You find the right person and you can have both 
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Enjoy your well deserved long weekend @Lovehoney_Brenna! 
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Your crochet work is beautiful.
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Thankyou! Iām enjoying the creative process and trying to think of things that may actually sell on Etsy.
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@glitterismyfavouritecolour very creative hun well done 
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Does anybody think you can have your pussy licked too much?
Asking for a friend 
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Iāve had a sore tongue from overuse before
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As a man I would say no I could easily spend hours doing it
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@carzy: replying here as Iām sincerely trying to do better at not derailing threads
We have actually played & she used a plug in me. It got awkward because I wasnāt as experienced as I thought I was and it got painful.
She was feeling kinda nervous about it anyway and it kinda crashed. Not to the point of ānever gonna try this againā but at least for that session.
That was a few years ago. Since then Iāve gotten a lot more into self anal play and ordered several toys in the past few months.
Bought a beginner pegging strap on set that was on sale for valentineās day.
Been practicing with the larger of the two dildos both anally & orally (if she decides to get super kinky)
Can take the toy pretty decently if I do a warm up session before hand. Orally I can proudly deep throat it all the way. My first oral success and it was just a few weeks ago. Nowhere near able to take thrusting orally though. But I imagine an awkward look on her face when Iām the one showing her how to deep throat 
Since weāre done anal play before, and she didnāt exit the room screaming, Iām thinking I can approach the subject again and maybe eventually get pegging on her āokā list.
Currently itās not on either her yes or no list
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Ok, the coast is clear. Time to ask my super secret question: is @Lovehoney_Brenna a single (as in one, not āavailableā) person or is that the account that all of the admins use?
Mainly asking because āsheā said sheād be off this weekend so I was curious if it was actually just one person or if the admins simply run the account and simulate that sheās a person
Hereās Brenna:
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@anon8189768 ruined orgasms for ladies is definitely a thing. Everyones different, but for me i usually get the normal build up, then instead of coming the feeling just sort peters off in to a few tremors or half hearted contractions instead of the real deal. Most frustrating.
Ive never had someone (myself included) intentionally ruin an orgasm for me, so it being done lile that is probubly a different experience in many dimentions, but i know its in the bdsm book of tricks. Usually it happens by accident
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@Green_Eyed_Girl Thanks. Iām most familiar with it being a BDSM trick. For guys itās supposed to allow for more frequent orgasms of theyāre constantly āruinedā. No practical experience to speak from.
I now feel bad knowing itās an unintentional thing on your end.
Would love to have Mistress ruin me and laugh at my misery 
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Iāll check this out after work? Wonāt be here much longer today anyway AND tomorrow is a day off for me
Yeah, xD edging is still an ongoing learning curve for me at the moment.
You could always add it to your ālist of things i havent experienced yetā and try it on yourself. Not as much kink as with a domme most likely, but still an interesting experiment.
@Green_Eyed_Girl Iāll add it to that list for sure.
Often during hand jobs my wife will study my face to try to see when my orgasm is approaching.
Iām actually remarkable at my orgasm poker face and am able to hide the impending explosion.
I donāt know if my wife officially knows about ruined orgasms but she has definitely been trying to find my spot so she can, I imagine anyway, edge and/or deny me.
Iām typically less vocal until the main event but I was intentionally trying to verbalize where I was during a hj session to let my wife know how sheās doing.
I went back to silent ninja assassin mode when I saw that she was starting to try to catch me & stop stroking when Iām close lol
Sheās always disappointed she didnāt catch me but impressed at how far that first shot shoots.
Iām worried that one day sheāll figure out my patterns and actually be able to edge or ruin me intentionally.
Though with my sub fantasy that might be a good thing
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Great term . āsilent ninja assassin modeā also made me laugh.
Sounds like you two have alot of fun playing cat and mouse.
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@Green_Eyed_Girl I caught her once. I had my eyes closed as I was really feeling what she was doing.
I felt her start to make moves she didnāt normally do before and when I opened my eyes she was smiling a happy yet mischievous smile. It was like she was enjoying trying to be naughty and thought she wouldnāt get caught because my eyes were shut.
She just laughed when I opened my eyes and she realized I saw her face. From then on it was silent ninja assassin mode lol
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I was going to suggest getting a bdsm encycolpedia/pdf and āaccidentallyā leaving it open at the right page, but it sounds like she knows what shes after. 
heres hoping you might get You get your fantasy fulfilled some time
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Thanks! I do too 
Also I think it would be irritatingly hilarious if I left a BDSM book out and it turned out sheās been wanting to Dom me for a while already.
Maybe her response would be to leave the same book out but turned to a more extreme page.
I think my heart would stop lol
Sheād be hiding when she knew Iād have a chance to see it. Then sheād step out from the shadows wearing full leather/latex Dom gear, and give my a$$ a playful but serious CRACK from her 6ā whip letting me know sheās in charge and that the dynamics of our relationship had just changed 
