, but at the same time my regular orgasms are pretty intense so it's not like I'm unsatisfied, just curious!

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Boogaloo wrote:

No I've never watched the porn squirting videos, not really a porn fan and kind of don't like to watch it as I'm in a relationship and my partner doesn't watch it either. :/

I guess I'll keep trying, maybe 20 years down the line I'll finally get it ;) haha. Just seems a shame, but at the same time my regular orgasms are pretty intense so it's not like I'm unsatisfied, just curious!

Ah I see. Could be worth watching together, if you thought you could, I know it's not for everyone though,might help just to see what he's doing. It's not that graphic. It's only him using his fingers on her and he is fully clothed. I know I probably didn't sell it though by saying he's creepy, lol.

It's good to be curious :) and always nice to try and explore new things together, so why not see where it goes by trying, it's all good fun x

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LadyS wrote:

Boogaloo wrote:

No I've never watched the porn squirting videos, not really a porn fan and kind of don't like to watch it as I'm in a relationship and my partner doesn't watch it either. :/

I guess I'll keep trying, maybe 20 years down the line I'll finally get it ;) haha. Just seems a shame, but at the same time my regular orgasms are pretty intense so it's not like I'm unsatisfied, just curious!

Ah I see. Could be worth watching together, if you thought you could, I know it's not for everyone though,might help just to see what he's doing. It's not that graphic. It's only him using his fingers on her and he is fully clothed. I know I probably didn't sell it though by saying he's creepy, lol.

It's good to be curious :) and always nice to try and explore new things together, so why not see where it goes by trying, it's all good fun x

Agree with watching, just to have a look. We've taken to doing this lately, watching porn for ideas and techniques. We're watching it together sayin 'Oooh, she looks like she is having fun, lets give THAT a go!' (And real porn not fake porn, I don't care what you say, nobody can be enjoying some of those positions they get in to!). Have fun!

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LadyS wrote:

Hot Dog wrote:

LadyS wrote:

Hot Dog wrote:

LadyS wrote:

Boogaloo wrote:

Sorry to revive an old thread, but didn't want to start a new one...

Man I feel like there's something wrong with me :( I've tried everything to learn to squirt, read through a lot of the comments on here and tried what you've done, even watched a video of Annabelle Knight giving squirting pointers! I still can't do it :(

I'd really love to experience it, but I'm starting to feel like only the lucky few are physically able to achieve it. Is that true, or can literally anyone squirt? I've heard mixed things about it, some say not everyone can.

I have tried combining g spot and clitoral stimulation, but always end up having a clitoral orgasm instead. I've tried plenty of times with just G spot stimulation and still end up having a clitoral orgasm! I think this is because I'm one of those people who can come just by thinking about something, without any physically contact, so if I'm too turned on I just orgasm.

Any more pointers? Was anyone like me, then eventually learned how to do it?

I think it is the case that some people can't do it. But I don't think there is any harm in continuing to try ;)

Have you watched any of the porn videos that are a bit more like how to's of squirting? Like this one http://www.redtube.com/15878 Pretty sure this is the video linked at the beginning of this thread.

x

Is that video real? We always assumed it is faked. Are women here having those orgams?

Well he's creepy as hell and she's annoying, but the technique is good and yeah that is how I get when I squirt, except less weird, lol. But the whole thing about it keeping going afterwards, yeah totally get that. My body gets a mind of it's own and I sort of pulse and quiver, and become really, really sensitive x

Haha. Yeah, creepy and annoying.

Hmmm, we have 'orgasm envy'! To see video's that may or may not be real (although I now believe this is real), but then hear first hand this is happening ...we need this in our lives!

Just keep trying, I honestly think it must look horrific when I have this done to me. It has to be so hard and so fast, and probably very aggressive looking, but it does feel amazing, so is totally worth it, lol.

I think lots of build up helps too. lots of oral, internal and clitoral stimulation, but no orgasm. Just almost getting there and then the stimulation being changed, just over and over until the desire to cum is almost unbearable, then if I get the hard and the fast, that's usually when I do the squirting thing.

This could just be me though x

Yeah I can see how your method would work. Sounds like it would for us. Though my wife doesn't like me withholding her cumming, says she goes off the boil when I keep her on the edge for too long and dont make her cum. So will have to work on your method gradually. But that in itself sounds like real horny fun, so all good!

I know i have said this before, but you have alot of really good advise on this subject LadyS, thanks, you're great! :)

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I wanna squirt!!!

Thanks for for all the advice guys and gals- super jealous of all you ladies who squirt on the reg! This forum is awesome for learning tips and tricks off (more experienced) people!

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Thanks for the advice everyone :)

Hot Dog I know what you mean. I do like to 'edge' during foreplay and sex, as in get so close to orgasm but stop myself from coming to make the feeling last as long as possible, however if my partner changes position/technique all of a sudden it aggravates me and then I end up too frustrated to orgasm ha! It's not really his fault though because I should communicate better with him to let him know that I want him to continue doing something, usually he can pick it up just from my voice or body language though.

I guess I'll keep trying, everyone talks about how incredible it is it's hard to feel like I'm not missing out! Having said that my normal orgasms are so good it's hard to be imagine what it feels like, especially since I've been doing my kegels (which apparently helps with squirting). We'll see I guess!

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Boogaloo wrote:

Thanks for the advice everyone :)

Hot Dog I know what you mean. I do like to 'edge' during foreplay and sex, as in get so close to orgasm but stop myself from coming to make the feeling last as long as possible, however if my partner changes position/technique all of a sudden it aggravates me and then I end up too frustrated to orgasm ha! It's not really his fault though because I should communicate better with him to let him know that I want him to continue doing something, usually he can pick it up just from my voice or body language though.

I guess I'll keep trying, everyone talks about how incredible it is it's hard to feel like I'm not missing out! Having said that my normal orgasms are so good it's hard to be imagine what it feels like, especially since I've been doing my kegels (which apparently helps with squirting). We'll see I guess!

I wouldn't get too hung up on all this squirting malarky. As you say your "normal" orgasms are good, and I'm pretty sure there are plenty of ladies who would love to be in your shoes for that alone, factor in your stunning looks and general demeanour? Its a shoo-in. I think intensity of orgasm is all down to the partner you are with, and by all accounts you are blessed in that department as well. A guy doesn't have to worry about multiple, squirting, gushing or any of that new fangled stuff (although I am a bit partial to a stinky finger on the vinegar stroke) so I guess we are blessed in our simplicity. Having said that I have given up on the odd crafty wank, as its just a waste of time in the pleasure department. However an orgasm with my wife can leave me feeling godlike/ an emotional mess/ vulnerable/ the most bad ass person in the world, and sometimes all at the same time. A bit like Burt Reynolds in Deliverance. Without the inbred banjo boy.
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Ah macspants you're absolutely right, thank you :)

Squirting isn't that important to me, just something I'm really curious about and dying to know what it's like! But as you said I'm more than satisfied with my regular orgasms and the pleasure I have with my OH, so it's not an absolute must for me. If it happens then it happens I guess :)

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I think that's the right attitude. I am so grateful that 99% of the time me and my wife have synchronicity in our orgasms.

Even after 20 odd years of frickle frackle it still bothers me if I orgasm and she doesn't. When that happens there is always a nagging doubt that I have somehow failed. I couldn't imagine the pressure I would feel if I felt beholden to assist in this squirting (which seems pretty nebulous anyway)

Thank god she doesn't read these forums. Its bad enough that I'm hung like a hamster and have the technique of Anne Widecombe on Strictly Come Dancing. If she finds out that some men are capable of making something other than a baby come from a vajayia? The fact I have a nipple that is George Clooneys doppelganger just won't cut the mustard.

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Hahah macspants! You always put things so eloquently ;)

My partner is the same, if he comes and I don't then it upsets him and I have to explain that some days it's just harder than others and it's nothing he's done wrong. He always offers to finish me off in other ways though! But lately we have been quite in sync and been finishing at the same time, I think the clenching from my orgasms sets him off..

I wouldn't ask him to help me squirt tbh because I don't even know how to do it myself! If I ever figure it out then I may show him how to do it if he's interested, but otherwise I'll keep this to myself as there's no use frustrating him as well as myself! :p

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Well done - here is a story of immense happiness!

After literally years of me going on at my OH to see if she will squirt as I'm desperate to feel it and see it (too much porn I think!) we seem to have hit the jackpot!

For years I've tried to give it to my OH harder when she gets real wet, pull out at oppotune moments etc etc but it just hasn't worked. I've even asked her to pee on me just to feel the wetness. Nothing though.....even reading and wathcing techniques on here, she didn't like the feeling of fingers inside her trying to touch her gpost and rub fast etc...I tried different toys as well, including getting the Njoy Wand which was apprantly guranteed to make her squirt! nothing! £80 later!

But....after reading a post on here, I purchased the following:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14134

OMG!!! It so worked for my OH! The first time we tried, it was in out slowly, smoothly, not to hard for about 15mins when she was very turned on and out came a gush! Wow I was over the moon as was she! Felt nice she said but not mind blowing.

Tried a second time on another session and a small trickle, nothing major....little dissapointed but didn't mind, lots of experimenting is good.

Third time on Monday, OMG!!!! She told me to make sure I pull it out when she says, christ it was like a fountain!!!! Pushed out hard and it squirted all over me and in my mouth! Glorious I tell you! VERY pleased and it left her begging straight for my cock and a good session!

Going to try again tonight for a fouth session...

For those practicing, get this toy and insert it when foreplay has been commenced and ease it in and out slowly, fast or smoothly whatever suits your lady and it does take about 15-20mins but she will get the feeling and that feeling leads very nicely to explosions - I want her to do more now though that's the only thing, but she just wants me in her!

Thanks Love Honey! You have let us achieve a life time ambition!!!! AMAZING!!

Tips wise on the toys - has anyone got another one like this shape that is slightly less noisey or stronger vibrations? Any recommendations taken!

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I used to really have trouble with coming and squirting, then I read that the best thing to do is get in the bath (full or empty), and masturbate and focus on tensing your kegels then when you feel the climax build up, start to use the muscles the other way like you do when you wee :) the bath helps because you're not bothered about the clean up and it worked first time for me after 2 years of trying :)

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I've only really explosively squirted once, a few weeks ago with my friend. If I squirt it needs to be constant stimulation of my g spot and none on my clit right from the start of the session. He went at it for ten/fifteen minutes... Then it happened about four times in quick succession. Like a fountain!⛲
I honestly believe that it's definitely something every woman can achieve, just takes practice.

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fingers work best in a come hither mothing really firmly rub yor g-spot also dont stop as you gety the "pee" feeling keep going and breath my first try i was determind it took me an hour and half but now i squirt with mr fucking me it gets easier once you get the hang of it x

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Interesting experience last night and still not 100% sure what happened...

Historically found it very difficult to orgasm apart from lying on my tummy. Started experimenting with toys and am now able to orgasm on my back with or without penetration. So far so good.

Was playing with just a toy on my clit, nothing inside me, and I felt this weird feeling. It was a bit like one of those phantom wees (you know when you're just minding your own business and suddenly feel a warmth like you've wet yourself- but you haven't?). I assumed it was just something new sensationwise so I carried on, and by the time I realised I actually was weeing I couldn't really stop.

Thoughts after the clean up operation as follows:

1) I was more or less at the point of orgasm but if anything it was less intense than usual... seemed without the normal strong muscle contraction or as clear cut a sense of going over the edge

2) No g spot stimulation was involved

3) I had a wee after and not much came out

4) Think it smelt of wee (though hard to tell as well hydrated)

I didn't feel like I needed to go beforehand but apart from that I'm 90% sure that I just got my body a bit confused and let go by accident without realising. To be honest squirting has never really appealed to me because of the mess, so as much as I'm a bit embarrassed at the idea of essentially wetting myself... I would sort of rather it was that.

If anyone with a bit more experience (in either the squirting or the accidentally weeing department) could let me know what they think just happened that'd be really helpful, thanks!

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First time posting, so be gentle :-) didn't think it was worthy of a new topic.

Squirting is a regular occurrence in the bedroom for us now, and at times it's led to me sleeping in the spare bed due to a frankly huge wet patch. Towels don't seem to do much at all, easily soaking through a doubled up one.

I've been looking at the Liberator Fascinator Throe, now unfortunately love hunny appear to have stopped doing these and after a quick chat with a friendly customer service rep the only alternatives are very plastic slip-and-slide style covers. It's this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10935

Has anyone used the above product? I read a review that says it soaks in about 2l of water, and it looks nice enough to keep on our bed without it's purpose being too obvious :-)

It's pretty expensive though, perhaps why love hunny stopped stocking it? There are alternative pads on amazon for cheaper that may also do the trick but I'm happy to spend a little more for something that works.

I'd also have to find somewhere to buy it, though my preference would obviously be for love hunny to stock it again ;-)

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I've wanted to try squirting too, but I always feel like I have to pee, it makes me tense and I can't let go. My ooh is very nice about it though, he wants me to let go and he says if i pee, then i pee, but it makes me self concious Any ideas?