Search pegging in the search bar and you’ll find loads of threads on it.
Thanks - brand new to this so just finding my way!
maybe just the thought of a woman wearing a phallus shaped object and being “the top” is just too much for you at this point in your life.
So just go with how you feel and start with toys, and maybe one day that will change or maybe not,
just keep an open mind people and taste change with time.
I kind of get where you come from. I am a straight male and have enjoyed pegging from my Mrs (from my idea after joking around about it)
But I still wouldn’t want anything to ‘penisy’ in my bum. Neither of us would call the strap on attachment a ‘cock’ it’s a ‘dildo’. The same goes for its shape and colour. I fully get and sadly understand that a penis shape dildo will usually work pretty damn well for us, but you can still get good ones that don’t have balls or you can stick to non flesh coloured ones.