I started anal play a long time ago, solo, before any girlfriends etc
It wasn’t until about 2010 when I expressed my fantasy to my then girlfriend of about 1 year, that I wanted to use dildos together but she didn’t like the idea of me using them, which was a bit crushing.
So I decided to get some dildos anyway shortly after.
I got 3 different sizes of realistic types, it was mind blowing.
Not long after though, she threw them away sadly.
But since then I have been still having solo dildo fun, I’ve kept it to myself which I wish I didn’t have to.
As of today I have 6 realistic suction cup dildos ranging in sizes, that all have balls which feel great pressing down on, still working on the 3 inch thick one. I have a nice plug as well, which can give an amazing orgasm too suprisingly.
And I love my 2inch x 12 inch which I can take about 9 inches.
Orgasming with these is something else, something sex with a girl can’t give.
I am waiting patiently for the next chance to get them out….
Always had a lot of pleasure from using a dildo on myself.This has led to being pegged and a whole lot more.Solo times i still love the feeling of dildoing myself which my wife and her friend love to watch.
Agree with everyone that there is no way to know for certain how a woman will react about this.
I have experienced a few different reactions. The first time was when I asked the woman I was with if she would try pegging me. She was turned on by the idea and said yes. I started slowly prepping myself with different size butt plugs and dildos while she watched. After a few months, I was ready and she pegged me. I absolutely loved being pegged and she was incredibly turned on from pegging me.
A few years later in a different relationship, I told my girlfriend that I had been pegged before and wondered if she would be interested in trying this with me. I told her that I love playing with my many prostate/butt plug/dildo toys as I experience incredible orgasms. She reacted very negatively. She was angry that I never mentioned this in the several months we had been together. She asked if this meant that I was gay or bisexual because I loved having my ass penetrated. She said she could not be with someone who is bisexual. I had to convince her that I like women. Needless to say, the relationship ended shortly thereafter.
I am now married to an amazing woman. Due to that negative reaction, I still have immense fear of telling her that I have been pegged, loved it and it would be great to experience this with her. However, I am lucky that she loves watching me enjoy using my vibrating butt plugs and dildos on myself as it turns her on.
And this is why I always say talk to a partner about the kinks you have and explain everything about it, just so they understand, Some people aren’t aware of things.
The negative response I received was very unfortunate. I only revealed this to her as she first asked me if I’d mind if she inserted a few fingers in my ass while giving me oral as it turned her on having a guy finish so hard in her mouth. I thought it was an opportunity to let her know I would love it as I’d been pegged before and use anal toys. I guess she was okay with fingers, but not toys being used.
As of your previous experience with an ex GF being overly negative about your enjoyment to pegging, you shouldn’t have let this continue to a negative way of thinking that all partners would be or think in the same way. You should’ve opened up about your kink fetish from the very beginning in your current marriage. However that ship has sailed and now you’ve created a tougher challenge of opening up to your current partner. Anyway that aside there’s an app I heard about on this forum called “spicer”. Both partners download the app and link your accounts together, and it asks you a series of questions, regarding kinks. It could be a great way to express what you like and don’t like. As after you’ve answered the questions your OH can see your answers.
I love getting pegged off my wife and she loves pegging me too, she’s never once asked me if I’m gay or bisexual, as she knows I’m completely heterosexual. Just because some men like the kink of receiving Anal doesn’t make them gay. It’s the same as a woman receiving anal from a male. It’s all speculation and shows how small minded people think.
I think if your OH loves and cares about you unconditionally she will be fine with the idea, as you never know she may fantasise about pegging you, but has never had the courage to bend you over and make the first move. I think you should open up and explain your feelings about it.
It’s a shame that anal play is so misunderstood by so many people. It’s a great way to explore power dynamics and change things up in a relationship and it’s also very pleasurable.
I told my ex partner that I was into it and she reacted excitedly and pegged me multiple times enthusiastically. I absolutely loved it; not just how it felt physically, but I loved seeing her in control and exploring my submissive side. When we broke up I wondered if I would ever meet another woman who accepted that part of me.
I hesitated telling my wife for years for fear of her reacting negatively. I eventually told her and she was fine with it. She’s not as into it as my ex was, but still happily pegs me and doesn’t question my sexuality. But man, I’d love to find a way to get her more into it. I’m thinking of buying a strapless strap on so that she can get more stimulation from it, but need to research it.
I use one on a regular basis and OH loves to masturbate watching me fuck my ass and giving me encouragement to to it deeper and harder I asked if she thinks I should by either a new bigger dildo my current favourite is an 8” suction or a fuck machine her reply was ooh I think we should by both then I can watch as it pounds your tight ass and I can use it also when you want to watch me so I think we’re going to start looking tonight asked her about dildo and she said I think it should be an 8” or 10” bbc I really want to watch you with a big black dick in your mouth and ass and I really want you to watch me take a bbc in my pussy and ass( it has to be a toy as we don’t want another man to join us )
Me and my partner love it, we find it mixes things up quite a bit and opens a whole new avenue of pleasure! we’ve also got a stap on harness to go with it when were feeling extra Naughty.
Having now used a dildo I can say it feels awesome. Definitely nothing to do with your sexual preference, I’m as straight as it gets but love it simply because it feels amazing.
I’ve told my OH and shown her my secret stash. She was fine ( possibly jealous of my two 8" lifelike didos. Slightly bemused by the 18" tentacle and horrified by one huge, vicious looking butt plug ).
She doesn’t want anything to do with it and won’t watch or take part, but she accepts it and doesn’t appear to be judging.
That’ll have to do.
But I am currently levelling up my p-spot skillz and we’ll see if her interest piques when she comes home and has to peel me from the ceiling!
I’m in exactly the same boat, but at least there the relief of it being on the open, felt like sneaking around before I summoned up the courage to tell my wife
I love using a dildo on myself and in slowly working up to something bigger. Just something about stretching my ass which is really hot and makes me very curious for a real cock.
I have always wondered what women get out of it. I want to see my woman come hard, too.
A strapless with vibe. You may need a harness to keep in place. But how good would it be if she gets behind you in the shower and tells you she loves giving it to you, and it turns her on.
I have an 11” x 2 1/2” wide dark brown silicone suction dildo.
I absolutely love working up to it and either using it in the tub and thrusting against it or putting it on my thrusting sex machine, which is an absolute mind blowing situation
I have a couple of dildos and some anal beads. Really enjoy anal play and my OH knows how much I like incorporating it into sex and she likes popping them in and using them on me. I can’t wait for her to peg me.
