@Kitty-Cat01 Thank you for your reply! Absolutely not taken negatively and I sincerely appreciate that you would take the time to reply
As far as where this reply is posted to, I didn’t even know that anyone other than Brenna was able to move them. I probably could have saved her some time this weekend if I knew that lol
As far as sex and sex drive, I’m typically the one with higher sex drive. My OH is awesome though with being willing to help me with a bj or handjob when I’m horny but she’s not in the mood.
I found out after the fact that a few times my OH has masturbated instead of asking me for help because she thought I was too tired.
While that is a nice thing of her to do, I’d absolutely love to return the favor of pleasing her orally, using hands, or using toys if she was horny but I wasn’t in the mood.
Full disclosure, once I start to eat out my wife, it goes straight to my cock and it gets me crazy in the mood. Not sure why but it’s like a turbo charge for my libido regardless of how horny I am or am not at the moment.
OH and I strongly agree about keeping each other satisfied even if one of us isn’t in the mood. Don’t want each other to start even unintentionally having eyes for others due to being unsatisfied.
We actually did already have the “I won’t try to feel you up when we cuddle” conversation. Great idea!
I still feel weird a bit though. Not because I have to keep my hands from touching her and I want to, but the whole time I’m focused on keeping my hands from being naughty instead of being able to relax & enjoy the movie we’re watching.
It’s like having to watch food on a plate on the table with a dog around. The dog may or may not even be aware of or try to get the food, but if I have to watch the food to keep it safe from the dog I’m not well able to focus on other things.
I also love spooning my wife. I feel close to her like that. Down side is my manhood seems to be always aware that he’s pressed against her a$$ and springs to life.
Even if I’m not trying to start a sex session, OH typically receives it as such and gets turned off from cuddling in bed. I honestly just can’t help what happens to him down there.
Don’t know why it always seems to happen in the kitchen, but just about any time OH bends over to get something my hands instinctively reach for her firm rear end.
I blame her for having a hot booty but she does often ask me to stop so I’ve been making a legit effort to hold back.
It just feels strange because when we were first together my hands had unlimited access to everything. Now it seems like so much has become unwanted or off limits.
Saying this makes me sad. I might do well to see if anything else is going on.
Anyway @Kitty-Cat01. Thanks again for your feedback. Very kind of you to share your thoughts with me. Of course in keeping with forum guidelines, I welcome feedback from all members
Wish you all a great week!