Hi Kim may my other half had a bad experience with ffm I have had previous encounters with both ffm and mmf and would love my OH to try ffm so let's see
Hi Kim may my other half had a bad experience with ffm I have had previous encounters with both ffm and mmf and would love my OH to try ffm so let's see
sorry auto correct should have said k I may
I've always thought the idea of it sounds appealing. But I know my wife would be against it so I've never brought it up. Personally if you aren't keen then let him down and explain why it wouldn't happen. If your curious, then perhaps dip a toe in and maybe watch some more programs about it or join a group where you can talk to like-minded folks in the scene.
I've met a few couples and had some great and amazing experiences if you are comfortable with the other person or persons then great as you can meet up a few times and have some filthy naughty fun together :p
Oldsailor wrote:
Quite some time ago my wife and I had our only MMF experience. We spent a night at a good friend’s house where my wife spent part of the night in bed with our friend and the rest of the night in bed with me. No jealousy or awkwardness. It was an intensely erotic experience for all three of us.
We did this too, years ago before kids, still our 'top trump' in this categroy.
Mr&MrsDLPS wrote:
hampshirecouple wrote:
Firstly I wouldn't take much notice of TV documentaries, they tend to be sensationilised and edited in a way that does not reflect reality.
We used to swing, found it an add on to our already healthy sex life. We have made many good friends through the scene, all very normal people with normal jobs and very normal lives (except the swinging). If you can learn to have sex without emotional ties and to enjoy it for what it is...sex, it's a great way to have fun. Clubs are a good place to start as you can go and chat to people, you DON'T have to play with anybody or even with each other, you can go, be social, chat to other couples. I would go on a couples only night as single men can get a bit irritating and that could put you off.
Main thing is, only do it if you are 100% sure it is something you are both happy with, set boundaries before you go, and ensure that if at any time you are not comfortable you OH takes you away from the situation.
I hope this helps, and if you do go for it, don't get drunk before you go, dutch courage is a bad idea, keep your brain fresh so you can make informed decisions
Hi both, interesting that you say “used to swing”, can we ask why you stopped?
We stopped as ill health put a stop to it. It is something we are talking about going back to. It wasn't and bad experience or relationship issue