This was so helpful. I need to show this to my boyfriend when he gets home.
Squirting or even being able to cum at all shouldn't be on anyone's mind before or during sex!
It's very true what's been written here and its about the experience you're both having with one another that's really the magical bit..
So relax and don't sweat it, if it happens then that'll be an awesome achievement, but if not, then it doesn't matter x
This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!
NatandTom wrote:
This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!
Haha, you still crack me up!
Could have done with some sqirting last night, but he's not very well and is exhausted!!
HoneyBear7 wrote:
I've wanted to try squirting too, but I always feel like I have to pee, it makes me tense and I can't let go. My ooh is very nice about it though, he wants me to let go and he says if i pee, then i pee, but it makes me self concious Any ideas?
OH experiences the same thiing....feels like she needs to pee, then this distracts her too much to sometimes even cum. Total mood killer. This sensation is apparently normal, on the way to squirting, but never going to be able to get through the phase if it kills the mood.
Ozz wrote:
NatandTom wrote:
This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!
Haha, you still crack me up!
Could have done with some sqirting last night, but he's not very well and is exhausted!!
Same for you!
In the meantime can you not do it yourself with a wand? I'd of thought that kind of power might be able to make it happen!
I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.
Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.
This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.
My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.
Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.
This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.
My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.
Sounds incredible! Your OH is in for a treat tonight!
When you say when you're about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD, what are you pushing down on, your clit?
Hot Dog wrote:
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.
Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.
This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.
My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.
Sounds incredible! Your OH is in for a treat tonight!
When you say when you're about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD, what are you pushing down on, your clit?
It sure was Hot Dog! Ah well, we will see if he is too tired after work, lol.
It's difficult to explain, but imagine if you're bursting for a pee and you clench to hold it in? You want to do the opposite and really push down on your pelvic floor, like you are trying to push every last drop of pee out (does that make ANY sense?!) I've read somewhere it can help if someone pushes down gently on your abdomen.
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
Hot Dog wrote:
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.
Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.
This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.
My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.
Sounds incredible! Your OH is in for a treat tonight!
When you say when you're about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD, what are you pushing down on, your clit?
It sure was Hot Dog! Ah well, we will see if he is too tired after work, lol.
It's difficult to explain, but imagine if you're bursting for a pee and you clench to hold it in? You want to do the opposite and really push down on your pelvic floor, like you are trying to push every last drop of pee out (does that make ANY sense?!) I've read somewhere it can help if someone pushes down gently on your abdomen.
Oh ok Sugar, get what you're saying. All good info to work with, thanks! It'll be different for everybody I guess, but it sounds like you've worked yourself out, good for you :)
NatandTom wrote:
This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!
Update: It happened yesterday!!
NatandTom wrote:
NatandTom wrote:
This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!
Update: It happened yesterday!!
WOOHOO!
Did you have fun?!
housework boobies? hmmm
Ahh well done and I can confirm that for me personally I do have to push down like I'm trying to squeeze out every drop that's how I do it. Get so messy but so worth it.
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
NatandTom wrote:
NatandTom wrote:
This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!
Update: It happened yesterday!!
WOOHOO!
Did you have fun?!
So much fun! Can't wait to try it again!
rockinrob wrote:
housework boobies? hmmm
Getting there...
Nat - Any tips?! What worked best for you? x
Yeah, I try the pushing down thing, and sometimes I get a slight gush, but not a real squirt as such. Maybe I just need to drink more lol!
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
rockinrob wrote:
housework boobies? hmmm
Getting there...
Nat - Any tips?! What worked best for you? x
You could say it's housework...practicing your bed making skills, cause if you do it right you'll need to change your linen after!
Luv bunny wrote:
Yeah, I try the pushing down thing, and sometimes I get a slight gush, but not a real squirt as such. Maybe I just need to drink more lol!
Yes I found drinking loads before, and making sure your bladder is completley empty and see if that helps? x
sugarboobies2232 wrote:
rockinrob wrote:
housework boobies? hmmm
Getting there...
Nat - Any tips?! What worked best for you? x
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767 this! It hits the g spot perfectly, combined it with a strong clitoral vibrator and just tried to relax and it happened. Took about 3-5 minutes after the needing to wee sensation I just took a deep breath lay back and let go. I think it works best when you're not trying! G spot stimulation seems to be the key x