Welcome to the party KB. I just recently got a prostate toy, and have used it twice to have great orgasms. I haven’t shown it or used it in front of my OH because I’m shy about it. I don’t think she would be freaked about it though. There have been a few times when she has fingered around my anus when giving me oral, and knows I like it. Maybe I will open up about it to her. Then on the other hand, she thinks I’m over sexed anyway so maybe not.
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Absolutely love it when the OH uses any one of the 3 dildos we have for anal play on me. She is totally good with it and will also finger me when giving me oral. That really gets me going!
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It sounds like it could be on the cards for you soon man with the pegging… especially if she knows you like using the toys for some anal play during your sessions 
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It was buying my first dildo that made me decided to tell my OH, I preferred the idea of being upfront about it rather than her finding it and jumping to conclusions. She’s got no interest in participating, but we do talk about it openly and she give good insights when we’re talking about toys and what not. She does now tease me by calling me ‘Cock Hungry’, as my biggest toy is significantly bigger than hers 
swings and roundabouts i suppose
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Love anal play
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So hope so! Maybe a birthday treat
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Here’s hoping…is that soon?? Today??
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Later this summer, so not long to wait!! Keep you posted!
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Hats off for being upfront with her. There is nothing unusual about a guy using a dildo in his ass. The prostate can be the key to amazing pleasure and orgasms so why no play with it.
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Excellent…a birthday to look forward to then
Yes, please do 
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I’ve never used a toy to help with masterbation, but have used underwear I would be open to trying something new
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We gave a collection of over 40 dildos which my husband uses either for pegging or his own anal pleasure
We often enjoy being loaded and enjoy the feeling of relaxation- this is where we both insert dildos or other toys into ourselves and just lay together. For a man this toy rests on his prostate allowing a calming pleasure while for me it again gives pleasure.
I appreciate some may think straight men using dildos wrong- but we enjoy it ..
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Anyone using a dildo seems perfectly normal to me, straight, gay however you identify. Dildos are great
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Why is it so frowned upon if a guy wants to put something up his ass ,personally i used to be very secretive about liking anything to do with my ass being touched until I was about 27, now im 39 have a small range of toys , my partner now of 9 yrs has pegged me afew times and I love exploring new sensations I can give myself to heighten the sensation
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