I earn way more than her too! It’s horrible to say but I honestly think she’s still with me for that reason, her wages are garbage and I pay for everything to do with the house, my vans insurance x4 diesel and her car finance, tax insurance the lot! She couldn’t support herself an I know it! I think that’s part the reason I’m still here too because I’d hate her living in a hovel struggling all the time! X
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That must be a horrible feeling for you to carry 
I would hate it if my husband thought that. So I tell him to his face instead 
half joking- I’m not only with him for the money (although the security is lovely!) I’m with him for the sex and he knows it 
I love him to pieces though- warts and all!
It’s not for you to stay with her just so she doesn’t struggle though. You both deserve happiness and if that isn’t happening that’s not helping either of you. You are supposed to be her lover, her confident, her partner, her support, her friend- and she yours! You’re not her parent, it is not your responsibility to ensure she lives the life of luxury. It’s all give and take in life. But is someone is constantly taking and not giving it makes for resentment and unbalance x
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That’s really noble @SteelA1. My OH earns crap money, and I spoil her and spend thousands on repairs to her house.
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Money doesn’t bother me to be fair! If I’ve got it I’ve got it! If I haven’t then I’ll earn it! I’ve had money and I’ve been on my arse! I’d give my last penny to someone who generally needed it 
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Me too, it does me in watching adverts like Great Ormond street, I donate to charities and it makes me feel I’m making a difference.
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That’s an impressive collection of glass you’ve got there @MsSubExperimenter 
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@wildflower haha thanks… I seem to be a little bit addicted!
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Great selection, love the twisty one on the left, not a shape ive seen before. So pretty 
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Hey all! Gah I’ve missed it here. Having a mooch about this afternoon and am feeling rather out of the loop, actually can’t remember the last time I used the forum but it has been a very busy couple of months 
hope everyone is okay 
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Lovely to hear from you @VanillaWithSprinkles
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Hey there, VWS - good to see you!
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Glad to hear from you, you have been missed. @VanillaWithSprinkles
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Welcome back @VanillaWithSprinkles! How are you doing? You’ve been missed!
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We missed you hun!
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Thanks @KinkyMira @PleasureDrone @steve19 @Silkyhat I’ve missed you all too
@MsSubExperimenter I’ve just been inundated at work really, plus was going through job interviews buuuut finally landed one and am starting in a new job at the end of the month so will see if that helps things!
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Yay - Great to see you back @VanillaWithSprinkles , quiz thread has really missed you and hooray for the new job!
Congratulations! 
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Nice to see you back @VanillaWithSprinkles
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Always lovely to see you pop up @VanillaWithSprinkles! Glad the job hunt was a success. 
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@VanillaWithSprinkles all the better now your back hun 
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Welcome back @VanillaWithSprinkles, I’m glad you’re ok
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